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partyhartygurl555 08-10-2005 05:11 PM

confusing
 
love is so complicated i maen all my friends are in a relationship and im left in the shadows sometimes i sit up at night thinking what am i going to do, am i really loved by someone, do i really have friends ;-( . well i guess im stop here let you think about it for awhile bye.

bobbycat73 08-10-2005 05:15 PM

RE: confusing
 
I've never had a girlfriend but I'm not crying about it.

Omeganitros 08-10-2005 05:16 PM

RE: confusing
 
Oh, you philosophers.

ramonesfan 08-10-2005 05:16 PM

RE: confusing
 
Ummm.... last time I was on this site, CT required proper grammar and spelling. Did they drop that rule?

partyhartygurl555 08-10-2005 05:24 PM

RE: confusing
 
Ok, ok, my bad. It's my fault i'm just rushing. Next time i'll do much better ok?

partyhartygurl555 08-10-2005 05:27 PM

RE: confusing
 
Well i'm a lot more emotional than you. Hello wake up and smell the coffe dude! I'm a fuckin girl, and i'm very emotional. >:o

ramonesfan 08-10-2005 05:31 PM

RE: confusing
 
Doesn't seem that way...

Reach 08-10-2005 05:50 PM

RE: confusing
 
That's no excuse XD

How old are you? Really, I think you need to understand one thing. You are looking for a relationship for all the wrong reasons, coming from what you said in your post anyway. 'All my friends are in relationships' who really cares? You? Why? Do they really love them? Why bother getting into a pointless relationship. Be patient, and eventually you will find someone you can be truely happy with. Don't get depressed over it.

Tonberry_Kid 08-10-2005 05:56 PM

RE: confusing
 
Yea, just ending a relationship has made me think. Is it really worth it to just date someone because you absolulely get involved with someone, even though you don't have any feelings for them? I did that, and it is a VERY bad idea to do that. You just end up hurting the other party. And NEVER and I mean NEVER go out with someone just for sexual aspects. It really isn't worth it. At all.

Anuj 08-10-2005 06:00 PM

RE: confusing
 
If you really want to be in a relationship that badly, send me your msn, and some pictures, i'll see what i can do

Tonberry_Kid 08-10-2005 06:15 PM

RE: confusing
 
rofl, ok I will be messaging you soon *winks*

partyhartygurl555 08-10-2005 06:25 PM

RE: confusing
 
Reach may have a point. Just beacuse my friends are in a relationship may not mean i need to be in one too, but im stuck in the middle of both of my friends relationships because all four of them are my friends and im so confused. Do you really want to know why i want a boyfriend? I want a boyfriend because i miss having someone special in my life. There, are you happy?

-Skooter- 08-10-2005 06:39 PM

RE: confusing
 
1. After happy should be a question mark, not an exclamation point.
2. It's "There, are you happy?" not "They're". That is the compound word for "They are".
3. Relationships are WAY over-rated.

My personal advice: Be single and enjoy it, when you think you have something you should stick with long term, you'll know it. Plus, remember never to get attached or trust too quickly.

Tonberry_Kid 08-10-2005 07:05 PM

RE: confusing
 
That makes no sense really. Someone special could be ANY one you let it be. It doesn't necessarily have to be a boyfriend/girlfriend. I guess you could say who my "special someone" is my best friend. He and I go back 10 years lol. He and I are like brothers who don't beat the crap out of each other. But, if you mean someone special as in like relationship reference, don't jump into a relationship if you don't like a person "that way". Make sure you both do, or else it will hurt really bad for the opposite party, being you or him. Never try to fill an empty feeling with sex, drugs, or the sort. It will hurt you horribly later on. Just talk to someone about the feeling, and they could possibly help you out with it. Just don't ask the FFR community, because we have dicks who will totally tear you to shreds and make fun of you to all hell.

