I need comforting and possibly help :'(

[psychoangel691]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

I'm having suicidal thoughts because I'm always going to be single and because a lot of my friends ditched me. I don't know what to do anymore. Is this site even a good place to be posting threads like this? I just had my heart broken today. I really don't want to talk about that in detail. I just feel as if I'm worthless and nobody wants me.

Right around your age is when I started losing all my old friends. I wouldn't say ditching so much as you guys are growing up and going separate ways. People change, they move on, it's just part of life. I don't have many irl friends that I hangout with anymore and at first I was bothered by it but I've gotten used to it. I'm trying to make new friends that are a better fit for the stage I am in life. The old friends I have are out partying a lot and such whereas I'm a mom of two now. Major lifestyle clashes there. Then the friends I had prior to those I lost touch with because they went to college and I hadn't. There's a lot of reasons you and your friends could have grown apart. When it comes to being single don't stress that so much. You're young yet and being in a relationship isn't the most important thing in the world. It'll happen when it happens. I was constantly down about myself and whether I'd find a long standing relationship and then I met AJ. You need to figure out what makes you happy. If you can't be happy on your own, chances are you aren't going to be very happy in a relationship either.
I'm not going to give you the "it gets better line" because the truth is life is hard. It's always going to have it's ups and downs. It's how you rise above it that matters. You need to be able to make your own happiness even in the hard times.

[Razor]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

its ok bro, i got lied to and lead on by someone for about 2 weeks... i feel your pain

[redsea]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

Life is always worth living, whether it is going well or not. Remember there are people out there who love you, and people out there WILLING to love you. It takes time to find people who will always be there for you, and love you for who you are, but they are out there! I've been dealing with very scary neurological symptoms for over 6 months now, and it has produced many anxieties and macab feelings in me, all very physical, and I am still staying strong and fighting through each and everyday, because whatever happens, life is worth living; everyday there is a possibility to meet someone new, to have new experiences, regardless of what you are feeling like. It really sucks to be in a position like yours, but people do come and go, enjoy the relationships you have, and remember that one day you WILL find someone who is willing to live their life around making you happy; someone seeking your love and comfort. Stay up dude, things will get better! If you need to talk more don't be afraid to hit me up with a pm.

[L.B.D.D]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

play maplestory with me

we will get lots of bitches together and get paid money

[Hakulyte]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-diB65scQU

[Throwaway]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

Hey man, as I said in vidchat, don't let being alone get you down to the point of contemplating suicide. You'd be surprised how many people value your existence, regardless of what you may think.

Being alone, in terms of a relationship, is just something you have to understand cannot be forced. There's obviously strong forms of coercion out there, but as Zag said: It'll happen without you even thinking about it, and it happens fast. Just work on your self, your inner-person, and stop focusing on TRYING to find a partner for yourself. If you can respect yourself, and love yourself, someone will definitely love you for it.

TC u fagget

[supermoe1985]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

Happiness is a state of mind. I'm not going to tell you that things are going to get better. But -you- will get better. As time goes on you will begin to feel happy again even if things haven't changed. You will adjust to your situation and begin to realize that there are lots of people who care about you and that you walk by potential friends everyday. There are lots of people in the real world and on this site that will be willing to help you through anything.