A topic that hits close to the average nerd's heart.

Wow, thats pretty deep.

I think he's a whiner. Nice guys get the GOOD girls as long as they're not horridly ugly or something crazy. Stupid girls go for the morons and assholes. You don't want the stupid girls. It's that simple.

My boyfriend's a "nice guy". You know, the shy guy that never says anything mean... he got me, you decide if that's good or bad. And he's always had girls liking him (though he will deny it plenty).

My point is... people who complain like that are even less likely to get the NICE DECENT SMART UN-STUPID girls. Just don't complain. Just wait. Be calm. If you know you're a nice guy, you'll get a good girl eventually. If you're just saying you're a nice guy but you complain left and right, you don't deserve a good girl.

If you've ever seen Hot Wet American Summer... the ending is a good example for this case.

Another reason could be that girls are so used to be treated as objects or mistreated towhere they're used to it, and they like being mistreated, or they feel like they should be. Another case could be that they don't feel like they deserve the guy... or that they're not ready for the guy. Which is stupid because those guys'll turn into dicks later on. Newsflash ladies, if you trash us we're not going to be the same sweet guys forever. We're going to turn into arrogant cocks who only care about fucking your brains out and blowing our loads all over your face. We're going to turn into assholes who end up getting drunk and cheating on you because you're just a nice piece of ass to us and we don't care about you as much as we would have in the past. We're going to turn into inconsiderate dicks who would rather smoke or watch television than care about what you have to say, or your wants or needs in general. The only thing that will matter to us anymore is ramming our cocks up either one of your womanholes, because that's all you are to us, a masturbation tool. Hell, those guys you're dating now that are being assholes to you and hitting you are the people we'll turn into later on. Because of people like you. Those guys just have lower tolerance for your shit than we do.

Of course, this example is hypothetical. But I'm sure you get my point.

I realize that nice guys can get good girls. It's not nonexistant, and those relationships often are great ones. However, those are rare. We're talking about the majority here.

Amen to that Arch. lol

Arch, your post seriously scares me. I'd reccomend a psychologist...

I can somewhat relate to the posts observer posted. However, I get the "cute" response from girls. Everything I do is "sooooo cute", like I'm a freaking puppy. Also, a lot of people [guys and gals...and my mom (sometimes)] think I am a homosexual.

But, I am through with girls until College. I was looking for a relationship,but that didnt work out.
Exactly.

I realize the drama isnt worth it. All I want now is sex anyways.

My sister has a bf who is a nice guy... and those two go well with each other... so I have some hope just because of that happening (i look up to my sister a lot... if she can find a nice guy im sure i can find a nice girl. ;p).

Yea, that does hit close to home. I got that crap all the time, was cheated on at least 15 times, you get used to it sadly...

Good to know what I have now is rare though =)
I believe most good guys will be happy where they end up, it just takes a lot of time and pain.

DAMN RIGHT.


but i got lucky as hell, though. i met my gf of 2 years now IN AN ONLINE GAME. how lucky is that? all that cuteness really works, in spades, over the internet. sounds kinda dorky to you guys, but lemme AXE ya this: who WOULDNT want to meet a cute asian girl over an online game and later create a meaningful relationship that would last a lifetime, and even later, screw her silly? i rest my case.

girls have a nasty habit of looking for jackasses to date. it boggles the mind the stories i hear. i used to have a nice girl and a great relationship too for a while, for a while i even thought i was in love. then one day she calls me and tells me its over. the next day she already has a new boyfriend. i bet you can guess what kind of guy he is.

people complain about life not being fair. thats exactly it, its not meant to be.

my advice. all you geeks out there. get some sun, do your hair. and try and meet girls. eventually you will find one that is right for you. dont count on meeting your perfect match on a dating service.

I feel that if a girl is whining to you about her abusive boyfriend and you think she truly doesn't want to be in that relationship, then she's too stupid worth wanting, or being threatened to stay in the relationship.

Also, in response to the original post... I am not quite so popular in school, but whenever I hold open doors for girls they respond with a polite thank you. That guy must've been really super ugly or had done something in the past to prompt her response.

Any girl that sparks an "if" in your decision of whether you like/love her or not is already below what you should look for, or not what you truly are looking for.

yeah any girl stupid enough to go for an idiot isnt worth getting.

unless you're also an idiot and you wish you'd out-idioted (not a word) him so she'd be with you instead. in which case all three of you should take a long walk on a short boat in the middle of the pacific.

We naturally want security.

"We will stand under your umbrella."

You need an umbrella.

um.... huh?