I'm gonna get so much grief for writing this.....

[jamuko]

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girly stuff

So how old are you? I really have no idea, but going along with the average forum user's age, I'm going to say like 16? Give it a few years an see if things change. They probably will.

I don't know about that... I'm 19. Seems like things have already had plenty of time. Yeah, I know I'm still young, but puberty is well over. (Not that I want anything to change; I'm perfectly happy this way. I just seem to be in the minority, I've found.)

..."Girly stuff"? XD

[Schrammbledeggs]

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Intercourse is overrated. It's lost most of its credibility and is only truly special in the heat of the moment. So many people do it today cause it's something to do...an activity just like playing Nintendo or watching a movie.

Person A: Sex or watch a movie?
Person B: How about sex real fast then we can catch Narnia at 9?
Person A: Sound good let's hurry up.

[whorlichan]

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Intercourse is overrated. It's lost most of its credibility and is only truly special in the heat of the moment. So many people do it today cause it's something to do...an activity just like playing Nintendo or watching a movie.

I don't agree with that. If your relationship is meaningful enough, sex should be a fun activity but not something as throwaway as you make it seem. Besides...if the guys on this site put as much effort into sex as they do into getting ridiculously high scores on their video games, their sex lives must be ASTOUNDING.

And what do you mean by "credibility"? I'm not being sarcastic, I would like to know what you mean because I don't think I'm reading you right.

[jewpinthethird]

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girly stuff

So how old are you? I really have no idea, but going along with the average forum user's age, I'm going to say like 16? Give it a few years an see if things change. They probably will.

This doesnt really pertain to the topic. More directed towards Jamuko.

When I was 16, there were three things I thought about: Sex, Cars, and Music. And when I was hungry: Food. When I was 13 there were three things I thought about: Sex, Music, and Evangelion. When I was 11 there were three things I thought about: Sex, Skateboarding, and ska. When I was 10 there were three things I thought about: Skateboarding, South Park, and how funny the word dildo was...which relates to sex.

So as you can see. Not thinking about sex just doesnt register with me. I dont see how any normal male could not think of sex. If you dont, then in my opinion, there is something really wrong with you. Don't take this the wrong way, but if you have no desire to have sex and reproduce, then maybe that's evolutions way to saying "hey, no need to pass on your genes."

Or maybe you are just asexual...like a cactus or something.

And I think what Schcrambledeggs is getting at is that sex isnt seen as it was in earlier times. It is a lot more casual of a thing. To sum up what I mean:

It's just sex.

Assuming it is concentual and all.

[Tokzic]

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Coincidently, I wrote a rant that's almost bang-on (against, rather) with this a while ago that went with my webcomic before I redid the site etc. etc.

Still have it on my DA though, so I'll C+V.

I've always heard about older guys using chicks for sex, but lately it seems to be hitting more and more girls that I know personally. In fact, it's now to the point where I'm pissed off about it.

Why exactly is it that so many guys live purely for girls? It's not like the whole thing isn't fun, but why are there so few guys that can't put away instincts and emotions and live their lives as a human and not an animal? As if that's not enough, they actually put on a whole act just to become the so-called "dream guy" and fast forward the entire process! Life isn't just about doing girls! If your instincts drive you to do someone five years younger than you because they're naive in that way, you have to learn how to control yourself. Using women isn't cool. It's sick.

You know what? To any guys out there reading this that fit this catergory: You suck! If you're willing to put on an act to seem like an alright guy, why not put that effort to some personality adjustment?

To any girls my age that might be a target: Don't let yourself be fooled! It isn't really normal for twenty year old guys to be after you this early. In fact, 98% of all males lose all logic and become complete morons (if they weren't already) during this period, not sensitive lovers. Trust me. That comes five years later.

Now that that's out of mind and on to paper (er, the Internet kind anyway), I end this rant. Time to read a little GetBackers. Peace. ^^

I wasn't really arguing anything, just being annoyed. I think as advanced as we are now though, we have other things to live for than sex. And as usual these days, I don't feel like spending an hour creating a concise reason why. so im gonna read sum getbackerz peece ^^*

EDIT: Okay, I changed my mind after reading some of the other posts here. Maybe I should expand and defend myself (and jamuko - you're not alone, man) a little, especially since I don't want to come off looking like chardish (even though I think he's cool and not gay for it).

I am sixteen years old. When I was eleven, I was so innocent that if I had done every sixteen-year-old babe that said, "I wish my boyfriend was like you," I'd be the biggest pimp ever. I thought sex unappealing and I'd only actually go through with it for a child. Sure I knew it was enjoyable, but that kind of enjoyment didn't appeal to me.

