Underage Sex (if both are underage)

[NFD]

Thanks Devo, :3, but anyways

I mean, what sense does it make to make secks illegal? People would want to do it MORE! It's human nature to want to break the rules, we can't help it.

[AOD_ELEMENT]

i dont think it is illegal for underage people to have sex anywhere and if it is that is completely ridiculous

[NFD]

Well, it is in California apparently, if you didn't read the first post, :/

[virus003]

i agree with a lot of people here, yes it is human survival, so it should be legal here in California and we shouldnt be charged for it.

[MrMagic5239]

My thought on the matter is, if you are both willing and you are both underage, than why get charged?

[pokelda]

I bet most guys had homo-erotic experiences when they were young before having heterosex. Though that might not be related to the topic directly, I just wanted to say that out loud because im a tremendous ******

[MrMagic5239]

Originally Posted by pokelda

I bet most guys had homo-erotic experiences when they were young before having heterosex. Though that might not be related to the topic directly, I just wanted to say that out loud because im a tremendous ******

Thats always a good thing to know

[purebloodtexan]

Originally Posted by NFD

Sex is for the survival for human kind. If you do not have sex, you are a nazi.

i agree with a lot of people here, yes it is human survival, so it should be legal here in Calfiornia.

Maybe you should read the OP again. We're talking about underaged sex. I seriously doubt that a good majority sexually active teenagers say "Let's have sex! I want to have a child when I'm nowhere near mentally ready to be a mother!" So, in this case, sex is not human survival, and I have no idea where you got that impression.

Anyway, I basically agree that outlawing underage sex is somewhat ridiculous. However, a good portion of teenagers either don't realize the consequences of unsafe sex or just blatantly ignore them entirely. Until a general majority of teens prove themselves worthy, the gentlemen and ladies at Capitol Hill will probably keep teenage sex illegal. Then again, with the laws in place, the anticipation for the legal age is quite fun if you ask me.

Also, I still think that schools should go more in-depth about money shots to see if it'll help prevent pregnancies.

[Kagami_Hiiragi]

Originally Posted by Cursebred

Now there are a lot of teenagers out there. And there are a number of them that have lost their virginity, at which time they were underage. However, the two teenagers that were together were both under the age of consent for California. Should this be excusable, or should it be charged as the misdemeanor or felony that it is supposed to be, even if both were the same age?

It is definitely for an adult to have sex with an underage person. But should two people that are both underage and within a two-years' age range of each other be sentenced with the penalty that is standard? This question will be left up to you.

Do you think that they should be charged? Or do you think that it should be let go? Keep in mind that the people involved in this act are both teenagers, and that hormones might not be very easy to control for a certain number of them out there.

This band is composed of teenagers. So we take a stance on this that neither supports, nor opposes it. Because it should be up to the people to decide whether or not it is right, wrong, or should not be meddled with.

So give us your thoughts on this subject. Don't be afraid to give us an essay. Because there should be something to prove your point, not that this is English class.

That is all.

- Cursebred
(Caveman - Frontman of band)

well, i guess thats a toughy. the judge could take it either way. did someone "tell" on them?

[Heartseeker7]

Well by law if both are underage then techniquely neither could be charged.
Sex is human nature, its been around for thousands of years, personally I don't think it should be illegal to continue human existance.

Personally I don't like the fact that 14 and 15 year olds are having it because they have been influenced by media and music.

[lord_carbo]

Originally Posted by NFD

Thanks Devo, :3, but anyways

I mean, what sense does it make to make secks illegal? People would want to do it MORE! It's human nature to want to break the rules, we can't help it.

No not really.

If drugs are any indication of anything-- referencing a recent WHO report-- sex policy would have little to do with the amount of sex we have.

