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QueenAshy 11-14-2018 02:36 AM

Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
https://youtu.be/gRs5hZeBq0M

I can’t even

Just WHAT!?

Jhlee 2.0?

Wayward Vagabond 11-14-2018 02:53 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
What stepmania theme is this

Staiain 11-14-2018 04:35 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Fanboyism.


Anyway he's gotten steadily good over the last few years with a relatively interesting playstyle of seamless speed and pattern manipulation which seems to work really well

QueenAshy 11-14-2018 05:12 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Staiain (Post 4656644)
Fanboyism.


Anyway he's gotten steadily good over the last few years with a relatively interesting playstyle of seamless speed and pattern manipulation which seems to work really well

Fangirlism*

Secondly, I would agree. Sillyfangirl has had like 4 scores uploaded over the past few days. Actually, wonder5193 is having a similar thing going on as well. It’s pretty crazy. Are mania players just suddenly able to get amazing scores on quadraphinix 1.5x overnight? Like, what the heck is going on here?

SK8R43 11-14-2018 05:13 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
When you starting those blogs??

QueenAshy 11-14-2018 05:14 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SK8R43 (Post 4656647)
When you starting those blogs??

Huh?

rushyrulz 11-14-2018 09:40 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SK8R43 (Post 4656647)
When you starting those blogs??

This is actually a normal thread. 2 in a row, thanks QueenAshy.

Wasn't jhlee like a blatant cheater?

Chubisque 11-14-2018 09:43 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
QueenAshy is cheater

SK8R43 11-14-2018 11:04 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Chubisque (Post 4656656)
QueenAshy is cheater

Whose QueenAshy?

QueenAshy 11-14-2018 02:23 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by rushyrulz (Post 4656655)
This is actually a normal thread. 2 in a row, thanks QueenAshy.

Wasn't jhlee like a blatant cheater?

Jhlee actually wasn’t a cheater. I’ve heard acusations on his stepmania stream VOD, but no real concrete evidence.

Skullbac 11-14-2018 04:18 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
he S'd mario paint d-another

something attang cant do

V-Ormix 11-14-2018 05:51 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
that's pretty impressive

PixlSM 11-14-2018 08:30 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by rushyrulz (Post 4656655)
Wasn't jhlee like a blatant cheater?

yeah and he didn't even make the smallest effort to hide it cause he knew people would blindly back him up anyways

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 07:03 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Snover tho is the real Suomi speedster

mrpreggers 11-15-2018 10:16 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Nathan the FOOKER

WTFBrandon 11-15-2018 12:02 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by QueenAshy (Post 4656646)
Fangirlism*

Please, never do this.

It's hostile on plenty of different levels for no reason. We all know what Staiain was trying to say so correcting just becomes annoying and another reason to cause argument. I see this on the regular on every social media outlet and it's annoying as hell. This isn't just directed to QueenAshy but everybody.

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 12:10 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by WTFBrandon (Post 4656715)
Please, never do this.

It's hostile on plenty of different levels for no reason. We all know what Staiain was trying to say so correcting just becomes annoying and another reason to cause argument. I see this on the regular on every social media outlet and it's annoying as hell. This isn't just directed to QueenAshy but everybody.

i figured they were making a joke about nates name being silly fan girl lol i didn't clue in at all that it might have been them but mayb

XelNya 11-15-2018 12:57 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by WTFBrandon (Post 4656715)
Please, never do this.

It's hostile on plenty of different levels for no reason. We all know what Staiain was trying to say so correcting just becomes annoying and another reason to cause argument. I see this on the regular on every social media outlet and it's annoying as hell. This isn't just directed to QueenAshy but everybody.

It's 2018, everything needs to be neutral because people get pissy if they feel excluded.

I wonder how it'd go if people remembered that the German language uses the word masculine to describe how to format a sentence, assuming I am remembering this right.

Also lol jhlee, and this guy is pretty good tho, but maybe placing them on a pedestal like that isn't healthy.

