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Tonberry_Kid 08-11-2005 03:22 PM

A bit of a dilema
 
Ok...I need some advice or some viewpoints on this situation. It's like a "If I were in you shoes, I would...." type thing.

I have a crush on a friend of mine. She supposedly likes me too.

Should I chance ruining our friendship and date her, or should I just stay friends with her?

StarmanSuper568 08-11-2005 03:41 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Well, if I were you, I'd give it time. Like a month, just to make sure you want to date her.

Tonberry_Kid 08-11-2005 03:50 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
I have. I have waited like over the summer. And I don't know what to do seriously. =/

Afrobean 08-11-2005 03:53 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
I would say play it cool and wait for her to make a move.

However this plan hasn't worked for me yet in the past 4 years, so come school's beginning I'll be making a move. If you really want to be with her I suggest you do the same.

Skikamukazi 08-11-2005 04:13 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
I'm assuming you are still in High School, right? If so, you have a lot of years ahead of you. Don't wait. Go for it. If something bad happens, which it probably won't, oh well. You will have your whole life ahead of you. After High School you probably will not see this person again. But if you go for it now, who knows? Something good might happen and you could be with this person for a long time.

-Skooter- 08-11-2005 04:17 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
I've tried dating a friend, and I'm going to give you the best advice I can on it.

My friend and I didn't work out. However, we're still friends. I felt weird about it, and too bad to tell him so, it became obvious that he however, was weird about it also.

See that's why you guys are friends, because you feel the same about a lot of things. I know he's my true friend because he stuck around even after we went through all of that. So if she's your real friend, try it out. You'll be alright.

Tps222 08-11-2005 04:52 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
If you want to be friends, don't go out with her, if it doesn't work, I can almost 100% gurantee you won't be friends anymore. Though, if I was in your situation, I would go for it.

The_Q 08-11-2005 07:19 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Quote:

Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.
Ok, so I went out with a girl for four months. She recently dumped me (recent being a month ago). She said we'd always be friends. I haven't heard from her in a month.

Stay friends.

Q

GuidoHunter 08-11-2005 07:40 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
I went out with a good friend of mine for four months, we broke up (it didn't even go well), and are still good friends. It's not uncommon that this happens.

In fact, I would only date my own friends. This way, I know them well already.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

jewpinthethird 08-11-2005 07:45 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Let her know you like her. Just dont spill your guts to her, girls dont really appreciate that and it makes you sound pathetic.

At least, that's how it has been with me.

Tonberry_Kid 08-11-2005 09:17 PM

RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Well, I did say she likes me and she kind of knows I like her, so no one has made a move yet. I am more than likely going to do it tomorrow. I was going to do it after band practice but she ran off with her friend so I didn't get a chance -.-' And I was having massive breathing problems so I could barely talk(I don't have asthma)

Skikamukazi 08-11-2005 11:38 PM

Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by djshox
Stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends stay friends.

Once you two break up, more than likely your friendship will end up in disaster.

And? How old is he? I don't think he is any older than 18... He has tons of time ahead of him. When me moves away of whatever, the hard fact is this; He will most likely lose contact of her.

That's why I don't take High School relationships seriously... That and I haven't found anyone who I might seriously be interested in.

-Mr_1up- 08-11-2005 11:43 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Based on what I did, I wouldn't. Through the experience, I lost 2 friends.

-Mr. 1up-

Tonberry_Kid 08-20-2005 10:04 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
As of yesterday, we have been going out lol. Thanks for the advice guys ^.^

Tokzic 08-20-2005 10:40 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Hmm. I was going to advise the opposite, but if that's the case, best of luck with the whole thing.

Skikamukazi 08-21-2005 07:40 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Good for you.

iggymatrixcounter 08-21-2005 08:16 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
bets on how long they last?? lol jk gl

The_Q 08-21-2005 08:22 PM

RE: Re: RE: A bit of a dilema
 
Five bucks says fewer than six months.

Prepare to lose a friend, Jimbo. And when it happens I get full dibs on "told ya so."

Q

Jam930 08-22-2005 03:50 AM

I'm sure they'll be fine.

Plus, 6 months is pretty good.

Congrats!


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