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Originally Posted by Freak83

Err a what?

Best I can say is I'm more of a listener than a talker... Hate it

What I meant was, do you introduce the conversation to new topics often and rapidly, do you try to stay on one topic for as long as possible, or do you let the other person control the conversation. I'd guess the last one from what you've said.
When I talk to people, whether in real life or on AIM, I'm constantly thinking about whatever, and that's how random topics get started. I might see something that triggers a memory, and I comment on it. Just move with the flow of conversation, and get all you can from responses. Millk em for all they're worth, sometimes that's what you have to do. Eventually, you'll be able to make good conversation without thinking about it.