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  • gonzo4life44
    FFR Player
    • May 2004
    • 626

    #1

    Worse day of my life

    so yeah let me tell you now before you read: EMO RANT kinda....

    Well Me and my girlfriend of 2 years + broke up about a week ago. We had big plans in life and in out future. I thought she was the one I was going to marry.

    But anywho today at lunch (in school) I saw my ex playing footsie with my best friend. So I sent her a text saying "why are you doing that with Mike (best friend)?" and she sad that its her life. I was hurt bad cuz yeah hes my best friend and he promised me that he would never do anything with kelley (my ex girlfriend).

    So I pull him aside and I asked him wtf is up with you two and he said shes not my business anymore and that I dont have to care about her any more. From this point I knew they did something. I was pissed. We stop talking and then I ask kelley, why? Why would you do that to me espacially with my best friend in less then a week of our beakup? She said cuz she wanted to.

    At this point I'm crying. I wouldnt matter to me sooo much if she would of hooked up with a random guy. But she hooked up with the guy that I live with, my best friend.

    I had to go home, I talk to both of them and they are sorry but to me, they dont deserve an any sympthy from me. Thats ****ed up. My senior year and I get backed stabbed my the two most important people in my life. I dont know what to do right now, cryings not helping much. Anyone go any suggestions?
    Last edited by gonzo4life44; 02-7-2007, 08:33 AM.


  • SethSquall
    FFR Player
    • Mar 2004
    • 5477

    #2
    Re: Worse day of my life

    Harsh man. Harsh. There isn't really that much help to give apart from the obvious move on sort of help. If she is like this then I think your going to have to move on. It's obviously going to suck and hit you hard but I don't think theres much else you can do.
    Originally posted by Tibs
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    • Billydude
      FFR Player
      • Apr 2006
      • 880

      #3
      Re: Worse day of my life

      That sucks. Oh well. If they both did that to you then they probobly didn't deserve to be your friend. Hope you feel better.

      Originally posted by Chrissi
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      What if Billy talked to her? hes irrisistable

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      • Wlfwnd91
        FFR Player
        • Aug 2006
        • 499

        #4
        Re: Worse day of my life

        People come and people go, I had a girlfriend for 2+ years and found out she cheated on me with 3 of my friends, and banged lord knows how many other guys. I'm just thankful I never touched her. You lose friends, you lose girls, it's all part of life. It's harsh, but it's gonna happen. Despite what you say, you'll move on. It's going to hurt, but don't be a wuss about it. Move on with your life and quit worrying about what's going on with them. There's nothing you can do except wait it out. Everyone needs to go through a break-up from a serious relationship, it makes them stronger and more able to handle disappointments later on in life from not only relationships, but other things as well. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

        EDIT: Reading over this, it sounds a bit brutal, but I still think what I said applies. If you don't agree then blow it off and that's fine. I do hope the best for you, good luck.


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        • gonzo4life44
          FFR Player
          • May 2004
          • 626

          #5
          Re: Worse day of my life

          Im not so much hurt about my ex g/f doing that to me, Im more hurt that my best friend backstabbed me. He know how much she ment to me, so whats he do? Hooks up with her.

          Thanks best friend.


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          • LythincaMan
            FFR Player
            • Aug 2006
            • 661

            #6
            Re: Worse day of my life

            Punch him in the face. Im serious do it. He shouldnt have lied, and a freind who lies, isnt a freind at all.

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            • pntballa18
              FFR Player
              • Mar 2005
              • 3357

              #7
              Re: Worse day of my life

              3 pieces of advice.

              Play FFR until your fingers fall off.

              Stare at your avatar and try to figure it out. That will use up some time.

              Talk to them. Not necessarily about what happened, but talk to them. It could be about anything. If you never talk to either of them, it's never gonna stop hurting because that will be your last impression of both of them. For the whore: that's all she iss. If she iss more than that, then she wouldn't have done this. Since she is a whore, she didn't deserve you. For the guy: yes, it was his fault too. I am assuming that he has been your friend for a lot longer than she was your girlfriend. Chances are that the best friend didn't start with her, if he really was your best friend. Even if that's the case, it still is partly his fault.

              PS bros before hoes.

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              • -Tibs-
                FFR Player
                • May 2006
                • 5235

                #8
                Re: Worse day of my life

                Either she was cheating on you with your best friend or she's just a total slut.

                I wouldn't get so upset about her.

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                • ogmsband
                  FFR Veteran
                  • Mar 2006
                  • 795

                  #9
                  Re: Worse day of my life

                  dude that really sucks im sorry i think you should punch your friend in the face like that other guy said but off topic nice whatever song list thing

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                  • Demon_Of_The_Comet
                    FFR Player
                    • Dec 2004
                    • 888

                    #10
                    Re: Worse day of my life

                    *Worst.

                    That's bothering me :<

                    EDIT: Feel free to get a gun and shoot the **** out of both of them, that's what the rest of the world does.
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                    • archbishopjabber
                      FFR Player
                      • Dec 2005
                      • 268

                      #11
                      Re: Worse day of my life

                      Sounds like she wasn't worth it but that has to really suck. If the pain is to much I suggest picking up a vice. Vices can really help cope with pain. I'd avoid cigarettes because of lung cancer and they make your teeth yellow and you smell bad. Gambling isn't good because odds are you are going to lose in the end. Alcohol, video games, pornography, prescription medications, and caffeine are your best bets because they are legal. Food isn't a good vice because you will become obese and then have even less luck in relationships. If you don't want to do anything that will be unhealthy to your body then perhaps you can take your sadness, turn it into rage and release it into society.

                      OR

                      Suck it up and move on.

                      Edit: Oh and note for future reference that if you are dating someone for two years you should try to know them well enough to know whether or not they would do something like this witch did to you. This is surprisingly difficult. You need complete honesty and communication in a relationship, if this had happened you wouldn't have the problem you are having now. Obviously you weren't giving her what she needed. Whether you were capable of that at all I do not know, but she wasn't being honest with you or you weren't trying to keep communication open if she did state or elude to this need that was not fulfilled. If it wasn't this event that ended it something else would have. Ultimately your friend did you a favor, though you definitely might not view it as such.
                      Last edited by archbishopjabber; 02-6-2007, 07:38 PM. Reason: Forgot to mention something.
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                      • lumphoboextreme
                        FFR Veteran
                        • Jan 2005
                        • 8592

                        #12
                        Re: Worse day of my life

                        that sucks man.

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                        • Bahamut-X
                          FFR Player
                          FFR Simfile Author
                          • Nov 2004
                          • 3399

                          #13
                          Re: Worse day of my life

                          Originally posted by -Tibs-
                          I wouldn't get so upset about her.
                          I think he's more concerned about the fact his best friend backstabbed him.

                          That really sucks, if your friend has the nerve to do that he doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore in my opinion. That or he has to give a REALLY good, meaningful apology.

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                          • g4z33b0
                            Banned
                            • Mar 2006
                            • 2618

                            #14
                            Re: Worse day of my life

                            Ouch, but this is a good life lesson... Bitches aint good for nothin but ****in.

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                            • TD_Darkness
                              FFR Player
                              • Jun 2006
                              • 450

                              #15
                              Re: Worse day of my life

                              Originally posted by pntballa18
                              1 piece of advice.



                              Stare at your avatar and try to figure it out. That will use up some time.


                              PS bros before hoes.
                              ROFL


                              Originally posted by JasonKey
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                              Jason = backend / site related stuff

                              All blame for anything goes to Synth .. Jason gets only credit for the cleanup

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