[sff_writer_dan]

Here's a thing. Cammy said

Or if you don't have helpful advice, just...idk, don't respond?

which you interpreted as meaning "shut the fuck up" instead of...what the words say which is that if you don't have helpful advice to post in response to somebody's request for advice, just don't post.

And then replied with actually telling them to shut the fuck up.

The distinction here I hope is obvious?