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Old 08-11-2005, 03:22 PM   #1
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Default A bit of a dilema

Ok...I need some advice or some viewpoints on this situation. It's like a "If I were in you shoes, I would...." type thing.

I have a crush on a friend of mine. She supposedly likes me too.

Should I chance ruining our friendship and date her, or should I just stay friends with her?
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My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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Old 08-11-2005, 03:41 PM   #2
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Well, if I were you, I'd give it time. Like a month, just to make sure you want to date her.
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Old 08-11-2005, 03:50 PM   #3
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I have. I have waited like over the summer. And I don't know what to do seriously. =/
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My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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Old 08-11-2005, 03:53 PM   #4
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Default RE: A bit of a dilema

I would say play it cool and wait for her to make a move.

However this plan hasn't worked for me yet in the past 4 years, so come school's beginning I'll be making a move. If you really want to be with her I suggest you do the same.
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Old 08-11-2005, 04:13 PM   #5
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I'm assuming you are still in High School, right? If so, you have a lot of years ahead of you. Don't wait. Go for it. If something bad happens, which it probably won't, oh well. You will have your whole life ahead of you. After High School you probably will not see this person again. But if you go for it now, who knows? Something good might happen and you could be with this person for a long time.
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Old 08-11-2005, 04:17 PM   #6
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I've tried dating a friend, and I'm going to give you the best advice I can on it.

My friend and I didn't work out. However, we're still friends. I felt weird about it, and too bad to tell him so, it became obvious that he however, was weird about it also.

See that's why you guys are friends, because you feel the same about a lot of things. I know he's my true friend because he stuck around even after we went through all of that. So if she's your real friend, try it out. You'll be alright.
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Old 08-11-2005, 04:52 PM   #7
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If you want to be friends, don't go out with her, if it doesn't work, I can almost 100% gurantee you won't be friends anymore. Though, if I was in your situation, I would go for it.
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Old 08-11-2005, 07:19 PM   #8
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Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.
Ok, so I went out with a girl for four months. She recently dumped me (recent being a month ago). She said we'd always be friends. I haven't heard from her in a month.

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Old 08-11-2005, 07:40 PM   #9
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I went out with a good friend of mine for four months, we broke up (it didn't even go well), and are still good friends. It's not uncommon that this happens.

In fact, I would only date my own friends. This way, I know them well already.

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Old 08-11-2005, 07:45 PM   #10
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Let her know you like her. Just dont spill your guts to her, girls dont really appreciate that and it makes you sound pathetic.

At least, that's how it has been with me.
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Old 08-11-2005, 09:17 PM   #11
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Well, I did say she likes me and she kind of knows I like her, so no one has made a move yet. I am more than likely going to do it tomorrow. I was going to do it after band practice but she ran off with her friend so I didn't get a chance -.-' And I was having massive breathing problems so I could barely talk(I don't have asthma)
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My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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Old 08-11-2005, 11:38 PM   #12
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Stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends.

Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.
And? How old is he? I don't think he is any older than 18... He has tons of time ahead of him. When me moves away of whatever, the hard fact is this; He will most likely lose contact of her.

That's why I don't take High School relationships seriously... That and I haven't found anyone who I might seriously be interested in.
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Old 08-11-2005, 11:43 PM   #13
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Based on what I did, I wouldn't. Through the experience, I lost 2 friends.

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Old 08-20-2005, 10:04 PM   #14
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As of yesterday, we have been going out lol. Thanks for the advice guys ^.^
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My method of making love is quite different than you might expect. I prefer to find a girl taking a nap at the local preschool, and then make love to them as they scream in my large, sound-proofed, white van. I then make love on their face, and throw them in an ice-chest of bleach. For pillow talk, I usually say, "Your parents can't hear you," and keep their teddy bear as a momento. You could call me a hopeless romantic, I guess.
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Old 08-20-2005, 10:40 PM   #15
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Hmm. I was going to advise the opposite, but if that's the case, best of luck with the whole thing.
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Old 08-21-2005, 07:40 PM   #16
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Good for you.
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Old 08-21-2005, 08:16 PM   #17
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bets on how long they last?? lol jk gl
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Old 08-21-2005, 08:22 PM   #18
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Five bucks says fewer than six months.

Prepare to lose a friend, Jimbo. And when it happens I get full dibs on "told ya so."

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Old 08-22-2005, 03:50 AM   #19
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I'm sure they'll be fine.

Plus, 6 months is pretty good.

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