gfs do you really need them

???????? · 03-3-2007, 01:18 AM

why should a guy have a gf
dont they just use alll your money
and always wanting to be with you even when you want to just relax and not be bothered.

msbrunnettemickey · 03-3-2007, 01:20 AM

I guess that's where...

**Doug31** · 03-3-2007, 01:21 AM

I'd have a girlfriend for a wonderful relationship and someone to do cool things with. I sure don't mind if someone I really like always wants to be with me.

Now, if only I had a gf.

AriesMalvis · 03-3-2007, 01:25 AM

well im a girl...and first of all i hate when ppl spend money on me, and i hate shopping...
but yea most girls do like money and all that stuff
and my bf has all the time in the world away from me
he's very busy...with work, school, his frat, friends, video games
and i don't really mind
you just gotta find one that will treat you right

**DrugstoreCowboy** · 03-3-2007, 01:27 AM

you are correct.
they do "use all your money", but its different. when you have a girlfriend, you WANT to buy stuff for them, and take them out. Its no longer about the money, its about treating your girl right.

and okay, doug did a good job answering this part of the question, but ill add onto it. You dont spend every waking minute of your day with your girlfriend. I havent seen my girlfriend in 3 days. Yeah, i miss her. But we dont have to be on each other to be happy.

**Squeek** · 03-3-2007, 01:27 AM

We should all just not procreate and never reproduce.

That's the way to go.

After all, relationships are for suckers. Who cares about the future of the human race, anyway?

AriesMalvis · 03-3-2007, 01:29 AM

o yea that's a smart idea :]
but i swear if i have a prob with one more guy
im just gonna go get a gf...honestly...

**Neonatrias** · 03-3-2007, 01:29 AM

I'm going to shoot down both of your points right here.

1. I had a girlfriend for over two years who was never financially demanding. If she's demanding material things consistently, there's something wrong.
2. If you want to be left alone, tell them you want to be left alone (Granted this isn't horribly often, anyway). If they don't listen, then they're in the wrong, not you.

Yay everyone's happy now.

EDIT: Almost forgot to mention this works both ways.

**Doug31** · 03-3-2007, 01:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neonatrias

1. I had a girlfriend for over two years who was never financially demanding.

Oh yeah, that reminds me. The girl who wishes I were here bf won't let me pay for anything. I've tried many times.

Lamoc · 03-3-2007, 01:33 AM

Agreed!

AriesMalvis · 03-3-2007, 01:33 AM

that can be annoying at times as well
it's gotta go both ways
yup yup
even tho i recently moved and don't have a job yet and my bf has a really good paying job, i can still pay for stuff

**DrugstoreCowboy** · 03-3-2007, 01:33 AM

hmm.

the most i spend on my girlfriend is pretty much just taking her out to eat. She hates shopping, so i dont have to worry about that. Also, shes hates spending too much money. So, my girlfriend = win.

AriesMalvis · 03-3-2007, 01:37 AM

you def have a keeper there then

i used to be the type that wouldn't want anyone to get me anything
i changed my mind when my bf didn't get me anything for v-day

girls [and guys] who are gold diggers need to go play in traffic

Lamoc · 03-3-2007, 01:37 AM

idk i'm a girl, and i like girls, i know how girls can be. to be honest everyone should have a girlfriend. gives everyone someone to lean on and get advice. being blunt, guys aren't that great for advice.

**DrugstoreCowboy** · 03-3-2007, 01:39 AM

what are you saying lamoc, that i gave you bad advice last night?!

kidding

Lamoc · 03-3-2007, 01:40 AM

haha!! noooo i love yoou!!!! your awsome!!! but your a michigander. they're naturaly awsome. ^^

**Neonatrias** · 03-3-2007, 01:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lamoc

being blunt, guys aren't that great for advice.

I'm sorry, but you've made a massive generalization which has cut extremely deep and I have to refute that claim, citing myself as evidence. =)

AriesMalvis · 03-3-2007, 01:43 AM

actually the person who gives me the best advice is a guy, but that's just cuz he knows what im going thru...so that's besides the point

Lamoc · 03-3-2007, 01:43 AM

haha!! 99% of the guys i get advice from aren't that much help. true some guys can be VERY helpful. But most are.... yeah....

darklordsarumon9 · 03-3-2007, 01:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neonatrias

I'm sorry, but you've made a massive generalization which has cut extremely deep and I have to refute that claim, citing myself as evidence. =)

I must agree with this. As a guy, I have recieved many compliments from both sexes on my advice. I know Neon IRL, he is a very good man who speaks the truth, and always has the positive thing to say.

Anyway, enough boosting Neon.

(sleeptight)

03-3-2007, 01:18 AM	#1
???????? FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1	gfs do you really need them why should a guy have a gf dont they just use alll your money and always wanting to be with you even when you want to just relax and not be bothered.