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 03:27 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Nearly every romantic language also uses feminine and masculine, like le vs la in French, lol I could never figure out that shit like what makes cheese, la fromage, feminine, like hell if I know lol

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 03:28 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
If anything, if u think of it that way, the fact that words are seemingly arbitrary gender would make you more likely to realize it doesn't matter, imo

rushyrulz 11-15-2018 03:35 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Sillyfanperson(s)*

the sun fan 11-15-2018 03:36 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Dinglesberry (Post 4656730)
Nearly every romantic language also uses feminine and masculine, like le vs la in French, lol I could never figure out that shit like what makes cheese, la fromage, feminine, like hell if I know lol

to split hairs, Xel was talking about German, which isn't Romantic
but its also gendered
iirc there's masculine, feminine and neutral in German, but I've never had any experience with it

Gravity Kitten 11-15-2018 03:40 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by rushyrulz (Post 4656655)
This is actually a normal thread. 2 in a row, thanks QueenAshy.

i deleted my original post from yesterday because i didn’t think it was worth getting into but after reading brandon’s post i feel like it’s important note that there have been several members who have been perma banned for breaking the rules (eg: excessive posting, inappropriate behavior, etc) after being warned a few times, but yet this infraction system clearly does nothing. i know a lot of people have stopped giving a shit since these forums have sort of died down, but it’s evident that she’s been given a LOT of grace and not much has changed. imagine having to thank a user for following the fuckin rules rofl. we get it, you’re a trans furry girl who feels like there isn’t a rhythm game community out there that meets your level of expectations, but you’re not better than anyone here Queen.

p.s. - you’ve claimed lily to be one of your biggest inspirations but yet you felt the need to correct someone who probably gets misgendered on a day to day basis

Flossy_ 11-15-2018 04:17 PM

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why would you say something so controversial yet so brave

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 05:01 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
A word having the word boy in it doesn't mean it has to be a gendered term like lol even if the person who delivers mail is a female I'd still say "oh its the mailman" so lol who knows

I like this 2pac guy tho, my favorite song is when we ride on our enemies, I like the way u say ur view and ride on ur enemies my nibba, either that or ghetto gospel not sure

Edit: I'm still sticking with it being a joke referencing nate being sillyfangirl tho lol I think yall just overthinking it and putting too much emphasis on a un-thought out joke lol, but eh

XelNya 11-15-2018 05:49 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Dinglesberry (Post 4656743)
A word having the word boy in it doesn't mean it has to be a gendered term like lol even if the person who delivers mail is a female I'd still say "oh its the mailman" so lol who knows

I like this 2pac guy tho, my favorite song is when we ride on our enemies, I like the way u say ur view and ride on ur enemies my nibba, either that or ghetto gospel not sure

Edit: I'm still sticking with it being a joke referencing nate being sillyfangirl tho lol I think yall just overthinking it and putting too much emphasis on a un-thought out joke lol, but eh

My joke was aimed at the attempted uneeded correction of fanboy to fangirl, yes.

SKG_Scintill 11-15-2018 05:57 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
oh boy

Dinglesberry 11-15-2018 06:13 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by XelNya (Post 4656749)
My joke was aimed at the attempted uneeded correction of fanboy to fangirl, yes.

Seems like less of a joke and more so making an issue out of something trivial literally for the sake of trying to start an argument but lol ok

flashflash account 11-15-2018 06:57 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Dinglesberry (Post 4656730)
Nearly every romantic language also uses feminine and masculine, like le vs la in French, lol I could never figure out that shit like what makes cheese, la fromage, feminine, like hell if I know lol

French specifically seems completely random and arbitrary. At first I thought it was based on the end of the word but that only works with a minor set of nouns
Being PC in foreign languages would be a nightmare, I misgender things enough without it

DaBackpack 11-15-2018 09:59 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
gendered languages typically don't use "masculine" and "feminine" with the same denotation that you'd use them in biology or psychology

It's a dated linguistic construct but the labels are just used as categories that dictate their use in grammar or phonology, not as socially normative constructs necessarily (though I think this applies to a few languages? idk)

qrrbrbirbel 11-16-2018 02:26 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
So what if i started speaking in binary code and people started changing my 1s and 0s to 5s and 8s and all kinds of different numbers.

The language would make no sense.

They are merely agreed upon values, just like words are agreed upon meanings.


I'll use the mailman example:

For me personally, i'm not gonna call you a postal worker just because you are going to be offended by my speech. Mailman is 2 whole syllables, whilst postal worker is 4.

