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Oh that makes more sense now. Sounds like she is uncomfortable with her feelings and decides to rage instead of trying to think about it. Kind of like tsundere in anime except being a bitch.
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The worst thing you can do is keep contacting her and pushing her / guilting her with nice gestures (this may not be your intent, but in those situations, it usually harms more than helps). If you want things to work out with her, just back off -- no contact at all whatsoever -- and let her come to you when/if she's ready. If she does, great. If not, then you know it wasn't going to work. |
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Anyways, this is making me feel better just talking about it, my moms helping me out too. Thanks guys.
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She's immature, get out of the relationship.
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This calls for methodical contemplation of why she was ever objectively important to you in the first place. Among your list of reasons you'll undoubtedly find it was all for risk; because she was someone, and someone was better than no one, or something along those lines. Follow with careful consideration of why she ever cared about you.
If you can't do this, chances are she wouldn't be able to either. If neither of you can think this through without being distracted why ever bother taking a break? Rubix is right. |
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Atleast I can get my Honda S2000 now and not worry about bringing all her damn bags.
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You know, if she's being such a bitch, doesn't ever talk about feelings, or as a girlfriend, but accepts your gifts... What are you doing with her? Just askin'
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Because we've had tons of good times together and she makes me smile every day. I'm never been so happy in my life, we jsut have the occasional arguement and we'll end up overreacting.
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Anyways mom offered to buy me Rock Band 3 to get my mind of things haha, so brb going shopping.
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Pushing aside your fallacious system of logic so that you may face it another day is fine too.
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I find that if a relationship isn't at a leveled commitment, It is usually the man who shows the greater commitment.
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Either way, you need to set some boundaries. Never put up with any crap -- if someone continues to give you said crap, you walk out. The hard part is knowing when to call it quits. In my opinion, you just learn where that point is from experience once you better refine what it is you want in your boy/girlfriend and what you will/won't tolerate. Eventually you'll hopefully find something that has mutual respect. |
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Lol yeah I was so confused when I read the first post. But now that it's been explained more, I completely agree with the idea of "if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
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Maybe she really doesn't like you anymore.
p.s Period is a lame excuse to be in a mood and ****. |
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Invest your time in your own life.
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Sounds Like A Serious Relation ship man too bad its sinking
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Dude, in all honesty you're just making this sound like some sort of a childish game. I'm going to act this certain way and hope it works so she'll take me back.
You are wasting your time to try and reconcile anything you have with someone as immature as your ex. Sorry to badmouth her but if you're in a relationship with someone and you cannot communicate what the hell is wrong, you don't need to be in one. It just causes a lot of frustration and tension. But I'd really go with what Rubix is saying. She might mean a lot to you but do you REALLY know how much you mean to her?
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Ignore the bitch n move on
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