Need help getting back into the game

[shonen7]

Hey there everybody, I've got a bit of a problem I need help resolving.

I want to start playing FFR again after a long break but being a long time velocity engine player I can't get used to R^3. The only reason I'm making the switch between engines is because I started having problems with my eyes losing focus frequently whenever I used the velocity engine and R^3 is easier on the eyes.

My main problem is that I can't find settings in R^3 that accurately replicate what I was using in velo's engine. I played at 1.9 speed in velo and everything I've tried so far in R^3 is either too fast or too slow. I've narrowed the speed down to somewhere between 2.35 and 2.1 but that leads me to my next problem.

I can't find the right offset, it always seems like I'm hitting the notes too late. I don't know if its due to me not having the right speed set or just being a picky bitch that can't find the exact spot where its feels the most comfortable. What I've been trying to use so far is 0.5 global with 0.5 judge but then that desyncs the receptors when you press a key, making them lag behind everything else. Which brings me to last problem and probably the biggest problem I have.

There is no weight behind key presses. It feels like I'm playing with the music muted. I press a key to hit a note and expect there to be beat in the music or something else to let me know I hit the note. In DDR you can feel when you hit the arrow, in jubeat there is a clear visual indicator that lets you know you hit the note, same thing with cytus there is a clear audio indicator that you hit the note, and same with reflec beat just to name a few other games I've been playing to satisfy my rhythm game addiction.

So I've finally cracked and I'm turning to the community to throw settings at me until either something works or I'm doneski and the boys. I'll list my current settings for both velo and R^3 to see if anyone else can bridge the gap between the two because at this point I'll try anything and everything.

Current velo:
1.9x speed, dark

Current R^3:
2.35 speed, 0.5 global offset, 0.5 judge offset
75 receptor spacing, dark

tl:dr I can't find comfy settings, suggest settings similar to my own cause I can't get gud anymore.

Edit: Sticking to Franks suggestion for the time being. Music still feels off, like I'm too late but I'll keep checking the thread to see if any more suggestions pop up.