[mellon_collie]

Originally Posted by ToonE156

That was kinda the issue for me. I was thinking about what to say for a solid few minutes and the issue with me is that I am not talkative unless I am spoken to, someone says my name, or whatever I have in mind will actually add something worthwhile or funny to a discussion. So I didn't have anything in mind that hit one of these quotas

I totally get that, I can be the same way.

When in doubt: ask a question or state a read on someone. You don't have to be confident about your read, people usually aren't. Just saying it anyway is what is important