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We are still having more people born than pass away in the country, with a steady increase for over a hundred years. If anything, homosexuality could be population control. It would be easier to get a job if there were less people. The number of fewer babies would be marginal so it is not as if the economy would collapse (1-3% of men admit to being gay (various online sources)). I do not consider homosexuality as some kind of mental disorder that people are simply born with. For example, the kind of girl I am attracted to is based a lot on my own personality and other traits. I would be uncomfortable around large or very athletic women, because I am neither a very large person or very athletic myself. I like girls who are easy going and at least a little nerdy, like myself. While I do not find men attractive, I can see how other people, male or female, can see the same gender as attractive. One definate example I can give is my sister. She went through high school having a few boyfriends, but had never thought about dating a another girl before she went to college. Once she met a certain person, she fell in love, at that was it. She had been at one point attracted to men, but that does not matter to her anymore; she found what she was looking for. Maybe all that has to be said to children can be along the lines of "Sometimes Men like men, and sometimes women like women." Some boys may be born with traits which lead them to be attracted to men, and some people you swear would be gay are perfectly straight. It would be inaccurate to say All gays are born gay, like people being born with some kind of mental condition. It's ok to say being gay is ok. |
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Nobody's denying that some people choose to be gay at some point in their lives after having been straight. It's just that some people are born with the natural inclination to find the same sex attractive, and never had "straight" preferences, even from a very, very early age.
Nobody will deny, either, that there may be environmental influences -- but there is ample proof showing that there are certainly physical "hardware-level" differences in the brain that have a significant impact on which sex we find attractive. In other words, much like any other preference, homosexuality is a preference with many possible contributing roots/variables. At the end of the day, we have to simply accept that people like what they like. |
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This is why I don't proclaim to ever be religious. Aspects of religion like homosexuality sway one to believe that because of a higher power something else is wrong in it's entirety, and because that higher power "said so". Where hath morality gone? If one can't help nor change something about themselves, then live with it. Gay's aren't hurting anyone. For the record, I am straight but have many gay friends.
One thing I will point out though is that it is unfair to a minimal degree to a child in a gay marriage. |
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I see absolutely nothing wrong with a child having two gay parents. As long as they are good parents, what's the concern? There is, perhaps, a legitimate concern in the social aspect of things, but it's really just another extension of social stigma no inherently different from, say, having a black mother and an Asian father, or a white mother and an Indian father, etc. It's just that homosexuality tends to be under heavier fire because it's a more fundamental difference (on a physical level). And yet, what most people fail to realize, is that it's a harmless difference with no harmful impacts on anything on the margin or residual.
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Can you point me to any study that shows a significantly negative impact on a child's emotional development from not having dual-sex parents?
I'll save you some time: There aren't any. What matters more is that the parents are good parents. Having abusive parents, or poor parents, or neglectful parents, or lazy non-interactive parents will result in far worse outcomes than having gay parents. Again, in terms of family, kids grow up just fine with two men/two women for parents. The only thing that "matters" is the "social perception," which is an irrational one in this case. Some social perceptions have a logical backing to them, but the social perception against homosexuality does not, and has its roots in ignorance and fear. "We have nothing to fear but fear itself" is truer than most people realize. |
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what's the purpose of having parents of two different genders anyways? why is it considered as a must? many species have different family structures, i don't see why this should be the only valid one as we're more flexible than any other animal.
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What evidences did I ignore? The ones about evolution? Well, I always believed in evolution and stuff. I just started questioning it because I wasn't truly convinced by the evolutionary arguments. I have enough reasons to question certain things, I'm not some religious idiot who just ignores science and everything. And "only to get dominated there as a result of a lack of understanding for how the human brain actually works": I wasn't even talking about how the human brain worked, and never claimed it worked in a certain way it didn't. It really seems that you convince yourself that you're right and that all of the other person's arguments are wrong even before the discussion has started. Have you ever considered changing? What if you ARE wrong? |
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Children in a two-parent both-sex household where the parents fight, or are abusive, or cheat, or abuse substances are -way- worse off than even a financially struggling single parent who sometimes has trouble getting enough food on the table. My parents divorced when I was 2, and I spent half my childhood living with my mom (who has stayed unmarried ever since) and my dad (WHo was also single for 3 more years before remarrying) and while I still had the benefit of having a male and female parental figure in my life, I was essentially raised by single parents and I think I turned out fine. |
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And yes, regarding the body-mind exchanging thing, I did understand your argument. However, you didn't seem to understand the argument explaining why the brain was crucial here -- saying "I wasn't even talking about how the human brain worked" again shows the misunderstanding. The answer to such a thought experiment doesn't require an abstract, complex answer because the answer is simple. I'd love to pick the debate up again if you'd like. |
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You know, the exchanging thing was actually a mental exercise I created to help explain my point. It didn't really depend on the actual workings of the brain, and that's why I seemed so oblivious to that, even though I wasn't. It was just an idea, a tool used by me to explain the concept. You made me think that you didn't understand, because you kept repeating the wrong obvious first impression of that idea, the same impression several of the people I know had when I tried to explain it to them. And that probably happened because you were treating the exchange as an event I actually believe could happen, even though it was just an idea. |
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When I asked why you were an atheist and not an agnostic, your answer was that "God isn't plausible", but you never actually explained why an intelligent origin wasn't plausible. It's really not a matter of probability. And when I asked "what if you are wrong?" I wasn't referring only to this particular subject. |
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There's nothing wrong about being gay. It's just something in your state of mind telling you what you believe is right. If something feels right them more then likely it completely is ok. I know some religions think it's wrong but really it's not. It's completely natural in life.
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I agree that there is nothing wrong with being gay, but your reasoning is wrong.
Serial killers believe it is perfectly ok to kill the people they do because of whatever reason. They say something such as "God told me to do it" or whatever. |
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It's wrong to be gay if you're pushing your propaganda through the streets of San Francisco while I'm trying to sit down and have a picnic at the park with my little siblings. People should follow their beliefs, and just like any lifestyle, radicals who take their ideals, views, or beliefs and blow them out of proportion are wrong.
If you're gay, please keep it to yourself and only tell those with inquiring minds that care. If you're christian, please keep it to yourself and only tell those with inquiring minds that care. The point is, there is nothing wrong with being gay, but when you begin to march around in a speedo while walking next to men wearing nothing but a rainbow coating of paint, it's a little ostentatious. On a personal note, I've noticed that gay people contribute to society, pay their taxes, and lead lives just like the rest of us. There is nothing wrong with gay people. But gay radicals get on a lot of people's nerves. Gay parades really aren't necessary. |
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lol I've always thought black history month itself was racist
on topic though, no (haven't read the other 13 pages or so) also, define wrong since that's pretty ambiguous here...I'm assuming we're arguing this on religious grounds or something of the like then again, I could probably find that out by just reading the other posts so woop |
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