Should Beliefs Really Change the Way Others Treat You?

**Corbin Wells** · 07-19-2008, 06:16 PM

Re: Should Beliefs Really Change the Way Others Treat You?

If one is in no way threatening anothers choice of lifestyle because of their beliefs, one should be allowed to believe in anything they want.
EXAMPLE:
"I hate mexicans and the whole cinco de mayo festival. But I'm going to keep my mouth shut"

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**Cavernio** · 07-19-2008, 06:20 PM

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This is a loaded question because 'not changing how you treat someone based on their beliefs' is itself a belief, as it treating people with respect, as is 'treating others as you would have people treat you'.

**ViciousDelicious** · 07-19-2008, 06:41 PM

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Lots of theories and beliefs overlap, like what you said about "you have to be your own person and live out your own life on Earth, and take out your own ideals, not those of others." That's not purely a Satanist's rational..it's the rational of an existentialist, or simply of someone who feels that way..there are too many options and preferences to be able to lump together into categories. So in short, no. I don't think they should, because every being has different ideas about every thing. It all comes down to no right answer.

**devonin** · 07-20-2008, 11:51 AM

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If you want someone to respect your beliefs, ought you not to also respect their beliefs? And if they believe say... "Satan is incredibly evil, and someone who explicitly states that they hold many of the teachings of the church of Satan is probably not the kind of person we approve of, so why should we approve of them?" who are you necessarily to say that they are doing anything wrong if at the same time, you insist that they respect your beliefs.

(Protip: Satanism has absolutely nothing to do with Satan worship, and in the -actual- sense of the term, is not a bad belief system at all in general, though it is more than a little narcissistic, arrogant, and self-absorbed. But just because the hardcore catholics you're criticizing are acting from a position of ignorance about what the beliefs you espouse entail, it is an entirely seperate discussion to look at whether we ought to respect all beliefs, or just beliefs we feel have a grounding in knowledge and self-reflection.)

**fido123** · 07-20-2008, 01:32 PM

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Beliefs effect the way you perceive the world and therefore act or create opinions therefore people should absolutely be able to perceive who you are based on your belief. If you are a semi-Satanist, and Catholics stand for everything Satanists don't, they should be able to think you are are evil.

**dore** · 07-20-2008, 05:46 PM

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I have a few "out there" beliefs but to combat the unfair negative perceptions that these beliefs may create for my reputation I usually just don't speak out about these beliefs. That's not to say that I'm afraid of these beliefs or not proud of them but that sometimes it's easier to just not be vocal about them.

**Cursebred** · 07-20-2008, 06:20 PM

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Originally posted by fido123

Beliefs effect the way you perceive the world and therefore act or create opinions therefore people should absolutely be able to perceive who you are based on your belief. If you are a semi-Satanist, and Catholics stand for everything Satanists don't, they should be able to think you are are evil.

Well, being a black sheep should not make people think I'm evil. I mean, there are plenty of other Burger King Catholics out there anyway ("Have it your way"). This is just as well as just generalizing from what they think, rather than from what they know. Like, they listen to Christian music, I listen to black metal and death metal. It works that way too. Even before I changed my beliefs to the way they are now.

Originally posted by dore

I have a few "out there" beliefs but to combat the unfair negative perceptions that these beliefs may create for my reputation I usually just don't speak out about these beliefs. That's not to say that I'm afraid of these beliefs or not proud of them but that sometimes it's easier to just not be vocal about them.

It actually is easy for me not to be vocal about beliefs. But people just seem to figure them out. Like this belief. After they somehow figured out, life changed. I still respect them. It is just strange.

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**chained_to_a_pipe** · 08-12-2008, 06:31 AM

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A lot of people outcast me for my beliefs. I am a LaVeyan Satanist, but where I live, if I even say I'm an atheist alone, I get the cold shoulder. I live in a heavily religious area in Tennessee, if that says anything. If you're anything other than Christian, you're immediately a horrible person. I've been called a Satan worshipper, been told I was going to hell many times, people have tried to convert me back to Christianity (I was a Christian for the first 14 or 15 years of my life), and I've been completely ignored because of my beliefs. I do accept Christians, but the second they judge me for my beliefs, I lose all respect for them. Sorry I'm pointing out only Christians, but there aren't many people I know who are anything but Christian. I know quite a few Wiccans, but they're very accepting of my beliefs. Other than that, only atheists, who couldn't really care less about what I believe, as long as I don't try to convert anyone.

**fido123** · 08-12-2008, 06:36 AM

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The thing is you are worshipping and doing everything that is the complete opposite of their beliefs. It's a touchy subject but if you worship Satan and they worship Jesus/God, there's obviously going to be a lot of tension.

**chained_to_a_pipe** · 08-12-2008, 08:18 AM

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No, no, no. Sorry, I didn't explain. LaVeyan Satanists don't worship Satan. We don't even believe in Satan. Satan is just a way to represent man's desire. But I do understand what you're saying. Satanism is pretty much the opposite of Christianity, and that will cause tension, but there is a difference between voicing their opinion and completely dismissing me as a person, if ya get what I'm saying.

**dore** · 08-14-2008, 01:14 AM

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I know what you mean^^, I'm Deist and most people just can't understand how you can believe in God (as in one, single god who created the universe as we know it) but not go to church and not believe in divine ties to morality. I don't really get shunned for it or anything and all my friends are Christian since I don't impose my beliefs on anyone and I don't argue against the moral majority (since Christians will never concede defeat in a religious argument).

**dbziscool** · 08-16-2008, 02:18 PM

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Try living in Kansas...As a person that is agnostic but like you some of my beliefs are satanists beliefs. I must say it effects me big time. I have never seen anything like it. The second they found out I wasn't christain they started spreading rumors around the school that I was trying to convert people to the devil. Most of these were spread by teachers. Heck, the christains in kansas are so think headed simply explaning the belief of satanism isn't going to work. In fact, most of them won't even believe evolution in Kansas! It is by far the most annoying thing I have ever seen. Do I think it is wrong people are treating different over religion? Yes. I think it is bull and should be ban from the schools. If you ask me(my opinion) I think religion will be the fall of man. Not because of "The end of the world" but stupidity.

**UserNameGoesHere** · 08-16-2008, 08:42 PM

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I would say yes and no. Yes, in the sense that people should strive to respect the beliefs of others even if they don't necessarily agree with them, provided those beliefs do not directly cause harm. No in the sense that there isn't anything inherent in holding a belief which should cause people to treat you better/etc than other people.

I'd say it's just common courtesy to respect people's beliefs as much as it is possible.

**tha Guardians** · 08-16-2008, 10:56 PM

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I simply answer this by saying:

It should affect the way people think of you, but not the way they treat you. You should give them a reason to treat you the way you are through your interactions with them. Sadly, that's not always how it is.

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