[All_That_Chaz]

Originally Posted by Shadowcliff

That's definately not what I'm trying to say. I'm just saying that dating is about learning how to love. Yes, there is one perfect person out there for everyone, which is really hard to come by. But there are plenty of people to love out there.

Look, both Paul and Dan already "know how to love" or whatever you're implying. The only difference between the two is love affects one more positively and the other more negatively. It seems like the pain caused by love is a more compelling argument to most of you since you're writing off Paul as uncaring or promiscuous or whatever.