Then a few years later, things changed. I don't need to explain myself - my innocent train of thought hopped tracks to typical-manhood city. However, there is one thing that did not change - I still didn't like how obsessed with it guys were. Following up with the prior metaphor, when I realized where my train could take me, I bailed it, found my old tracks, and walked. Why? Because 99% of people my age are stupid. If I were to go for sex every chance I got, I'd probably have ninety STDs and five children by now, even though I'm even-headed enough to avoid it, because other people aren't. I have never masturbated (hell, I spell it wrong half the time), nor do I ever intend to. Have I ever had the urge to? Sometimes I'm surprised where my hand wants to go. Is it natural? No, but how much of the world we've made for ourselves is?

This is where a nice conclusion would go, except unfortunately, it is also the same place where I got tired of writing all this crap and feel like playing MS. So picture a nice one in your head. I've said my points.

[Schrammbledeggs]

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By credibility I guess I mean "specialness"

[MonkeyFoo]

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Mmm, sex. It's just a fad, you'll buy all this sex merchandise, and then when it goes out of fasion in a few months, you'll be sorry.

A lot of people don't realize that it is a well known established fact that the male species as a whole has an innate desire to reproduce and spread their seed.

Hey, I realize that. You're forgetting the men. We realize that often. You should probably be saying something like, "t3h ladies don't realize that it's a darwinian urge." And you should be saying, "t3h ladies should give in to that darwinian urge too."

If I wasn't lazy, I'd write a parody of this.

[Schrammbledeggs]

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I'm pretty sure saying t3h ladies would get me nowhere.

[FoJaR]

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i think everyone in this thread but jewpin could benefit from watching r-kelly's trapped in the closet 5 or 10 times.

[Rediahs]

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I'd spew a big long rant, but I'm too tired and I can't manage to put a few sentences together coherently. So I'll just say that sex is good, EVERYONE yes EVERYONE SHOULD masturbate (it's good for you, relaxing, and can curb your sexual desire. got lots of other benfits too.), and your preferences regarding sex (I don't mean sexual orientation, I mean your preferences) are your own, and if you come down with AIDS from doing too many people, it's your problem and the problem of those people you did.

In an ideal world, everyone would have no more than 3 partners in their lives, preferably only two or one. But the world is a big place, and people get in with the wrong people, or they're just stupid and do whatever they want. But hey, ruin your life - it's only yours.

[whorlichan]

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In an ideal world, everyone would have no more than 3 partners in their lives, preferably only two or one.

I'm interested in how you came up with this number. It seems to be a personal preference, as you mentioned earlier. What about people who are polyamorous, and have more partners than that, often at one time in their lives rather than all throughout? In an ideal world, do their preferences not matter? I don't think you can put a cap on how many partners EVERYONE would have in an ideal world. It's a personal choice--your ideal world is not everyone's ideal.

[killacrip]

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ive had like 12 and im only 13, thts one for every year of my life, apart from when i was 1. also i think that women are alot more uptight when it comes to cheating, im allways paranoid of my girl but i dnt do anything about it because i trust her and always think of it like this: U were the first one she chose and U will be the last one she thinks of when u or her ends the relationship and U will be the main thing shell worry about. Also if were saying that women are alot more uptight when it comes to that then maybe we should take a look at how we (as men) deal with these situations coz we could be letting some serious stuff pass.

[Rediahs]

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some stuff

I'm sorry, was that english?

By the way, if you had 12 sexual partners by the time you are 13, I am quite sorry for you.

If you had 12 girlfriends and all you did was kiss lightly on the cheek - that's not a "partner". A "partner" is someone that you do intimate things with, or that you've been with for a long time...

[Lightknight924]

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some stuff

I'm sorry, was that english?

By the way, if you had 12 sexual partners by the time you are 13, I am quite sorry for you.

If you had 12 girlfriends and all you did was kiss lightly on the cheek - that's not a "partner". A "partner" is someone that you do intimate things with, or that you've been with for a long time...

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Well said.

[FoJaR]

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ive had like 12 and im only 13, thts one for every year of my life, apart from when i was 1. also i think that women are alot more uptight when it comes to cheating, im allways paranoid of my girl but i dnt do anything about it because i trust her and always think of it like this: U were the first one she chose and U will be the last one she thinks of when u or her ends the relationship and U will be the main thing shell worry about. Also if were saying that women are alot more uptight when it comes to that then maybe we should take a look at how we (as men) deal with these situations coz we could be letting some serious stuff pass.

ROFL

i know this is CT, but DAYUM... i cant help it!

on a more serious note: i dont think the number of partners is really significant, as long as you practice safe sex.