10-24-2009, 12:44 PM | #81 |
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Re: Is it wrong to be gay?
Why do we draw the line to anything ethical is the question. After all, obviously anyone who says something is ethically or morally wrong is just another one of those stupid Christians and if I don't agree with it morally, its just because they use a religious view.
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10-24-2009, 12:59 PM | #82 | |||
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Once again, you misinterpret what I have said. I am not saying they will lead to these things, I am saying that unless you are in the mood to be blatantly hypocritical, you cannot support homosexuality without supporting polygamy/any-age marriage/etc as the arguments in favor of these are almost identical at the base of them. And my point on bestiality was put aside a while ago as I do not believe I can fully argue that one. If you would read everything said and really take it into account you would notice that. Also, discriminating and making something illegal are not the same thing. Also, discrimination is not always a bad thing. Unless you believe that we should treat those that have murdered, rape, etc. the same and give them all the same privileges and opportunities as the average citizen. My argument is that the line that was drawn was perfectly fine and does not need to be changed. as I said earlier, once you allow on exception, you lose all valid reasoning behind not accepting every other alternative with the same arguments. Last edited by funmonkey54; 10-24-2009 at 01:01 PM.. |
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10-24-2009, 01:04 PM | #83 | |
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No, not everyone who defends homosexuality defends poligamy. And it doesn't matter whether I defend poligamy or not, it has nothing to do with defending gay marriage... Approving gay marriage requires small changes in the laws, while poligamy will be much more complicated to deal with legally. And, concerning the 13 year old stuff... I can use the same line of thought to ask "why can't a 13 year old drive?", "Who is to decide they do not have the capacity to do so?". Well, there are 30 year olds who don't have the capacity and are much less mature than some 13 year olds. But we need to establish a line, since there aren't any absolutely precise tests to determine such things. And, again it has nothing to do with gay marriage or hypocrisy. It's a completely different issue, and there is no need to compare such things.
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So, after all, are you for or against gay marriage? Your comparisons didn't make that clear. If you are against, do you have any arguments besides this comparison?
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10-24-2009, 01:38 PM | #86 | |
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I am in fact against it. I believe that a line was drawn and really does not need to be changed. If homosexuals care to live together and do what they want within the bounds of the law, then they are fine. I do not agree with their choices but they are keeping it legal. This push to change the law to suit their lifestyle choices further is not necessary. And my arguments beyond this comparison include bringing in religion and would lead to a debate over how ethical morality in law is. I am avoiding those so as not to derail the thread any further than it already has gone. So, in wraps, do I have more arguments? Yes, I do. But I believe this is the strongest argument, outside of bringing in religion/moral controversies/etc., and is fully valid. |
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10-24-2009, 01:49 PM | #87 |
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This thread doesn't seem like it will sway anyones opinion, because most of us are really stubborn and arrogant. We love to grasp onto our own ideologies of what is right or wrong in behaviors that have no serious harmful side-effects, and toss out any evidence and call BS. I'm not saying EVERYBODY is like that, but from what I've seen... most people are like that. I, personally, think that we shouldn't advertise homosexual behavior, just as we shouldn't advertise premarital sex. It MAY have an influence on certain people, people who do not know how to think on their own (which is more people than you think).
Continue arguing, but it will loop on forever. Some of us believe that our personal beliefs are what makes us who we are, and to an extent I respect that. Just don't try to convince someone else they are wrong. You don't HAVE to stoop to their level to make a point. EDIT: Kindly state your point |
10-24-2009, 01:51 PM | #88 |
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I can't really just take the last glomp of 40 posts and respond to them all, so I'm just going to generalize.