Reach 08-10-2005 07:07 PM

Re: RE: confusing
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by partyhartygurl555
Reach may have a point. Just beacuse my friends are in a relationship may not mean i need to be in one too, but im stuck in the middle of both of my friends relationships because all four of them are my friends and im so confused. Do you really want to know why i want a boyfriend? I want a boyfriend because i miss having someone special in my life. They're you happy!

Well you can't always have what you want right away. Right away being the key word here.

Being single can be alot of fun. Especially since I would assume you are still quite young. Enjoy it! The special person will come eventually, so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Tonberry_Kid 08-10-2005 07:11 PM

RE: Re: RE: confusing
 
And you can check out other people without the worry of your partner noticing...Because you don't have one!!!

I didn't mean that as a slam. I'm single myself.

Anuj 08-11-2005 11:25 AM

RE: Re: RE: confusing
 
reach is making it sound like he's some old guy... heh

and my mommy is a special someone in my life T_T

Layla-Day 08-11-2005 01:03 PM

Dear Partyhartygurl555,

First of All, you are one of the most DRAMATIC people I have ever seen in my life. If the world isnt exactly the way you want it to be, all you do is waste your time thinking about it. When I was growing up, for a while I was just like you. You should love yourself not to care what anybody thinks, because if you look in the mirror and you see beauty then thats what there.

Second of All, You have better things to worry about than when Mr. Right is gonna come for you. He'll be there, and all you need to worry about is what you'll be doing with your life in ten years from now, and plus, you REALLY don't want a man. Love is difficult. Especially when you wanna be young and and go out and party, and all he wants to do is watch tv. Or, If you have a romantic dinner, and you're wondering if he's the one, and all he's worrying about is if he is going to get some later that night. Be young, and party. Why do you think they created the age 30? Thats when you settle down, and worry about that type of stuff.

Conclusion: While you are wasting away your life worrying about who likes you and who doesnt like you, you are missing the things that are right before your eyes. .

BOT: I do have a special person in my life, and his name is Daddy. :)

Skikamukazi 08-11-2005 01:08 PM

Re: RE: confusing
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by -Skooter-
My personal advice: Be single and enjoy it, when you think you have something you should stick with long term, you'll know it. Plus, remember never to get attached or trust too quickly.

Agreed. Stay single. Or, stay single untill you find someone who means a whole lot to you. Someone you will be with for a long time.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tonberry_Kid
And NEVER and I mean NEVER go out with someone just for sexual aspects. It really isn't worth it. At all.

This, I don't agree with completely. It is possible to be with someone and not be with someone at the same time. What I mean is, you can have a "Special Friend" Who you can sleep with or just fool around with, but you won't ever have to date them. As long as both people know that it is only about sex, it's okay.

My idea is this, be with whoever you want sexually, only if you are single. If you are not, don't. Don't hurt anyone. Don't get yourself hurt.

jewpinthethird 08-11-2005 01:47 PM

Re: RE: confusing
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Omeganitros
Oh, you philosophers.

My sentiments exactly.

Partyhartygurlrandomnumbers, I don't know your age, so I am guessing you are in High School, if by chance you arent a high school student, then whenever you read "high school" just replace it with whatever you choose.

High School relationships are pretty much all about sexual attraction. Maybe the girl might be in love, but the guy sure as hell isn't. The guy's ultimate goal is to stick his penis into as many holes you have on your body as many times as he can until his is bored with you.

The male you are courting may say things like "I can't live without you" or "You are the first person I think of in the morning, and the last person I think of before I go to bed" or maybe even "I Love You" but in actuallity they are saying "Please, please, PLEASE! Spread your legs." And dont think "Oh, not my boyfriend! He loves me! He isnt like other boys!" because that's what all girls say, and they are just lying to themselves.

So, dont rush into a relationship. You may feel like you need a special someone in your life, but chances are, the feeling isn't mutual. Also, your friend's relationships probably won't last that long.


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