Ex-relationship: Is payback an option?

Zellody · 06-10-2007, 02:04 PM

I had broken up with a guy a few months ago, he was staying at my place at the time and was going to move out. My mistake: I was never there after the break up, and he stole all my good stuff,(ex: ps2, games and movies) Later on I found out that he sold all of them for weed. He's been avoiding me since the day he stole my stuff. I with a new guy, it happens to be with a person who he considered a friend. But the "friend" only considered him as an aquaintence.

Explaination:
Reason for break-up: He was always yelling at me in front of his friends and even hit me once, never appreciative, and always took money from my purse w/out permision.
Also he's about $2,000 in debt with the bank.

...and that's where this sacastic quote goes into place:
He has no enemies, but is intensely disliked by his friends.
- Oscar Wilde

Now my question: What the hell should I do?! The tension has gotten worst to the point he talks smack to my boyfriend on WOW. Should I ignore him? Fight back? I apologize if this is too long of a story, and the last I need is for anyone to give a rude response, supportive advice plz!

-Fallen- · 06-10-2007, 02:06 PM

What are you retarded? Why do you come to FFR with this ****. Go see a psychiatrist to see why you're such a moron for taking abuse from a dick.

WOW = gay
Talkin' smack on WOW made me rofl.
You're so sad.

Nyokou · 06-10-2007, 02:07 PM

If he's in debt with the bank.. how the **** is he playing WOW?

-Fallen- · 06-10-2007, 02:07 PM

He's a crook remember? He probably steals those trial CD's.

Zellody · 06-10-2007, 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nyokou

If he's in debt with the bank.. how the **** is he playing WOW?

He's using other people's account, can you believe that.

falcondude · 06-10-2007, 02:09 PM

Beat him on WoW.

-Fallen- · 06-10-2007, 02:11 PM

y dun u jus pk him and steel hiz gear lawl

Nyokou · 06-10-2007, 02:12 PM

If he's got weed in his possession, you could probably turn him in to the police. :/

chunky_cheese · 06-10-2007, 02:15 PM

I think you should leave it all behind you, don't get involved with him, don't speak with him. Just leave it.

For your boyfriend, I am sure WoW has some ignore features, use them.

He is just looking for attention, abusive people always look for a way to make you feel bad about yourself. (like right now)

Don't allow him to provoke you, just leave it all behind, your with a new guy, a new beginning.

Zellody · 06-10-2007, 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chunky_cheese

I think you should leave it all behind you, don't get involved with him, don't speak with him. Just leave it.

For your boyfriend, I am sure WoW has some ignore features, use them.

He is just looking for attention, abusive people always look for a way to make you feel bad about yourself. (like right now)

Don't allow him to provoke you, just leave it all behind, your with a new guy, a new beginning.

Good idea

Zellody · 06-10-2007, 02:23 PM

Thanx everyone, you all are right on your parts, so I guess this isn't way to cope with this, Ignoring him is a good idea.

Yes I've had a psychiatrist before, but in my opinion they're not really helpful, they assume prescription drugs are the cure to everything.

Tibs · 06-10-2007, 02:30 PM

Steal his shoes.

**stretchypanda** · 06-10-2007, 02:34 PM

Remove his testicles.

chunky_cheese · 06-10-2007, 02:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zellody

Thanx everyone, you all are right on your parts, so I guess this isn't way to cope with this, Ignoring him is a good idea.

Yes I've had a psychiatrist before, but in my opinion they're not really helpful, they assume prescription drugs are the cure to everything.

That's because they get money from referrals. Think about it, everyone needs to put food on the table.

"Listen, Frank was it?"
"um.. Hank"
"yeah well im going to send you to see Dr . Smith, and he will give you something that will help you with your depression okay?"
*fills out prescription*

Tibs · 06-10-2007, 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stretchypanda

Remove his testicles.

With his shoes.

falcondude · 06-10-2007, 02:39 PM

Use a flam glove on him. From 20 feet away. Make sure the flams hit his shoes.

chunky_cheese · 06-10-2007, 02:40 PM

She has already found her solution, it involves... not flame gloves and testicles.

Topic = Over.

Zellody · 06-10-2007, 02:43 PM

I guess i'll consider the jokes for now, i should have a good laugh.

falcondude · 06-10-2007, 02:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chunky_cheese

She has already found her solution, it involves... not flame gloves and testicles.

Topic = Over.

FLAM GLOVES. How could you possibly get that wrong?