I'm not trying to label you PERSONALLY, i'm trying to use language to communicate with you. I could care less what you label yourself or what you do, but don't assume that me not changing language that has been ingrained in me one way or another is an attempt on your nonbinary life.

And even if i was trying to label anyone, why would they care? What power do I have that can control how you are labeled and what you think of yourself?






REGARDLESSSSSSSSSS

Here are my 3 quick summaries on why people get upset:


1. They are envious - They see a quality someone else has that they themselves want more of, and lash out due to the want
2. They are embarrassed - They see a detriment in someone else that they too believe to be in themselves, and lash out due to not wanting
3. They dont understand - They see something that they can't wrap their head around, and get angry at the unknown.




VERY BRIEF summaries.



Also i love you all and i hope that no one is offended by my communication of ideas

SKG_Scintill 11-16-2018 03:04 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
OH
BOY

Mahou 11-16-2018 03:22 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
When are y’all gonna learn that ops threads are nothing but bait?

qrrbrbirbel 11-16-2018 03:32 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
He is a master baiter

samurai7694 11-16-2018 03:33 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
damn, I mean being fast is the bees knees nowadays but what happened to ol' fashioned AAA's/AAAA's? ):<

Skullbac 11-16-2018 09:33 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by samurai7694 (Post 4656851)
damn, I mean being fast is the bees knees nowadays but what happened to ol' fashioned AAA's/AAAA's? ):<

You'll find those on DDR / ITG

Fungah and iamchris4life are really good acc players on pad

QueenAshy 11-16-2018 11:12 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gravity Kitten (Post 4656734)
p.s. - you’ve claimed lily to be one of your biggest inspirations but yet you felt the need to correct someone who probably gets misgendered on a day to day basis

Exactly. So that means that she should be more sympathetic about me being misgendered, and she should know exactly how it feels.

DeciBel1231 11-17-2018 03:01 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
osu is mash

Gradiant 11-17-2018 03:19 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by QueenAshy (Post 4656881)
Exactly. So that means that she should be more sympathetic about me being misgendered, and she should know exactly how it feels.

Stop trying to stir up drama that doesn't exist, holy fuck.

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 04:24 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gradiant (Post 4656920)
Stop trying to stir up drama that doesn't exist, holy fuck.

It’s not drama. I’m proving someone wrong

V-Ormix 11-17-2018 10:03 AM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
what happens when a sillyfanwomen whips out a dick bigger than you'res? you'd tell her to fuck off lady!~

AutotelicBrown 11-17-2018 02:07 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
The specific wording 'fanboyism' refers to the behavior from the collective of people that includes both fanboys and fangirls. Hence, as pedantic as you want to be, there wasn't even a misgendering in the first place.

Not everything refers to you in particular QueenAshy, surprising I know.

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 03:14 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
looked up definition for fanboyism/fanboying on both dictionary.reference.com and oxforddictionaries

on oxforddictionaries both terms (fanboying / fanboyism) redirect to fanboy, whose definition clearly specifies it being a male fan.
meanwhile, fangirling and fangirlism both redirect to fangirl

on .reference only fanboying redirects to fanboy; there is no result for fanboyism
both the noun and verb definition for fanboy specify it being male
similarly, said site redirects fangirling to fangirl with no result for fangirlism
both the noun and verb definition for fangirl specify it being female

if you go by .reference, only fanboyism is up for debate, as there is no result for it
on the other hand, these words are still limiting if you're going for gender equality:
there is no result for fantrans, fantransing, fantransism, fanagender, fanagendering, fanagenderism, fandemi, fandemiing, fandemiism, fannonbinary, fannonbinaring, fannonbinarism, fanflux, fanfluxing, fanfluxism, fanwolfkin, fanwolfkining, fanwolfkinism, or any other term outside of the binary male and female descriptors

so... fuck you who cares

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 03:15 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
oh boy

One Winged Angel 11-17-2018 03:31 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656952)
oh boy

oh girl* (low hanging fruit, I'm aware, but I'm sure this is why you posted it twice so there you go)

edit: nvm more than twice geez

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 03:35 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
yeah it's not like I said "oh boy" three times in this thread for that exact reason

One Winged Angel 11-17-2018 03:45 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
I wanted to be involved in some capacity but had nothing to say so I took bait that I normally otherwise wouldn't have

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 04:20 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by AutotelicBrown (Post 4656949)
The specific wording 'fanboyism' refers to the behavior from the collective of people that includes both fanboys and fangirls. Hence, as pedantic as you want to be, there wasn't even a misgendering in the first place.