[Tokzic]

why do you address everyone as a band on the forums

there's this cool thing you can do where you sign up for your own account

you should try it

- Echo Psychosis
(Tokzic - Drummer of band)

[danthemano]

it shouldnt be illegal if they're both underage, but the problem with that is that girls mature faster and are able to get pregnant at like 11 or 12. thats obviously far too early to have a baby. it shouldnt be illegal, but the gov't should make sure minors know the consequences..

[sasukekun997]

They should be CHARGED!! Do what you can to STOP this MADNESS!!

And whoever says "Madness? THIS IS SPARTA" is immature and gay!!

[retard_gamer]

well my 1st cousin made me have sex with her and where underage. but i dont think they should be charged. unless 1 of them was raped.

[Nyokou]

It's illegal because the majority of teenagers that DO have sex are extremely immature and naive. It would be like a widespread epidemic of STDs and tons of unwanted babies and abortions. No matter how much you want to believe it, the number of immature teenagers will always outnumber the number of mature teenagers who know what they're doing or have asked for guidance on how to maintain a healthy, sexual relationship.

And just looking at the teenage population now, I'm pretty sure it will never get better, at least not any time soon. It is stupid that the mature groups of teenagers get in trouble because of the law, it's a shame, but it's also their fault because they should have been more secretive about it. I just don't believe the law should change because of these few people though. That would be stupid, but lessening the charges would be fine if they had friends or family members to back them up.

However, any kid who goes against his or her parents' rules on sex should deserve the full punishment, especially if they are living under their roof. It's as if people don't have respect for their parents these days anymore, so why the hell not?

So in all seriousness now... I really think abstinence is the best thing in this situation. Teenagers have hormones, I know, but when they fall victim to their sexual instincts without waiting, then that shows how weak they are. It CAN be controlled and they CAN wait until it's legal for them to actually have sex with their intimate partner. It isn't hard if they both support each other.

[virus003]

Originally Posted by purebloodtexan

Maybe you should read the OP again. We're talking about underaged sex. I seriously doubt that a good majority sexually active teenagers say "Let's have sex! I want to have a child when I'm nowhere near mentally ready to be a mother!" So, in this case, sex is not human survival, and I have no idea where you got that impression.

Anyway, I basically agree that outlawing underage sex is somewhat ridiculous. However, a good portion of teenagers either don't realize the consequences of unsafe sex or just blatantly ignore them entirely. Until a general majority of teens prove themselves worthy, the gentlemen and ladies at Capitol Hill will probably keep teenage sex illegal. Then again, with the laws in place, the anticipation for the legal age is quite fun if you ask me.

Also, I still think that schools should go more in-depth about money shots to see if it'll help prevent pregnancies.

you have a good point there!!

[Corbin Wells]

Of course the shouldn't be in trouble. A two year difference? Are we going to take numbers that seriously now? It would be a bad call on California to punish anyone for this.

[NeONKIDPrincess]

In England, you must only be 16 to have sex.
To be honest, I can now understand why we have so many problems with teenage pregnancies.
I honestly do not see anything wrong with underage sex, as long as both are underage.
But, I believe morals should certainly be taken into account.
Neither me, or many people I know can honestly say we have not broken the sex law. Because, fact is, we have.
Having a law on sex makes people even more intent to break it.
To feel 'naughty'
I think teaching people more about Chastity and stuff will help alot.
People need more self confidence and respect for their own bodies. People need to be taught that they are beautiful how they are and how they can stand up and not be taken advantage of, as many teenagers with low self confidence issues are by MEN. =O

[OrganisM]

I think what matters more than anything is physical development, which is not as strongly tied to our traditional conventions of chronological age as we'd like to think. At age 18 or 21, arbitrary ages, we don't suddenly change from when we were 17 and 364 days or 20 and 364 days old. But that's a whole new issue.

I think it's ridiculous to punish to people who consent to such an act, and have the full ability to consent to such an act. Great, two 14 year olds had sex. Wear a condom kids, or you might end up with children almost as bad as you. Better a mocha stain on the bedsheets than another laughable excuse for a human being taking up valuable oxygen.