[Cavernio]

Chardish: In response to evolutionary aspects of orgasm, you say it makes sense for a woman to be able to climax during intercourse. However, not climaxing during intercourse could also be evolutionarily adaptive. 1 stint of intercourse doesn't always result in pregnancy, and so it would be adaptive for a woman to remain aroused so she'll have more intercourse, with either the same partner or another one.
Of course, all this could simply be a by-product of the placement of the primary pleasure point on women being outside the body, where it is NOT stimulated much during intercourse, or it could be the other way 'round.
Evolutionarily speaking, you can hypothesize things like saying genocide is evolutionarily adaptive.

Originally Posted by devonin

Which is the stronger pull on someone then? "This doesn't do it for me, I'd rather say so, so we can do something that does" or "I don't want to upset them by implying that they don't know what I like"

I think we've found that that depends on the person.