[MetalAtlas]

Originally Posted by Kage06

The thing is, I don't feel comfortable flirting as a guy. It's never something I've really done.
I'd much prefer if girls came up to me than the other way around, as girls are so used to happening. They pretty much choose who they want based on who walks up to them...

That may seem odd, but I just don't like the concept that the guy has to go to the female, and the thought of asking a girl out is automatically telling the girl you are interested in her sexually, and want to end up having sex with her.

I've neither felt comfortable talking about who I would "bang", etc with other guys for this reason even though as a guy, its how I "should be".

It's not really the way I am, even though I do, at least in part have this male suggestion in my system that thats the way I would like to be. I do of course have a sexual system, and I do get feelings of attraction for girls, but its the thought of them thinking something about you, that I do not like somehow, even though I do think the way guys do most of the time.

That doesnt have anything to do with being 100 percent straight or whatever. It means you're respectful, that you wouldn't have a relationship based off of sex but something that was meaningful. Thats the was a guy should act IMO. talking about you you would 'bang' is kind of vulgar. But being she and lacking confidence it was has to do with most of it. Back to the question at hand though, There is no way to say what is or who is 100 percent gay or straight. It really doesn't matter. The only way someone wouldn;t have identity issues is if they were secluded or didn;t really get involved with themselves or the world. Just, eh ok I'll go with it.