Not everything refers to you in particular QueenAshy, surprising I know.

So the default is fanboyism? Wow… male honorifics really are the default for the English language. Kinda unfair… but I can see why it might’ve turned out that way…

Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656954)
yeah it's not like I said "oh boy" three times in this thread for that exact reason

You are officially an awful human being. Don’t mock misgendering and the negative effects it can have on trans people. Do I need to link you some articles?

Here:

https://www.healthline.com/health/tr...r/misgendering

https://byrslf.co/i-wasnt-annoyed-at...e-b13cd9480b2c

https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/ma...you-misgender/

Wh1teh 11-17-2018 04:41 PM

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I hope someone accidentaly refers to you as he and farts in your direction.

Owned libtard

-paexaea- 11-17-2018 04:46 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by samurai7694 (Post 4656851)
damn, I mean being fast is the bees knees nowadays but what happened to ol' fashioned AAA's/AAAA's? ):<

1000% agree

Charu 11-17-2018 05:02 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
This is a thread I am posting in flasflashrevolution.com

Was gonna double post, but don't want break any "rules"

This thread has a hidden agenda and it should PROBABLY stop before anything too crazy happens.

Dohoho

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:12 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
so what I gather from this is that misgendering makes you trans people feel disgruntled, underappreciated, anxious and make them lose self-esteem?
grow a pair of balls
I get mistaken for a girl all the time because of my slender physique and long hair when people approach me from the back
you know what it does to me? nothing
they can call me a girl all they want, they can call me a clockwork dinosaur for all I care
it doesn't offend me, 'cause it ain't true
you pansy

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:13 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
I got a title of Awful Human Being out of it, officially granted to me by the one and only QueenAshy
that's more titles than he'll ever get

aperson 11-17-2018 05:19 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656963)
so what I gather from this is that misgendering makes you trans people feel disgruntled, underappreciated, anxious and make them lose self-esteem?
grow a pair of balls
I get mistaken for a girl all the time because of my slender physique and long hair when people approach me from the back
you know what it does to me? nothing
they can call me a girl all they want, they can call me a clockwork dinosaur for all I care
it doesn't offend me, 'cause it ain't true
you pansy

the fuck is wrong with you



man this thread is phenomenal bait to make angry cis men kamikaze

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:22 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
you think I'm not doing it intentionally?

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:34 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656963)
so what I gather from this is that misgendering makes you trans people feel disgruntled, underappreciated, anxious and make them lose self-esteem?
grow a pair of balls
I get mistaken for a girl all the time because of my slender physique and long hair when people approach me from the back
you know what it does to me? nothing
they can call me a girl all they want, they can call me a clockwork dinosaur for all I care
it doesn't offend me, 'cause it ain't true
you pansy

You only don’t care because you’re not trans. Misgendering a cis person and misgendering a trans person have wildly different effects. For cis people, it’s an innocent mistake; but for trans people, it’s putting their well being at risk due to the nature of gender dysphoria

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:35 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Wh1teh (Post 4656960)
I hope someone accidentaly refers to you as he and farts in your direction.

Owned libtard

Your loved maps on osu! servers are shit

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:39 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
you don't have gender dysphoria
damn I love having this title
you're addicted to attention

Wh1teh 11-17-2018 05:42 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
You being confrontational about this isn't good for my anxiety, you're putting my well being at risk.

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:48 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656969)
you don't have gender dysphoria
damn I love having this title
you're addicted to attention

Shall I show you my WPATH letter that shows that I’ve been having consistent dysphoria for many years and that I always preferred the company of women?

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:49 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Wh1teh (Post 4656970)
You being confrontational about this isn't good for my anxiety, you're putting my well being at risk.

I give no shits about your anxiety if you give no shits about gendering me correctly.

