How is your social life right now?

[RB_Spirit]

Re: How is your social life right now?

Not to say i've ever had a social life.. But well, it's quite less social than it use to be. Benzo withdrawals are fucking HELL. Holyyyyyyy..
Can't stop fucking shaking. Muscle spasms are hell, so i guess i can't really socialize too much in person right now, as i look like a complete retard with my spasms. Look like i'm trying to work my abdomen out or something. Shit by the end of this ima have a 6 pack.

[DarknessXoXLight]

Re: How is your social life right now?

My social life is at the point where I'm thinking it's better to just cut every single tie I have left and end it there.

[Tokzic]

Re: How is your social life right now?

I'm curious how some people make a living without leaving the house.

I haven't got to the point where I'm living off of the funds but I've made thousands of dollars now from web development and graphic design oddjobs.

[kommisar]

Re: How is your social life right now?

i'm significantly better than I was 10 years ago


I can actually converse with people without making it completely awkward


if i'm not tired

[GammaBlaster]

Re: How is your social life right now?

currently better than how I was in high school

[Pseudo Enigma]

Re: How is your social life right now?

My social life is at the point where I'm thinking it's better to just cut every single tie I have left and end it there.

why? Is it that bad? Are they dragging you down?

[DarknessXoXLight]

Re: How is your social life right now?

why? Is it that bad? Are they dragging you down?

No. I just don't want to be around anybody. It's never worth it. The effort isn't worth it. Not just for a social life, for everything.

[kommisar]

Re: How is your social life right now?

just sounds like you haven't found the right people

[DarknessXoXLight]

Re: How is your social life right now?

i don't want any people. it's not worth it.

[Trogdor!!!!]

Re: How is your social life right now?

Social life is pretty rad right now. Have 6 close friends that I've known for 5+ years, a girlfriend that I've been dating for 2 and a half, and a good group of friends at the college I'm attending.

Despite all this I'm finding solid alone time for just whenever.


Unrelated to my social life: Having friends/a social life doesn't always have to be worth it. Sometimes people just aren't worth the bother and it's better to chill by yourself or keeping the few friends you may already have. Nothing wrong with cutting all your ties if you feel like it'll make you feel better. :^)

[kommisar]

Re: How is your social life right now?

i don't want any people. it's not worth it.

well with that attitude yeah probably


I ditched all my childhood friends in 10th grade for people who actually gave a shit about me. Been with them ever since and it was totally worth it.

[Izzy]

Re: How is your social life right now?

It could be possible that everyone you know or have ever known are incompatible with you. Perhaps your personality and values are radically different from anyone in your area or entire state or even your country, but I think it is a little ridiculous to make the claim that all people aren't worth communicating with.

[DossarLX ODI]

Re: How is your social life right now?

It's not worth being with people who have incompatible interests. Even my own family has disgusted me to the point where I never really want to talk with them anymore, but being pleasant goes a long way.

Nobody likes being around unpleasant people. That works both ways. If someone is being unpleasant to you, don't hang out with that person. If you're being unpleasant, people won't want to build a connection with you.

[Pseudo Enigma]

Re: How is your social life right now?

I don't want friends but they somehow magically plop themselves in front of me and force me to spend the time I don't spend in my room with them. If they didn't somehow manage to just grow like weeds I wouldn't have bothered making any either. As I said before, It's tiring.

But the one nice thing about having friends is that you actually feel as if you have a presence in the world that isn't confirmed by your conscience. Go missing for a few days? They will take note of it and ask where you've been. The world's a funny place. And if you haven't found people like that yet, then I guess it's a Canada thing.

[andy-o24]

Re: How is your social life right now?

Saw a friend as I was coming back from dinner and was invited to her room to check it out. We ended up hanging out for something like five hours. I guess that's a step in the right direction.

-o24