04-6-2012, 05:19 PM | #141 |
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Re: So I finally came clean to my parents.
sounds good to me
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04-6-2012, 06:22 PM | #142 |
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04-6-2012, 06:29 PM | #143 |
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Mother and Father are gender specific roles. Somebody can have two fathers, or two mothers, but when your parents are of the same gender you can't have both unless you throw somebody else of a different gender into the mix somehow.
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04-6-2012, 06:55 PM | #144 |
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Just a thought, but most parents seem to already know that their child is gay. I just find it weird that some people react so negatively when it is finally vocalized. It's not like they turned you that way, it's just something that they can't control. Congrats on coming out to them though.
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It's because his parents are in the wrong (mostly, at least; without knowing more we can't say that Ken's 100% blameless for how things turned out, but we can agree that kicking him out was a very bad idea) that Ken needs to be the one to stand up and fight. It's clear that they're willing to put him out and forget about him, so rather than walking away, be the bigger man and stand up. Show them that he's more interested in mending fences than fanning flames, that despite being gay, he's still a good person. --Guido |
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04-6-2012, 07:32 PM | #146 |
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Not sure if this was made clear or not, but Ken wasn't necessarily "kicked out", he was already planning on moving long before he told his parents, and they just requested that he move out sooner.
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04-6-2012, 10:09 PM | #147 |
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Homosexuality is not some sort of derogatory life choice, if anything i'd be proud that he has the balls to define himself to that extent and share it with the people that brought him into this world, I don't even think I would have the nerves to do something like that. Props to the OP.
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Cool stat.
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04-7-2012, 06:08 AM | #150 |
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Gender roles yes. Sex roles no. Gender is an artificial construct, and there's no reason why a gender role can't be fulfilled by someone of another sex.
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04-7-2012, 10:13 AM | #151 |
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Women with young children are also likely to suffer from post partum depression monkeyman, something brough about by natural hormonal changes. I'd trust my baby to get a better bond with an undepressed father over a depressed me any day of the week.
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Not saying your wrong, just offering my two cents and again, I'm uneducated on the manner so my opinion means squat anyway but it be interesting to hear what you have to say about this or somebody who's formally educated on the subject. Anyway perhaps we should make a new thread if we want to continue this discussion because this thread is about congratulating flipsta for his courage although we're at page 8 lol. |
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04-7-2012, 10:20 AM | #153 |
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that in itself is a lack of esteem. anyone has the potential to be a great role model for their child, as long as they don't have their heads stuck up their asses and are open to whatever their child will become.
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I'm not saying two dad's or mom's aren't as capable of raising a child as a mixed gender relationship. I'm just saying there's a difference between a mom and a dad but it comes down to what kind of person they are. Sorry if there was any confusion.
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04-7-2012, 07:46 PM | #155 |
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PS sorry i worded that wrong. Haha obviously you're like born gay or w/e.. You know what i mean though, don't let other people tell you something like THAT is wrong.
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04-7-2012, 10:18 PM | #156 |
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"Obviously"?
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04-7-2012, 10:19 PM | #157 |
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Is figuratively better?
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04-8-2012, 08:13 AM | #158 |
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No, Obviously is a fine word. There's an overwhelming amount of good science that demonstrates that homosexuality/sexuality in general is largely a factor of genetics, chemicals in the brain, and effects during foetal development.
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I just watched the entire video.. moving. I can relate to Bobby entirely. I would never have suicidal thoughts now, but I did tell my parents I have thought of it because of their mentally abusive ways in the past. But what edged me to even thinking of suicide when I was younger was the thought of my parents disowning me for knowing "the" truth. The feel of rejection.
The irony of it all. I know it seems impossible for even my situation, knowing my parents and their stronghold on personal opinion, but I'm going to mail them this movie after I move out and hope that they watch and understand it. My expectations after that: nothing.
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