Is it losing your virginity if...

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

What the hell, I DO have more feedback. Here's some definitions:

Virgin: A person who has not experimented in sexual intercourse. 2. An unmarried women who has taken religious toys of chastity.
Virginal: Of befitting a virgin. 2. unsullied or untouched; fresh.

Sexual intercourse: sexual union between humans, gen. involving physical union of the sexual genitals.

These definitions are credited to The American Heritage dictionary, 4th edition.

The problem is, with this said, the definition of urgin is one's had sexual experiments. Whereas sexual intercourse requires penetration. Conflicting.

It is very conflicting. however next thing you know they will say cybering is losing your virginity as well.

[Nyokou]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

So you're saying that virgins are people who have not had sexual intercourse, and I say it's not just that. If someone participates in oral sex, what are they? Not virgins, that's for sure.

Virgins are pure people who have never been exposed directly to any form of sex.

Yeah, the dictionary might say otherwise and I am contradicting my statement earlier about definitions being absolute, but how could anyone honestly believe that people who have only performed oral sex or had it performed on them, are virgins?

EDIT: I'm so tired, I'm not even sure if that makes sense right now. Maybe someone else can explain it better for me. I just won't accept the fact that someone who has done non-intercourse related sexual acts with another person is a virgin. So to get my point across to the OP, yes, you're friend isn't a virgin anymore if they participated in any sort of sexual acts with another person.

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

so according to Nyokou anyone that watched any porn or took a sex ed class wouldnt be a virgin either. would i be correct in stating that?

[Nyokou]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

Holy crap, no. Are you even reading anything I'm typing?

If two people PHYSICALLY perform ANY KIND of SEXUAL ACTS on each other, they are NOT virgins anymore; it DOESN'T matter what gender they are either.

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

i just said it to stir the topic. i am not a good CT poster i am sorry.

[rzr]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

This thread really pisses me off. Where were the 18 people viewing it when we were debating suicide? Or war? Or parenting? Or the death penalty? No need to continue.

@ Nyokou: I wish I could say no. Speaking from someone who regrets losing their virginity in that way.
@ Xinpig: congratulations, you got Synth on this thread. While he's here can you reply to my PM? Or can chardish? I mean, I am a subscriber. What happened to the guaranteed reply?
@ Xinpig again: no, there's no conceivable way having cyber sex could constitue losing ones virginity. The same with phone sex. Only physical.

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

I am very surprised synth said absolutely nothing.

[rzr]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

I didn't see this previously. But don't start fighting guys. This is a VERY volatile subject. But if you want to peacefully continue it, don't start getting hot-headed.

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

my friend wants to know if anyone (mostly Nyokou) would consider rubbing through pants as a sexual act or making out.

because the meaning there is very clear.

[rzr]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

They could be considered fore play. They could be considered sexual acts, but not actual sex in any way.

[thunderstrike687]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

i dont know why you would still consider her a virgin. if shes into girls that would be considered losing her virginity in that regard.

[Nyokou]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

Rubbing through the pants is foreplay, not a sexual act.

Making out is basically kissing. Kissing is usually a form of affection between lovers, so no, it is not a sexual act. EDIT: But it does entice for something sexual to occur, so yeah... it can also be foreplay like rzr said.

[xinpig]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

hmmm. alright. that is logical in that regard.

[MrMagic5239]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

Virginity regarding a woman the answer is no she is not a virgin

Virginity regarding a man, the answer is yes she is still a virgin

You basically have your virginity for women and men

[rzr]

Re: Is it losing your virginity if...

i dont know why you would still consider her a virgin. if shes into girls that would be considered losing her virginity in that regard.

Because there was no physical penetration. As ****ed up as this sounds, watch some lesbian porn. Without toys. They have no penetration, just bodies rubbing together (minus fingering). And most dictionaries define sex as penetration.