So me and my girlfriend are in a fight...

[MrRubix]

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This is my plan, I'm just going to not talk to her at all, if she wants to talk to me she can, if she moves on the **** her and I'll move on. I did everything for her, she doesn't understand that. I would take her to the clinic when she gets sick, pick her up when she missed the bus for her coop, **** like that. I'm always first to call, when he hamster died, or her first rabbit she called me, her dads never home so I'm there to bring her home sometimes(he pays me though)

Atleast I can get my Honda S2000 now and not worry about bringing all her damn bags.

So I have to ask you, then, what does she do for you? Has she shown the same level of commitment/effort?

[xXDeltaXx]

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So I have to ask you, then, what does she do for you? Has she shown the same level of commitment/effort?

I find that if a relationship isn't at a leveled commitment, It is usually the man who shows the greater commitment.

[MrRubix]

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I find that if a relationship isn't at a leveled commitment, It is usually the man who shows the greater commitment.

Depends on the relationship. You'll find plenty that fall into the "Guy bends over backwards to do everything for the girl but doesn't really stand up for himself and is effectively a doormat that the girlfriend doesn't respect" category, and others that fall into the "Guy is pretty much using the girl for sex and won't mind being lavished upon until he gets bored of the emotional dissonance" category.

Either way, you need to set some boundaries. Never put up with any crap -- if someone continues to give you said crap, you walk out. The hard part is knowing when to call it quits. In my opinion, you just learn where that point is from experience once you better refine what it is you want in your boy/girlfriend and what you will/won't tolerate.

Eventually you'll hopefully find something that has mutual respect.

[Windscarredfaith]

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Lol yeah I was so confused when I read the first post. But now that it's been explained more, I completely agree with the idea of "if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was."

[welsh_girl]

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Maybe she really doesn't like you anymore.

p.s Period is a lame excuse to be in a mood and ****.

[Etylukah]

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Invest your time in your own life.
???
Profit.

[scientific]

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Sounds Like A Serious Relation ship man too bad its sinking

[customstuff]

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Honda S2000

Handling is INSANE. Definitely go for it

[Cj_leonine]

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Dude, in all honesty you're just making this sound like some sort of a childish game. I'm going to act this certain way and hope it works so she'll take me back.

You are wasting your time to try and reconcile anything you have with someone as immature as your ex. Sorry to badmouth her but if you're in a relationship with someone and you cannot communicate what the hell is wrong, you don't need to be in one. It just causes a lot of frustration and tension.

But I'd really go with what Rubix is saying. She might mean a lot to you but do you REALLY know how much you mean to her?

[mnnicol]

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Ignore the bitch n move on

Ezy

[Zageron]

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Buying items/trinkets for people all the time is a really bad idea. They should appreciate you for the comfort and company you give them, and the dates you take them on. (Not the presents they get from you.)

[DotKritic]

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When she comes back for you, but for advice and you want to help, be careful what you say. My ex occasionally overreacts when I give her advice. And it's pretty damn good honest advice.

edit: As for the items you got her, unless she gives them back to you, you're pretty much out of luck.

[Litodude]

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Hey is this your ex

Play Nice

has she seen this thread

[sameoldbloodrush!]

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Even dating someone for two years, if they act that way obviously they aren't mature enough to be in a serious relationship. Sounds like you were generous to her and treated her how any girl would want to be treated, basically. Lollll. Like everyone else said already, it's probably best to be done with her.

Simply said:
Mom sounds like a prostitute, and she just sounds like a bitch.

[Sweet Serenity]

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Time heals all wounds. Just give her time, she'll come to her senses. If giving your girlfriend flowers causes her to bitch and scream at you, I don't even WANT to know what would happen if she caught you cheating on her or something..