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:50 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by QueenAshy (Post 4656972)
[...] and that I always preferred the company of women?

...*snort* yeah that proves it

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:51 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656974)
...*snort* yeah that proves it

Maybe because I’m a lesbian 🤔. And I’ve never liked being in male social groups as compared to female ones…? You hear this in almost any given transition story, it’s not too far fetched to think that there’s a correlation in my case.

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 05:53 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
I also prefer the company of women
because I'm straight
as are you

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 05:57 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656976)
I also prefer the company of women
because I'm straight
as are you

1. I’m still a lesbian

2. I didn’t mean it like that 😂

SKG_Scintill 11-17-2018 06:00 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
awww why'd you respond so normally
now it's no fun anymore

Wh1teh 11-17-2018 06:06 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Seriously tho, if someone accidentally referring to you with male pronoun or using terms that have the word man it is a big problem for you, I think your life is probably going pretty good.

WTFBrandon 11-17-2018 06:12 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by QueenAshy (Post 4656881)
Exactly. So that means that she should be more sympathetic about me being misgendered, and she should know exactly how it feels.

I genuinely laughed out loud because of this. It shows how far gone some people have taken this "misgender" stuff.
To what I said prior is people say things without knowing. People misspell the word "your" when meaning to spell "you're" all the time.
THEN YOU GET THE PEOPLE THAt COME OUT OF NOWHERE AND ARE LIKE "IT'S YOU'RE" WAH WAH WAH. This is the same situation. If someone is unaware of something and you're aggressively correcting someone, it makes you look like a douchebag imo. There is a nice way to do things and a not so nice way. I can promise you nobody purposely attempts to misgender people, it happens because people are unaware which i'm going to assume is what happened when I made my comment. For perfect example QueenAshy! I had no idea you were trans until you openly talked about it on the forum. That being said I could have VERY EASILY misgendered you, which then you would have gotten all upset at me for not knowing something we had never talked about. Seems fair, right?

90% of the time when people misgender it's not meant to be a threat it's because people are unaware of said persons gender. So the be mad at someone for that is just plain silly and selfish. You honestly sit there and believe people genuinely want to say hurtful things to people they don't know?
This is a huge problem that's been coming up in the past few years or people being upset or offended at people for not understanding their emotions or their beliefs, but at the same time they aren't willing to understand others emotions or beliefs. Sometimes you need to learn to agree to disagree and understand not everybody will agree or accept your personal life choices. This doesn't mean the person is quote on quote "trying to attack me by not accepting who I am". Why cause more hate when we can learn to accept each other the way we are? I'm sure if people were less aggressive and more open minded about their beliefs in ANYTHING, everybody will be a lot more open to listening rather than it quickly turning into arguments. This can fit into anything like religion, gender, do you put ketchup on your mac and cheese, pineapples on pizza, etc.

This is something i'd love to figure out, but I don't think will ever find the answer to sadly. :(

Jousway 11-17-2018 06:14 PM

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misgendering on the internet is stupid anyways like how do you know someone is a girl or a boy from reading text :joy:

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 06:14 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Wh1teh (Post 4656979)
Seriously tho, if someone accidentally referring to you with male pronoun or using terms that have the word man it is a big problem for you, I think your life is probably going pretty good.

It’s not accidentally if they continue to intentionally do it after I tell them to stop.

Also, misgendering is so hurtful cause it not only reminds me that the world sees me as nothing but a crossdressing man, but also because it invalidates my struggle to even medically transition. I didn’t get HRT a month after I came out, I had to wait 2 years through dysphoria that got me hospitalized 3 times, and made me attempt suicide nearly twice as many times. Even with all the therapy and meds in the world, I still felt like shit. It was only after I fought like hell and went to many doctors (ended up wasting hundreds for it, and having to sell many items I had sentimental attachements to), then I finally got to actually feel somewhat happy and comfortable in my body. It was not fun at all.

When you refer to me as “he”, it invalidates that entire struggle that I went through and shows that you don’t have any sort of empathy for what others may go through.