סּ_סּ · 06-10-2007, 02:48 PM

Errm if he stole your **** can't you just call the police and get it back if you have some kind of proof. As well as the hitting and stealing money etc etc.

It was stupid of you to let things go on for that long and let him mooch off your house with your stuff in it.

Just get your **** back and forget him.

06-10-2007, 02:04 PM	#1
Zellody FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 6	Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? I had broken up with a guy a few months ago, he was staying at my place at the time and was going to move out. My mistake: I was never there after the break up, and he stole all my good stuff,(ex: ps2, games and movies) Later on I found out that he sold all of them for weed. He's been avoiding me since the day he stole my stuff. I with a new guy, it happens to be with a person who he considered a friend. But the "friend" only considered him as an aquaintence. Explaination: Reason for break-up: He was always yelling at me in front of his friends and even hit me once, never appreciative, and always took money from my purse w/out permision. Also he's about $2,000 in debt with the bank. ...and that's where this sacastic quote goes into place: He has no enemies, but is intensely disliked by his friends. - Oscar Wilde Now my question: What the hell should I do?! The tension has gotten worst to the point he talks smack to my boyfriend on WOW. Should I ignore him? Fight back? I apologize if this is too long of a story, and the last I need is for anyone to give a rude response, supportive advice plz! __________________ "Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm."

06-10-2007, 02:06 PM	#2
-Fallen- I was here, at the start FFR Veteran Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Age: 25 Posts: 2,840	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? What are you retarded? Why do you come to FFR with this ***. Go see a psychiatrist to see why you're such a moron for taking abuse from a dick. WOW = gay Talkin' smack on WOW made me rofl. You're so sad. __________________ All stars could be brighter. All hearts could be warmer.*

06-10-2007, 02:07 PM	#3
Nyokou Global Generation FFR Veteran Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United States Age: 21 Posts: 4,101	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? If he's in debt with the bank.. how the **** is he playing WOW? __________________

06-10-2007, 02:07 PM	#4
-Fallen- I was here, at the start FFR Veteran Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Age: 25 Posts: 2,840	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? He's a crook remember? He probably steals those trial CD's. __________________ All stars could be brighter. All hearts could be warmer.

06-10-2007, 02:11 PM	#7
-Fallen- I was here, at the start FFR Veteran Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Age: 25 Posts: 2,840	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? y dun u jus pk him and steel hiz gear lawl __________________ All stars could be brighter. All hearts could be warmer.

06-10-2007, 02:12 PM	#8
Nyokou Global Generation FFR Veteran Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United States Age: 21 Posts: 4,101	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? If he's got weed in his possession, you could probably turn him in to the police. :/ __________________

06-10-2007, 02:15 PM	#9
chunky_cheese FFR Player FFR Veteran Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Edmonton, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,735	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? I think you should leave it all behind you, don't get involved with him, don't speak with him. Just leave it. For your boyfriend, I am sure WoW has some ignore features, use them. He is just looking for attention, abusive people always look for a way to make you feel bad about yourself. (like right now) Don't allow him to provoke you, just leave it all behind, your with a new guy, a new beginning.

06-10-2007, 02:23 PM	#11
Zellody FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 6	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? Thanx everyone, you all are right on your parts, so I guess this isn't way to cope with this, Ignoring him is a good idea. Yes I've had a psychiatrist before, but in my opinion they're not really helpful, they assume prescription drugs are the cure to everything. __________________ "Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm."

06-10-2007, 02:30 PM	#12
Tibs FFR Player Join Date: May 2006 Location: UK Age: 24 Posts: 5,220	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? Steal his shoes. __________________

06-10-2007, 02:34 PM	#13
stretchypanda shock me shock me FFR Veteran Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Texas Age: 28 Posts: 4,123	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? Remove his testicles.

06-10-2007, 02:40 PM	#17
chunky_cheese FFR Player FFR Veteran Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Edmonton, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,735	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? She has already found her solution, it involves... not flame gloves and testicles. Topic = Over.

06-10-2007, 02:43 PM	#18
Zellody FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 6	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? I guess i'll consider the jokes for now, i should have a good laugh. __________________ "Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm."

06-10-2007, 02:48 PM	#20
סּ_סּ Banned Join Date: Feb 2007 Age: 23 Posts: 225	Re: Ex-relationship: Is payback an option? Errm if he stole your ** can't you just call the police and get it back if you have some kind of proof. As well as the hitting and stealing money etc etc. It was stupid of you to let things go on for that long and let him mooch off your house with your stuff in it. Just get your ** back and forget him.

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