[Cyborg_Mermaid]

Female input!! To react to that; then don't expect much unless you're marrying her 'cause the girl really gets all the kinky secrets of life at her bachelorette party (or attending one for that matter--yes I went to one, or was rather "snuck in" so don't say anything). Also she's confident in what's expected of her by that time. That sounds really "staight-edge" I know, but traditionally it's your best bet since that's what you're arguing about. If she does put out then Merry Christmas, just don't get yourself all worked up and don't let her get your hopes up either unless you can tell she's being truthful about it.

Furthermore, in a way guys impose that idea in a girl's head right from the start unless he says it's ok that her hormones aren't as high as his, and yes when the girl is that interested in the guy she will believe him as well, two-way street, my friend. With today's idea of relationships the girl is left thinking that she's letting herself get into a "three days of macking then straight to sex" situation. And she thinks if she doesn't meet that standard that she's a terrible girlfriend and every guy will ditch her because of it. If the guy gives the girl the impression that he isn't out for just a one night stand then she instantly becomes honest and more likely she is going to be straightfoward about issues like sex and all that stuff.

As for the whores, in my eyes they're doing that because they're desperate and they want to feel desirable quickly. If it were up to me I'd slap every whore I met since because of them guys place idiotic, steroid-driven standards on decent and self-respecting girls like myself. And I know that I'm decent so it's a major smack in the face when some guy comes up to me thinking I have the mind of a slut, which is why I have issues about guys being gentlemen and girls being more wary. But that's another thread topic so I'll stop there. I could elaborate further...but I won't. There ya go.