I'm gonna get so much grief for writing this.....

[sk8r_daniel]

I didn't read all the topics, but leets face it....human's are too complex to be monogamous. The only reason we think we are is because society tells us to be..and society is created by a collective of thoughts....some more influental than others. The best way to go about it is not to play blame games and be compassionate and respect your partner's feelings and vice versa. At the same time you have to evaluate your own feelings and if they are valid. Remember you are not always right... (sorry this was a very broad statement, but i seriously think it would solve alot of problems if everyone followed it.) We always get the select idiots who purposefully hurt other people or hurt other peole without even knowing it because they don't take the time to think about what they are doing.

[[Prophecy]]

I've had more than one long lasting, meaningful relationships without sex. I'm not sure why people seem to think its so hard. Then again, things are often very hard when you don't even try.

[Schrammbledeggs]

Many people feel obligated to have sex in a relationship. They both think the other wants it so they do it. Plus, sex is one of the most intimate things two people can do together. It IS hard to have a long lasting, meaningful relationship without sex.

[[Prophecy]]

Many people feel obligated to have sex in a relationship. They both think the other wants it so they do it. Plus, sex is one of the most intimate things two people can do together. It IS hard to have a long lasting, meaningful relationship without sex.

I've never had any problems. Like I said, things always are alot harder if you never try. Its a mental roadblock if you believe something is difficult and expect failure.

[Tonberry_Kid]

Well, what makes it even harder, is the fact once you have sex once with a certain person, each and everytime that one person asks if you want to do it, you either feel obligated or just know you can do it with them. Plus sex can be addicting if you have an addiction gene in your family. Not necessarily crack addicting, just you have to do it once every now and then or you get bitchy and cranky.

A relationship without sex that is long and meaningful is easy, as long as you have never had sex before.

[Mindfields]

Re: RE: I

I also think a guy would be more forgiving towards a cheating girlfriend than the other way around.

Yeah, that's because we know that there are so few others that would like to "romp around" with us.
We're dogs.

[Schrammbledeggs]

RE: Re: RE: I

I just don't think that wanting someone to "romp around" is a bad thing. We're not dogs because of it.

[ruifio894]

RE: Re: RE: I

Praise the lord. I can't agree with you more. You stole my words dude. If only every girl knew this.

[Guess_who9291]

Grief is for the weak and only seen in the eyes of the beholder :P