[passivegirl]

Originally Posted by Grandiagod

First time for both partners = really painful, really quick. And yes there is a technique to it.

Doesn't negate my post at all. But to respond regardless, first times for females are often inevitably painful. An experience of sweet, romantic pain from someone who actually loves you rather than some random dude at a party who just wants to get it over with and that you'll likely never see again is 10,000x preferred. ^.^;