Wheres the line, promiscuity.

[GG_Guru]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

What's wrong with being a slut?

[qqwref]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

I dont think any man would say no to sex though. I mean if hot girls wanted to do you right there, would you really say no? I know I wouldn't say no.

I can definitely think of situations where I'd say "no" and mean it.

Also, what about gay men? (Or asexuals?)

[passivegirl]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

What's wrong with being a slut?

Promotes all the wrong things you'd look for in a partner. Hints that the guy most likely does not have respect for long-term relationships nor holds any spark of interest in dedication and, of course, faithfulness.

Also, repeated mindless sexual activities can be seen as a borderline psychological problem, and immediately puts women seeking for sturdy relationships completely off. Makes them view you as if you have a disease (not as in STD, but there's a high chance you have that as well). The only ones that will actually engage in activity with a relentlessly sexually promiscuous man are those that are desperate, impulsive, and often... idiots.

Encounters you will have with women will usually not last for more than a day. The most meaningful relationship you may ever have while participating in this behavior is one with a woman interested in recurring mindless sexual activity.

Hope this answers your question.

[nois-or-e]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

I used to change girls almost weekly during my slutty teenage years. And yes, ds is right. What are the figures? 1 a week, 20 a month? But then again, ****ing around is ****ing around in the end. You'll get over it. Slut.

[kommisar[os]]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

depends on your values towards sex. for some it's just pleasure, some it's sacred, some it's for people they really care about.

[Zer0_Kool]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

Hmm being someone who sees both sides I think to be honest its in everyones blood to being a little "unfaithful." I mean you can't say your past relationships don't pop up in your head and sometimes your like "yeah that was good sex" but its just that a thought. If you cheat or whatever you must have some reason. Maybe she was just a super hot girl and you couldn't control yourself. Your human it happens but admitting it is the first step into setting a boundary. But if you do it again that just means that your not ready for a closed relationship. Its just a part of what makes us human. Hey I can't lie some of my past relationships had good sex and sometimes I think about. Yeah sometimes I'm like "hmm I'd like to do it one more time" but would I do it given the chance? Probably not its cause I'm alone and the person I'm with isn't around. You wander but it doesn't mean I want it over what I got. But its all on how you view it. Whether it be that oral is considered sex that is your terms. Theirs alot of ball and chain in this but thats something you have to figure out. I know I was notorious for changing girls like I do underwear and if your doing that you better make sure your STD free. But eventually you will get tired of it. If not theres this thing called porn and in that business you meet different people 24/7.

[x After Dawn x]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

All men want sex, it's the self-control factor that stops us.

Yes.

Most men also want to kill someone...it's all about the control.

This, I'm going to have to disagree with...not many men have the urge to kill someone. I'm sure many do, but definitely not close to the majority of men.

What's wrong with being a slut?

Oh gee, nothing, nothing at all. Dumbass.

[Necros140606]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

not many men have the urge to kill someone. I'm sure many do, but definitely not close to the majority of men.

you're wrong. any human would kill if that makes him/her survive. the reason you say so is that you haven't found yourself in a very critical situation, and your education does the rest, but killing is inside the nature of every living being, and you better know this well. the ones who think they're not supscetible to these istincts are the first ones to fall.

[x After Dawn x]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

you're wrong. any human would kill if that makes him/her survive. the reason you say so is that you haven't found yourself in a very critical situation, and your education does the rest, but killing is inside the nature of every living being, and you better know this well. the ones who think they're not supscetible to these istincts are the first ones to fall.

Sorry, but I don't live in a dog-eat-dog anarchist society.

[qqwref]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

That's not really related, Necros. The point of the killing argument was to confirm/deny the statement "Most men also want to kill someone...it's all about the control." Having the urge to kill, and having to kill to survive, are two entirely different things. I don't deny that most people would kill someone else if (a) they could pull it off and (b) it really legitimately was the best thing to do in the situation (see: war), but that's a lot different than having an urge to kill and staving it off with self-control.

[poleaxe]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

As long as u don't go whoring around with tons of people you're not a slut.

[Necros140606]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

...that's a lot different than having an urge to kill and staving it off with self-control.

nope, it's not. everytime you feel you hate someone, there's a part of you which is pushing towards the elimination of the rival. do you ever read some psychology book? you don't know anything about how your own mind works, just like everyone else in this thread who declares such idiotic things about promiscuity.

[Tokzic]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

ontopic: even though you're a guy, IMO you shouldn't waste your body on someone unless you've been with them a verrrry long time and are truly passionate about them. it would also help if you planned on staying with them 'forever' and all that jazz.

This is the exact sort of mindless thinking that prudes love, and love to instill in their children.

What am I wasting when I fuck someone for the first time (besides semen, but don't worry, I'll make more)? My "virginity"? Oh bloody no. Tell me, do you remember the first time you played a board game? Was it a magical, memorable experience that overshadowed every other time you did it afterwards? What about your first haircut? Your first time eating a chocolate bar?

You probably don't. Want to know why? Because first times are completely overblown in importance for absolutely no reason. The only people who find sex a big deal are people who haven't had sex and people who have giant social problems that will repel the opposite gender forever.

Next question.

How about the OP.

Sluttiness is a very simple thing to measure.

1. Are you having sex over once a month?

No? Go to 3.

2. a) Are you responsible with conraception, using at least two forms when you have sex, and talking with your partner before about possibility of pregnancy?

If no, go to 4.

b) Are you responsible about your partners, only having sex with people you trust? This stops STDs and drama.

If no, go to 4.

c) Do you make sure that your partner is not emotionally invested (interested in you or taken) before engaging in casual sex?

If no, go to 4. Otherwise, keep trucking.

3. You're not slutty, or are an ex-slut.

4. You are promiscuous, but you are too dumb with sex for that to be an appropriate word. You are a slut.

Technically, promiscuity and sluttiness are interchangable save for the connotation, but I like to put that connotation to use. Promiscuity is a perfectly admirable trait if you are intelligent about sex. Contrary to the popular belief in this thread that lots of sex ALWAYS LEADS TO STDS OH NO, talking about it beforehand will prevent it better than any condom, and even better, having sex with only people you trust is a great way to stop them, too. Talking about what happens in the event of pregnancy is a must, too.

Most people are too dickheaded to do any of this, sadly, and end up with pregnancies that they didn't talk about with mothers that don't want to abort. Or have sex with complete strangers and get herpes.

Being an idiot about sex is what should be looked down upon. Don't take it out on promiscuity, people - I get plenty of tail from plenty of different girls, and my dick and parental status are clean.

ps necros is virtually the only one in this thread who has a clue what he's talking about

[Dr Tran]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

tokzic knows what he's talking about

[passivegirl]

Re: Wheres the line, promiscuity.

Now, you're relating sex to... playing a board game, eating candy, and getting a haircut? So you're a whore *and* boring in bed. No wonder you don't think anything of doing it.

The only people who find sex a big deal are people who haven't had sex and people who have giant social problems that will repel the opposite gender forever.

On the contrary. The people who find sex a big deal are those who realize that sex is generally best when meaningful, and when you can truly relate to the person. Besides, when it's with someone you trust and know extremely well, you can even open up to them about all the strange fetishes you have (**** the Internet) for maximum goodness.

The rest of your post is mainly boring, but this made me lol:

Promiscuity is a perfectly admirable trait if you are intelligent about sex.

wat


Have a good one.