03-3-2007, 01:20 AM	#2
msbrunnettemickey FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: BOOBALOOBA! Posts: 1,780	Re: gfs do you really need them I guess that's where... __________________ בקצה השמיים, ובסוף המדבר, יש מקום רחוק מלא פרחי בר מקום קטן, עלוב ומשוגע, מקום רחוק מקום לדאגה יש אומרים שם שמשיקרה וחושבים אל כל מה שקרה אלוהים שם יושב ורואה ושומר אל כל משברא אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן אסור לקטוף את פרחי הגן ודואג ודואג נורא

03-3-2007, 01:21 AM	#3
Doug31 Falcon Paaaauuuunch!!!!!! Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Washington Age: 36 Posts: 6,811	Re: gfs do you really need them I'd have a girlfriend for a wonderful relationship and someone to do cool things with. I sure don't mind if someone I really like always wants to be with me. Now, if only I had a gf. __________________

03-3-2007, 01:25 AM	#4
AriesMalvis FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,345	Re: gfs do you really need them well im a girl...and first of all i hate when ppl spend money on me, and i hate shopping... but yea most girls do like money and all that stuff and my bf has all the time in the world away from me he's very busy...with work, school, his frat, friends, video games and i don't really mind you just gotta find one that will treat you right __________________

03-3-2007, 01:27 AM	#5
DrugstoreCowboy Is Famouz Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Michigan Age: 36 Posts: 3,409	Re: gfs do you really need them you are correct. they do "use all your money", but its different. when you have a girlfriend, you WANT to buy stuff for them, and take them out. Its no longer about the money, its about treating your girl right. and okay, doug did a good job answering this part of the question, but ill add onto it. You dont spend every waking minute of your day with your girlfriend. I havent seen my girlfriend in 3 days. Yeah, i miss her. But we dont have to be on each other to be happy. __________________

03-3-2007, 01:27 AM	#6
Squeek let it snow~ Join Date: Jan 2004 Age: 37 Posts: 14,444	Re: gfs do you really need them We should all just not procreate and never reproduce. That's the way to go. After all, relationships are for suckers. Who cares about the future of the human race, anyway?

03-3-2007, 01:29 AM	#7
AriesMalvis FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,345	Re: gfs do you really need them o yea that's a smart idea :] but i swear if i have a prob with one more guy im just gonna go get a gf...honestly... __________________

03-3-2007, 01:29 AM	#8
Neonatrias MAЯISA Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Urbana, IL Age: 36 Posts: 919	Re: gfs do you really need them I'm going to shoot down both of your points right here. 1. I had a girlfriend for over two years who was never financially demanding. If she's demanding material things consistently, there's something wrong. 2. If you want to be left alone, tell them you want to be left alone (Granted this isn't horribly often, anyway). If they don't listen, then they're in the wrong, not you. Yay everyone's happy now. EDIT: Almost forgot to mention this works both ways. __________________

03-3-2007, 01:33 AM	#10
Lamoc FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 551	Re: gfs do you really need them Agreed!

03-3-2007, 01:33 AM	#11
AriesMalvis FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,345	Re: gfs do you really need them that can be annoying at times as well it's gotta go both ways yup yup even tho i recently moved and don't have a job yet and my bf has a really good paying job, i can still pay for stuff __________________

03-3-2007, 01:33 AM	#12
DrugstoreCowboy Is Famouz Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Michigan Age: 36 Posts: 3,409	Re: gfs do you really need them hmm. the most i spend on my girlfriend is pretty much just taking her out to eat. She hates shopping, so i dont have to worry about that. Also, shes hates spending too much money. So, my girlfriend = win. __________________

03-3-2007, 01:37 AM	#13
AriesMalvis FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,345	Re: gfs do you really need them you def have a keeper there then i used to be the type that wouldn't want anyone to get me anything i changed my mind when my bf didn't get me anything for v-day girls [and guys] who are gold diggers need to go play in traffic __________________

03-3-2007, 01:37 AM	#14
Lamoc FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 551	Re: gfs do you really need them idk i'm a girl, and i like girls, i know how girls can be. to be honest everyone should have a girlfriend. gives everyone someone to lean on and get advice. being blunt, guys aren't that great for advice.

03-3-2007, 01:39 AM	#15
DrugstoreCowboy Is Famouz Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Michigan Age: 36 Posts: 3,409	Re: gfs do you really need them what are you saying lamoc, that i gave you bad advice last night?! kidding __________________

03-3-2007, 01:40 AM	#16
Lamoc FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 551	Re: gfs do you really need them haha!! noooo i love yoou!!!! your awsome!!! but your a michigander. they're naturaly awsome. ^^

03-3-2007, 01:43 AM	#18
AriesMalvis FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,345	Re: gfs do you really need them actually the person who gives me the best advice is a guy, but that's just cuz he knows what im going thru...so that's besides the point __________________

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