Sorry for being an asshole lately

[evilbutterfly]

Re: Sorry for being an asshole lately

You took your first AP tests this year, so I'm guessing you're a Junior/Senior. Just rough it out through high school then gtfo and live on-campus at college. Then get a job (not treasuretrooper rofl) and apartment and don't move back home. Be glad it's getting bad now and not years ago when you were far away from a time you'd be able to move out.

PS:

she wants HALF of what is made from when we sell the house (the house is worth over 800k)

She obviously just wants a set of icicles, but it sounds like she doesn't deserve mokbis. >=(

[vashthestampede0987]

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... I can't believe you just made a MS reference.

PS Use Strafe on her.

[dAnceguy117]

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Don't worry about apologizing to people. Feeling bad about things you've done because of stress will only make you feel worse. No one really takes insults from unknowns over the internet seriously, anyway. Just don't worry about it. And as Chrissi said, if you ever want to vent your anger, feel free to do it in TGB. As long as you don't photoshop people's faces onto Hitler, you're fine.

As for weekends, get out of the house as much as possible, granted that's not one of the things that sets your mom off. Hope things turn out well.

[FluorescentArmy]

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Exactly why I am never marrying or having children.

[ckj846]

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You took your first AP tests this year, so I'm guessing you're a Junior/Senior. Just rough it out through high school then gtfo and live on-campus at college. Then get a job (not treasuretrooper rofl) and apartment and don't move back home. Be glad it's getting bad now and not years ago when you were far away from a time you'd be able to move out.

PS:


She obviously just wants a set of icicles, but it sounds like she doesn't deserve mokbis. >=(

I'm a sophomore. Well now the house is quiet because my mom went on her unexpected "vacation" so my stress level went way down. Thanks a lot everyone once again. I was thinking about spending some time in tgb, but I think I might get carried away and turn my image into a huge asshole which really isn't me =/
O_o

[Tokzic]

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I'm a sophomore. Well now the house is quiet because my mom went on her unexpected "vacation" so my stress level went way down. Thanks a lot everyone once again. I was thinking about spending some time in tgb, but I think I might get carried away and turn my image into a huge asshole which really isn't me =/
O_o

No one's themselves in TGB, and everyone will realize it's not you.

But TGB really has nothing to do with this, especially since your problem's pretty much solved now. From what you've told me it sounds like she'll be back really soon though.

[ckj846]

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Well my dad is being an asshole now that my mom isn't around. He is going crazy over house cleaning and its really pissing me off how he is starting to favor my sister WAY more then me. Like today; just a random thing but I was playing Maple and my sister starts to download a ****LOAD of anime. I told my dad to compromise and have her download the stuff after a certain time just to be fair right? So I tell my dad to go talk to her about it and 2 hours later when I'm still lagging, I go downstairs to get something to drink where my dad is just sitting on his lazy ass watching tv. I yell at him about not actually taking my words seriously and just accepting my existence and he yells at me to clean my room because the painters are coming tomorrow or w/e. Geeze today was a horrible day. The same thing happened also when we went to Albertsons... I wanted something and he totally blows me off but ends up buying everything for my sister (she bought like $50 in **** food and I got nothing). I mean not to sound like a whiny bitchy boy but seriously, this is just ****ed up. I'm tired of this.
O_o

[MCRenaissance]

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Instead of yelling at your dad you should have explained to him what your words meant. As far as he knows, your're mad for some reason and he is just going to get out of the way. If you put it in the terms that you put it right now I don't think he would know what the hell you're talking about. Explain it to him and tell him why you are annoyed. As far as Albertsons, he probably didn't buy you anything because he was still mad at you for having raised your voice at him. Try to refrain from doing this. I realize it can be hard but you must try. Also don't blame your sister. Look at it from her point of view. Her brother is being punished and she is being treated well. Sure she might feel bad for you but what else do you expect her to do? Give up her luxurious spot that she is in just to make you feel better? Some people are selfish. You can try to change them but you better do it while they're still young so that the habit doesn't have enough time to sink in. Just try not to do anything to annoy your dad. Maybe he isn't doing everything he should be doing as a parent, but atleast he is clothing you, feeding you, and giving you a shelter. I do think that if you respect him and not challenge him he'll equally do the same thing for you. Hope you have a better day tomorrow!
Peace,
MCRenaissance

[ckj846]

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Well the thing about my sister is... She is the one who is the attention whore who turned emo for the attention(well it seems like it. She dies her hair a different color like every month and when people comment on it, she smiles and goes "man, it was expensive... sigh") and she is the one who is using this whole divorce thing to her advantage. She gets so much **** from my parents because she guilts them into it. I mean, of course (from my parent's point of view) they are going to want custody so they will spend money on their children more then they normally would. I don't consider my sister selfish, I consider her twisted. I mean, my sister and I were really close before this whole divorce thing and now she has turned into a demon child. As for my dad... I know I shouldn't have yelled at him quite like that but he really was pissing me off because of all the freedom my sister has and all the supervision I'm under just because I don't suck up to him for money/other things.
O_o

[hydrojakep]

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Wow. I've never had experience in these matters, but i'd recommend going to your friends for support. Just vent out on them, kinda like you did here in this thread.

It will help.

[Lightknight924]

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Wow. I've never had experience in these matters, but i'd recommend going to your friends for support. Just vent out on them, kinda like you did here in this thread.

It will help.

Not really, most people won't give a damn unfortuanatly......there are few who do. Well, a lot of people I know are complete assholes when it comes to supporting someone in their time of need.

[hydrojakep]

Re: Sorry for being an asshole lately

Well, just start ranting to the right person. Odds are they'll shut up and understand.

Not smart to do at school or when you're with a lot of people though.

[MCRenaissance]

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You should only do it one on one. With a friend that you know will listen and give you the best advice that you can. You shouldn't talk about it with any jackass that won't even care.

[laughsitup2005]

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Trust me when I say that you got it easy compared to the other kids who are being raped every day by their father or mother and not even knowing what it is called or what it can do. But, I do feel the pain of the injust idiot parents who control everything from how much you don't do, to how much you overdo, to accidentally peeing one molecule over or under her restricitons. Truth is, life and parents is a bitch. If it is over the line, call the police and call neglect or abuse, or ask if they can help you with the situation and how to deal with it. If they have the lines monitored, run at night to a caring neighbor and ask them to call the police.

[k_lo_w00t]

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The same **** is going on in my house, except my mother is "normal". But don't worry about whose going to pay for school. For financial aid, all you have to do is say you live under one parent’s roof. School will give you more financial that way. Also, try to get all student loans, so that the parents you choose to live with won’t have to worry about the other parent and if they will help. Also since their married and generally speaking... everything is 50/50 so whatever they get for selling the house gets split. My father tried to pull over a rather large stock in my mother’s name. That didn’t go over well. Money and custody is the biggest problem adults can face.