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 06:16 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by WTFBrandon (Post 4656980)
I genuinely laughed out loud because of this. It shows how far gone some people have taken this "misgender" stuff.
To what I said prior is people say things without knowing. People misspell the word "your" when meaning to spell "you're" all the time.
THEN YOU GET THE PEOPLE THAt COME OUT OF NOWHERE AND ARE LIKE "IT'S YOU'RE" WAH WAH WAH. This is the same situation. If someone is unaware of something and you're aggressively correcting someone, it makes you look like a douchebag imo. There is a nice way to do things and a not so nice way. I can promise you nobody purposely attempts to misgender people, it happens because people are unaware which i'm going to assume is what happened when I made my comment. For perfect example QueenAshy! I had no idea you were trans until you openly talked about it on the forum. That being said I could have VERY EASILY misgendered you, which then you would have gotten all upset at me for not knowing something we had never talked about. Seems fair, right?

90% of the time when people misgender it's not meant to be a threat it's because people are unaware of said persons gender. So the be mad at someone for that is just plain silly and selfish. You honestly sit there and believe people genuinely want to say hurtful things to people they don't know?
This is a huge problem that's been coming up in the past few years or people being upset or offended at people for not understanding their emotions or their beliefs, but at the same time they aren't willing to understand others emotions or beliefs. Sometimes you need to learn to agree to disagree and understand not everybody will agree or accept your personal life choices. This doesn't mean the person is quote on quote "trying to attack me by not accepting who I am". Why cause more hate when we can learn to accept each other the way we are? I'm sure if people were less aggressive and more open minded about their beliefs in ANYTHING, everybody will be a lot more open to listening rather than it quickly turning into arguments. This can fit into anything like religion, gender, do you put ketchup on your mac and cheese, pineapples on pizza, etc.

This is something i'd love to figure out, but I don't think will ever find the answer to sadly. :(

Except it’s different because I’ve said that I was trans to these people, and kindly ask them to use she/her pronouns, and they refused. If they simply were like “ok”, after I told them my pronouns, I would’ve had no problem with it.

And yes, staiain knows that I’m trans. She knows, and I’ve talked to her in her own discord and on twitch. That’s how this whole thing started

Jousway 11-17-2018 06:16 PM

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kek


also if you get insulted, welcome to the internet, wanna know how to solve it, turn of your pc and go outside kek

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Jousway (Post 4656981)
misgendering on the internet is stupid anyways like how do you know someone is a girl or a boy from reading text :joy:

My username literally has Queen in it, not to mention that I’ve expressed my pronouns multiple times. I feel like I need to put it in my sig or something so people have no excuse not to know. But I don’t want to do that, cause I feel it’ll insult people’s intelligence.

V-Ormix 11-17-2018 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by SKG_Scintill (Post 4656963)
I get mistaken for a girl all the time because of my slender physique and long hair when people approach me from the back

ayyy id hit that or uh wait hmmm im sorry miss i mean dood mayb in an alternate reality we can both be weirdos and do weird shit

Jousway 11-17-2018 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by QueenAshy (Post 4656985)
My username literally has Queen in it, not to mention that I’ve expressed my pronouns multiple times. I feel like I need to put it in my sig or something so people have no excuse not to know. But I don’t want to do that, cause I feel it’ll insult people’s intelligence.

so people use girly anime names all the time, but here on the internet people automaticly asume the person behind the screen is a guy, and use male terms, when a person does this to a female does she go all over the top going ACTUALLY I IDENTIFY AS BABYKIN, they do not.

V-Ormix 11-17-2018 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaSM (Post 4656989)
as a man who lives and dies by "bros before hoes" i dont approve of this shit in an alternate reality

well yah its as real as u make it and who needs some thing to contribute anyways

QueenAshy 11-17-2018 06:22 PM

Re: Sillyfangirl is a god wtf!?
 
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Originally Posted by Jousway (Post 4656988)
so people use girly anime names all the time, but here on the internet people automaticly asume the person behind the screen is a guy, and use male terms, when a person does this to a female does she go all over the top going ACTUALLY I IDENTIFY AS BABYKIN, they do not.

Assuming everyone is a guy on the Internet is a bit sexist, but not wrong considering that the internet is like 90% men, so it’s bound to happen. Hell, I’ve been playing halo multiplayer for 6 years and I haven’t seen a single woman on there, cis or trans.


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