What's the first thing you notice about the opposite gender?

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Re: What's the first thing you notice about the opposite gender?

Married men say hi.
You're also forgetting that most seniors (in fact, probably men 50+) aren't really interested in checking out women either. So regardless of whether or not they're sexually active, the claim that all men instantly scan a woman for sexual aptitude upon sight falls flat on its face.

I will grant that most teenage males fit that description, and probably up to mid-20s as well. But males in general, no.

I'm not saying that married men would cheat or that men with girlfriends would necessarily cheat either, I'm saying that a man will size up a woman almost instantly and his level of sexual attraction to her is unlikely to change much. If you treat a -woman- poorly, however, she will probably like you less AND be less sexually attracted to you.

Obviously if a man is really really old or has something wrong with his biology he might just be very uninterested in sex and this whole discussion won't apply, but from my experience, even men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's are like this. A single (healthy) man in his 50's is likely to have sex with a receptive person that is reasonably attractive.