[psychoangel691]

Originally Posted by Brikins

sex? Sure.
But I won't ever have someone to share it with, therefore I probably will likely never have it. I'm not being a gloom cloud, I just honestly see myself living by myself with perhaps a dog or maybe a couple of rats...or maybe both. Anyhoo, I certainly don't see the fun in my vag being ripped apart the first time anyway or letting someone else see me naked. I have huge self-confidence issues and if I let you see my body then god help you.

It's not ripped apart I think people make it out to sound way worse than it really is for the 1st time as a girl. Probably to try to stop them from having it. And you know what I had huge self-confidence issues myself but when you're with someone you love and trust those issues just don't matter anymore.

Anyways, on topic. I don't really think sex should be a casual thing like going out to the bar and just sleeping with some random person you don't know. But I don't believe in the waiting till marriage thing either. And frankly I see nothing wrong with friends with benefits. If it's a friend you're close with and you're both single at the time why not? At least you aren't just sleeping with random strangers it's someone you know and trust and probably have some love for just not in a romantic way. I think people make a way bigger deal out of it then they should. It's completely natural and we all have the urges to do it. As long as you're not being an idiot what's the big deal? The whole being in love and marriage thing is us being programmed what to think. And I'm just rambling now lol but that's my 2 cents.