A topic that hits close to the average nerd's heart.

[Arch0wl]

She's saying girls are attracted to strong guys who seem to be able to protect her. This is understandable, but a lot of times guys get buff because they want to score more, not because they want to protect someone.

Girls are too trusting when they're physically attracted to someone. However, guys are a lot worse than girls when they don't give a shit about you. People think girls are... this isn't true. Guys will give just as much, if not more emotional abuse towards you as girls do to guys. And they'll hit you when you try to speak up, too.

[themanwithsauce]

She's saying girls are attracted to strong guys who seem to be able to protect her. This is understandable, but a lot of times guys get buff because they want to score more, not because they want to protect someone

That's very true, also on the subject of abusive boyfriends- though a giant muscleman may be able to protect you better he can also hit you that much harder.

Good guys will always get the royal screw job no matter where we go or what we do to try and please others, why? There's too many women who aren't at the same ntelligent level as the good guy. I like dating smarter women that the dumb blonde ones. I feel much more attracted to the smart ones even if all the dumbfuck abusive boyfriends think that some blonde is hotter. And the smart ones are also more likely to pick the non-abusive good guy. Well at least the smart guy. Some of the smart pnes are also getting abusive....damn... there's no way to prove that im a good guy anymore.

[xObserveRx]

lol, yeah, and your sig helps too....

Arch, i think you do have it right, but I think at least guys are straight forward about it. In my experiences, if you're getting the shaft by your girlfriend (and i meant getting walked all over and what not, you pervs), then its most likely a hidden thing. Girls like to get the runaround effect going on, and that's a major pet peeve.

[alvask8er]

And they'll hit you when you try to speak up, too.

That right there is a big problem. I dont reacall reading any responses about how hitting girls is wrong, which makes me sick.
I always hear the "oh you're so sweet/nice," doesnt really get me anywhere, but i guess im well-liked. Im on my schools chess team, i got 100th out of 112 on board 3 at state, but i got the MVP this year since i improved so much since last year(didnt go to state last year:P) I play videogames a lot, and i used to play Magic, but i realized how much that stuff is cardboard crack....and im just a nerdish fellow. But being in highshcool , relationships arent really worth it. About one of ten relationships last through highschool, and then one of 50 of those work out later, only to get a divorce. I found it useless to worry about girls anymore in highschool. You should just enjoy your youth anyway you can, be it relationship or just hanging out. I like girls, many have brains and are great eye candy (ie Jam:P)...back on topic, like some others said, just wait a while, good things come to those who wait right? Kinda. But one shouldnt get upset too much in adolessence, but if this continues to adulthood, um...maybe love isnt for you? Dont know.

[Chrissi]

DAMN RIGHT.


but i got lucky as hell, though. i met my gf of 2 years now IN AN ONLINE GAME. how lucky is that? all that cuteness really works, in spades, over the internet. sounds kinda dorky to you guys, but lemme AXE ya this: who WOULDNT want to meet a cute asian girl over an online game and later create a meaningful relationship that would last a lifetime, and even later, screw her silly? i rest my case.

You sound like one of the assholes. Sorry. I'm not saying you are an asshole. Just it seems that you are primarily focused on sex. You aren't what this thread is talking about. Most of you don't seem like what this thread is talking about. Nice guys. Not guys who think they don't get enough sex, geez...

[LEGO]

As I've found out, most girls like confidence. Something that I don't have, and something that I'm ok with.

Sometimes you just gotta wait, and realize that sooner or later the right match for you is going to come alone.

[Ice-Dragon]

Waiting is the problem...

[Laharl]

Shameless whoring of my last blog entry.

It fits with this topic perfectly.

Comments are appreciated, unless you're going to be an asshole about it.

[NeoDarkHeart]

no, i'm not an asshole to, nor do i disrespect my girlfriend.

i'm just bragging, so yeah i'm kind of being an asshole. lol.

alva: the whole "hitting is wrong" thing was a given, and not really needed to be pointed out, but yeah you're right in basically everything you said. most girls in high school arent looking for a serious relationship, and the ones that are are screwed because most guys in high school arent, either. if a guy is ready for a commitment, then he's usually too shy to start it. if a girl is ready for a commitment, she's usually mistrusting of guys because of past assholes, and/or because she's shy as well.

this is where luck/fate/god/whatever pops in and two people meet and actually love eachother. doesnt happen often, but when it does, it's almost definitely the 1/3 of eventual marraiges that dont end up in divorce.

so yeah. pray. or roll dice. or something. i dunno.