Old 10-18-2005, 10:58 PM   #1
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This is my problem. I have a friend his name is Brandon and we're really good friends and a lot of people think I like him when I don't, but sometimes when I really think about it I think I do like him. I have very mixed feelings for him I like him I don't like him back and forth my feelings go so what should I do?
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Old 10-18-2005, 11:06 PM   #2
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Honestly... if you have to ask online people advice on your junior high quasi-crush, things certainly can't go right. But, well, I'm bored... so I'll give you some words of wisdom spoken from experience. Well, male experience.

this is what could happen:
a) you ask him out... he says yes. You date, things get weird, you break up and your friendship goes
b) you ask him out... he says yes. You date, things go great, then you go to college and your seperate ways
c) you ask him out... he says no. It screws up your friendship
d) you ask him out... he says no. Friendship continues with some "side benefits"
e) you ask him out... he says no. Life goes on
f) you don't ask him out... he asks you out... see possible outcomes above.
g) you don't ask him out... he doesn't ask you out... friendship continues.

weigh your feelings in friendship, wanting casual "play", wanting a relationship. alot of times the friendship is the most important thing. There are lots of people you can date, but to have a solid friend with someone of the opposite sex is rarer. Mostly because all guys want is sex.

As a note, how old are you? It certainly plays a factor. I'm assuming you're in the 14-16 range, considering you're having these fairly juvenile issues. And, who cares what other people think. Best advice I can give... NEVER base your decisions on what other people think. They are your issues and your decisions for your reasons.
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Old 10-18-2005, 11:17 PM   #3
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I had a friend like that, except that we became enemies, he became bad, threw rocks at moving cars, expelled from school, and now in boot camp. Worst thing is, he's coming back. OH NOES!!!1
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go be emo on myspace
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Old 10-18-2005, 11:41 PM   #5
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You could post this in Critical Thinking.

Grow some ovaries and ask him about it. It's doing you no good to sit in a cess full of negative and confused emotions... 'less you like that kind of thing, but then I don't think you'd really be looking for happiness then.

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Request for the CT sticky to drop "about chat/MP happenings" and leave the rest.
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Old 10-24-2005, 01:54 AM   #7
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rumors suck but theyre everywhere and they come out of everyones mouth. tell that to your little guy friend there. talk to him about it. honesty might tell you more than you expected.


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rumors suck but theyre everywhere and they come out of everyones mouth. tell that to your little guy friend there. talk to him about it. honesty might tell you more than you expected.


"believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if i have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense"-buddha

I absolutely love that quote. Of all the wuotes that I have heard it's my favorite ever...
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Grow some ovaries and ask him about it.
Mal, you seriously win the I FUCKING LOVE YOU FOR THIS POST award.

But seriously, do grow some ovaries and ask him.
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Hey, what the hell guys. You automatically assume its a girl. What the hell.
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Hey, what the hell guys. You automatically assume its a girl. What the hell.
Gee, I don't know what lead me to believe that she was a girl. I think it might be the fact that the word "gurl" is in her name, and that she totally has a crush on every boy.

Well, just Brandon.

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or that this thread is a billion years old and is so useless it makes me cry.
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Oh yea, more High School relationship stereotyping, fun.
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DO NOT BUMP OLD THREADS, M'KAY?
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