what is your opinion of teenage/children dating

[Izzy]

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what is your opinion of teenage/children dating? my opinion is yet to be properly formed so i am asking to inform my self on the thing i have yet to think of... but nonetheless i think it is stupid for teenagers and children to be dating, some of my friends are dating just for sex... well they used to be my friends... my other friends are dating for some unknown reason but it's obviously not going to be permanent. dating with out future obligations is pointless... plus we are not mature enough to realize that we should be waiting for our lives to be set up a little more before we take a chance to become apart of someone elses.

I agree with this. Highschoolers dating just for the sake of dating is pathetic. Idiots, all of them.

How many highschool girls go out with a guy and say they are going to get married and then break up a week later? To many.

The girls are so stupid that guys just use them like toys. Sometimes it can go the other way around, but not as often.

[korny]

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Izzy, everytime I read one of your posts I feel like my IQ has suffered a serious blow.

Teenage dating creates valuable experience. Yes, there are girls who go out with guys and say they're going to get married and break up. This experience, will help them better understand how to approach a relationship the next time in order to avoid becoming so absorbed in the person without really knowing what you're becoming so absorbed in.

Dating for the sake of dating when you're young? Why the hell not? What better things do you have to do then to enjoy male/female companionship? Especially at that age besides your current hobbies? Not every single person needs to be dating or is ready for it at that matter. It varies from person to person. To speak on the behalf of all teenagers however, is just impractical.

[Izzy]

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The thread title says to post my opinion. I am sorry you are to egotistical to let anything but your own thoughts be said.

I didn't say every person was stupid with highschool relationships. Sure its possible for a teenager to be mature enough about a relationship, it just isn't that common.

Instead of guys and girls forming friendships they form unnecessary drama over relationships that they don't understand aren't serious. It tears people apart, and creates enemies between the kids.

[korny]

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It tears people apart, and creates enemies between the KIDS.

It seems you have overlooked the point I was making completely. They are indeed, just kids. The drama, and all that other crap, are just some of the experiences we learn to avoid or deal with when we get older. Our teenage existence is miniscule in comparison to the rest our adult lives. It is through this small portion of time, that we gain the necessary social skills for our more important, adult lives. The frivolousness of teenage dating, should be viewed as a memory to laugh at, or dwell upon in years to come, in whatever retrospect you had experienced it. Had I never dated while I was younger, and I were to start now, I would be far more intimidated by a females presence when trying to attract her for a date.

As young adults, we are granted the freedom to do as other adults choose, and during this period are supposed to have the best times of our lives. So sure, you can always date later, but I speak for a mass majority when I say that they'd much rather have the experience they acquired as a teenager, when dealing with the adult dating life, rather for them to say that dating young screwed up there life.