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My parents said they don't want to deal with any drama of having a bunch of people involved, else i cant live there anymore because she 'physically cant handle it'. she is very inhibiting of who i can talk to and what i can say about how i feel
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The last 3 timees i called a hotline and talked they wanted me to go to the hospital
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If you're parents are not willing to help then you're better off not choosing them when it comes for help---make the calls, then take steps to move out.
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That other stuff can e solved. I once didnt have a job or DL either |
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This is where I would ask about your personal/home life, but well... that's personal and this is a public forum, so... |
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ill probably go somewhere tomorrow
sorry for being a bother edit: i wouldnt have had enough courage to go somewhere without this thread tbh
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You're not a bother.
Actually I'm sure I speak for the majority of us when I ask that you keep us updated. Let us know where you descide to go, when you leave, when you got there, the basic (nonpersonal) jest of what the doc says. Let us know how it goes. Talk to us. If you rather it not be public get at us on discord |
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OK.
Being honest here. Everybody trying to go about giving advice to Rapta is doing it wrong. Look, Rapta, it's okay if you have thoughts of killing yourself, and it's okay if you've attempted suicide before. It's natural. It's how some of us cope with extreme/prolonged stress. You're not alone in those feelings. |
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However, this thread is not about me--so if that is what is helpful for Rapta, indeed, by all means, help him understand that he's not alone. I do not deny the validity or truth behind the statement, yet for some it is more helpful than for others. No need to be all rainbows and daisies, but as I said before, "wrong" is subjective [except for scintill in this thread, heh]. Those who have struggled similarly may offer what has helped personally for them in the past. People who haven't directly dealt with such situations may offer what seems most logical. It's all a crapshoot. My advice isn't necessarily "right" ~ nor is the next guy's. Taking a high and mighty stance over the lack of validity of everyone's advice [except your own] is dodgy.
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get off ffr and go get professional help. check yourself into a hospital. sice you're 18 you're legally an adult so you dont have to bring your family into it at all. |
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what do you call professional help? Last time I went to the hospital they sent me to a place where they told me "everything is fine" for two weeks, gave me medications, and sent me off with an ambulance bill of 3000 dollars (just for transport). I have a therapist i visit weekly and a psychiatrist. I've talked to many counselors and many suicide hotline people and gone to online chatrooms. I haven't seeked professional help yet?
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What's your go-to coping mechanism, Rapta?
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"Getting professional help" can be tough, because there are a lot of therapists / doctors / psychiatrists out there who are simply not very helpful. Sometimes budget is a limitation, too. You may have to shop around a bit.
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for anxiety i go somewhere where i am alone.
for depression i dont have a default coping mechanism
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I do not know. It certainly feels like both though.
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What kind of situational/life issues?
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i found out my normal appointment to see my therapist today was unable to be made because he was booked so I am holding off going anywhere until tomorrow. I was going to ask him what he thought.
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But my point remains, in that all the hullaboo about "ooh don't kill yaself" isn't the healthiest. In my opinion (and not necessarily anyone else's before you call me out again) one should try to validate another's suicidal thoughts, not repress them. |
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