I need comforting and possibly help :'(

[drizzleRomanceGirl]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

Depression is only a state of mind; if you look at the bright side of things and move forward, then you'll give yourself the chance to see the world in a positive light. I think you're a wonderful person and I care about you. If you would like someone to talk to, then I'm here.

[L.B.D.D]

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people come and go it's part of life

[PaperclipGames]

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Yeah, "always" is an extremely big word. You probably haven't led even a third of your whole life. Everything can change massively within the course of months, weeks, or even days.

I can guarantee you that such a day of change will come, but it doesn't just come on its own; life doesn't give you any presents. Life is sometimes willing to lend you a hand, but you've got to see it and take it. There is always something or someone, for everyone.

No exceptions.

I thought I would be single forever because I thought I was just one of those other stupid ******s that always ended up hurting everyone and whom noone liked because I'm such a dick that doesn't even know how to properly talk to anyone. I have given things another chance, tried really hard to change how things were with me and around me, and eventually I won. You can win too.

[Spenner]

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This too will pass.

Always.

[adlp]

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i know someone who loves you no matter what

Jesus

[Zageron]

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You'd be surprised how rapidly a relationship can start-up without you realizing what's going on.

I'm sure you will find someone. Whether it's in two weeks, a month, a year, or even ten. Just remember that it will happen sooner if you are active in lots of social communities. And the great thing about those communities is that they're fun, and even if nothing comes of some of them in terms of relationships you still had an awesome time doing whatever it was you were doing!

[8 Hour Whore]

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Don't get down because of a woman or anyone else. You are who you are. Letting other people mold you into the person you become isn't something you want. Personally I've been through way too much but I always kept my head high. Which is what I suggest to you because there is always something to look forward to. Things can always make a turn for the best you just got to be ready for drive.

[SC_coolguy44]

Re: I need comforting and possibly help :'(

You'd be surprised how rapidly a relationship can start-up without you realizing what's going on.

I'm sure you will find someone. Whether it's in two weeks, a month, a year, or even ten. Just remember that it will happen sooner if you are active in lots of social communities. And the great thing about those communities is that they're fun, and even if nothing comes of some of them in terms of relationships you still had an awesome time doing whatever it was you were doing!

I'm not very good at social interaction. I'm a very quiet person.

[PaperclipGames]

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You don't have to be loud. I've always been quiet, and still am. I see it as a nice trait, actually, so long as you don't isolate yourself.

[andy-o24]

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Here is a video I watched a few weeks ago that really changed my perspective on life and more importantly positivity. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCqwwTfXr1Q

I'd like to thank you for understanding my lack of control over there being an advertisement on this video.

[x]0:00 - 1:09 - Intro
[x]1:09 - 4:23 - How you feel is in your head.
[x]4:24 - 8:57 - Frame things positively.
[x]8:57 - 10:41 - Framing things positively how-to.
[x]10:41 - 11:30 - Real life example.
[x]11:30 - 15:27 - Removing negative influences/relationships.
[x]15:27 - 19:16 - Ways to cheer yourself up.
[x]19:16 - End - Pumping yourself up.

Be ready for all the miracles that are going to happen today.

-o24

[kommisar]

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I actually had to ditch my entire group of ungrateful asshole friends in 10th grade



best move i've ever done. found a group of friends that actually gave a shit about me. they exist.

[justin_ator]

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This isn't life changing, but this usually pulls me out of a funk if it's somewhat minor.

[8 Hour Whore]

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This isn't life changing, but this usually pulls me out of a funk if it's somewhat minor.

Love it and I'm going to be using it from now on.

[Fantasticone]

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[V-Ormix]

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honestly its just a matter of time, when ever your feeling down just say to yourself "naw thats some bull shit, I know I can do this, it will happen."