03-29-2013, 01:10 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Age: 36
Posts: 1,837
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Re: coming out
Good for you Moches. Hope things turn out ok as well if you decide to come out to your parents.
Only advice I can think of is to be careful of which moment you pick if you suspect they'll flip out (but don't stress yourself out about it). If you're dependent on parental care (roof over your head, food on the table and what not) and you have a good reason to think they won't like the fact that you're gay, it might not be the wisest option to come out at that moment. If you suspect they're accepting of it, then go for it, but it's good to have some sort of back-up plan if this misfires. You never know what the consequences will be really.
@ bballa it's kind of like how many men deny they watch porn, while 95% of them watches it. It's something shameful for many I guess which is why they adamantly claim to have no homosexual feelings whatsoever.
Attraction happens regardless of how much you think you don't have any homosexual feelings. It's not a choice to have those feelings, it's genetics. Homosexual/heterosexual feelings come in various degrees and hardly anyone is absolutely 100% straight (if anyone). It comes down to how honest you are to yourself and how much you're willing to accept feelings like that I guess.
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