[bugkid666]

I'm gonna say something probably unpopular but as a fairly new person I think it's important. if you're adamant about your irl priorities taking precedence over this game (which they should be) and every post you make is about those priorities taken precedence (which they should not be) then I think you have two options here:
1) don't sign up for a game you know you can't commit to
2) use the small amount of free time you have to post something productive

there are plenty of players (plop and mcdaddio come to mind here) that do not have a lot of posts. arguably significantly less than people like me or lewdy. but every time they do post, they post with intention and actual reasoning that could potentially help or assist town (hopefully lol).
so no, we don't really care if you have higher priorities than this game. everyone should because it's a game. but I don't want to see people be absent for an entire day and then come back and say "if anyone's mad at me for taking free time then screw you, I'm having a great time irl" cool, awesome. happy for you, but in the context of this game, I don't care. you may as well not post at all. if you need a break, take it.

tldr; xiz is a wolf