First of all I'm leaving religion out of this 100%, and I think we all understand that it's wrong under religion, however we're not all a member of a religion that shares these views, or belong to a religion at all so can we leave all religious bias out of posts please? We understand. I think when deciding whether something is right or wrong, you have to look at the negative consequences on others (including animals), and on society. If there are negative consequences that outweigh the positive ones, then it's wrong.Also, I don't think anybody can claim that their opinion is 100% correct when saying that it is not a choice. Either way, if homosexuality was a choice, it's not like one could choose not to be one. If I could choose I wouldn't be one at all, I try not to be. Why would somebody WANT to be one? @GG: I'm just going to disregard everything you said because everything you need to read has already be posted but you're obviously just a stupid ****. If I wasn't gay I would enjoy heterosexual activity and you're honestly hilariously retarded. Keep posting, it's entertaining. The reason I think this is because you're using no rational reasoning in your opinion and yet holding such a strong stance on it. Use rational and I'll actually listen but I don't think you have the mental capacity. OH AND IM SORRY BUT YEAH DONT TAKE OFFENSE TO WHAT I'M SAYING. That makes it ok right? Last edited by fido123; 10-24-2009 at 01:57 PM.. |
10-24-2009, 01:54 PM | #89 | |
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The fact that some people love people of the same gender is hard-coded into their DNA. Now, as for this one... Guru, I shouldn't even give you the time of day. You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. You're blinded by bias from somewhere in your life. I'm not going to even make a guess as to where (though in my mind, I already know), but seriously, your kind of bias is not welcome here at all. Quote:
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What is he? He's seeking equal rights. Just like your culture did all those years ago. I'm sure you would agree that in America, "All men are created equal". Equal rights for all citizens in America. This isn't hard. Quote:
Second, whose to say all homosexual men engage in those activities? This is not arguing that we should all be flamboyant. This is an argument for equal rights. Third, to assume that all homosexuals were victims of abuse is pretty pathetic. Just because you don't understand something must mean that there's some logical tie to something else you don't understand. This is another rationalization method used by the same people who probably told you that being gay is wrong. Quote:
Again, the thing you're not understanding here is that they're seeking equal rights, just like African Americans, Asian Americans, women, etc. The next thing I want you to do is take a hard look at where your morality comes from. Onto the next one. Quote:
2) Children are off-limits. Though, in other countries, it's OK to marry kids, it won't be in our country because the age of consent is 18. Line drawn. 3) Multi marriage should be allowed. I don't see why not. Everybody's consenting. If they're all in love with each other, why not? Who are you to deny love? Quote:
Consent. Done. Being gay is not a sexual fetish. It is love between two humans, just like normal love. Fetishes are designed as the enhancement to love. Also, I support any fetish as long as it doesn't result in non-consentual harm. People are wired to be attracted to different things. Everybody has different sexual fetishes. I can only hope you live in an environment that supports yours. Quote:
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Take a hard look at what you're saying here! You're saying two people who love each other are not human beings. You deny them their rights as citizens of this country because they love each other. Quote:
Second of all, it's not illegal to be gay. It's immoral in some uptight religious communities and you don't get the benefits of a married couple if you hook up, but it's not illegal. Quote:
I ask you to explain your attraction to females. I know you're 15 and you don't even understand your own body yet, but explain to me why you love females. It doesn't make sense to me as someone who loves... television. You can give me all the justification you want about why loving females leads to babies, but that still doesn't explain why you love females. You love females because the female body is visually pleasing to you. Homosexuals love members of their gender because the sight of those bodies is visually pleasing to them. Why is this difficult for you to understand? Last edited by Squeek; 10-24-2009 at 02:19 PM.. |
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+1 to everything Squeek said.
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Holy **** thank you Squeek so much holy **** thank you I just had to make this post of appreciation for taking the time to read through all of GG's post and actually intelligently respond to it. I wanted to say all of that was just not in the mood nor could I put it in better words.
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10-24-2009, 02:15 PM | #93 |
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I second absolutely every point Squeek said -- right on target.
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10-24-2009, 02:16 PM | #94 |
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What I love about stuff like this is how when the word "gay" is mentioned, the first thing that comes to most people's mind is the thought or image of a guy having butt secks with another guy. As if that is all being gay is about. Just thought it was kind of funny since I seemed to noticed that out of a few comments in this thread.
But in general, idc if one is gay, sure it wierds me out a bit, especially when they take it a bit too far, but doesnt bother me. They should have every right as any other person in love. Just thought I put my opinion on the topic while I posted here. |
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You know, the fact that so many people focus on the sex in this argument is pretty sad. What people do behind closed doors is their own business. Why do we need to discriminate based on those things? So what if we know how gay people have sex? It doesn't matter and it really needs to be left out of the argument altogether.
When you get right down to it, does anyone have a legitimate reason against gay right equality? Most people say "a marriage is defined as a union between a man and a woman under God," and yet there's nothing preventing, say, atheists from getting married. Why does it matter if two people of the same sex wish to have that bond officialized? Do you feel that it somehow demeans heterosexual bonds? I just think the whole thing's silly. Someone give me an actual, hardcore reason that is something other than "Whine whine whine."
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This is the Critical Thinking forum. It's meant to be serious. Don't bring trolling/whatever here.
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10-24-2009, 02:28 PM | #97 |
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It doesn't necessitate those things at all. Like Squeek said, bestiality is illegal because an animal cannot consent. So, that argument is void. And, polygamy? Personally, I have nothing against polygamy/polygyny/polyandry, because it doesn't violate any fundamental human rights. Again, someone give me a good reason why this shouldn't be legalized.
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Also, I am not saying it necessitates those things. I am just saying it would be hypocritical to support one but not the other. Also, I have already (multiple times might I add) disbanded my statement on bestiality as not true nor needed. I was wrong in saying that. Squeek apparently didn't see it or just felt like responding to something I already admitted was out of line. He seems to enjoy the whole attacking personally when he feels strong about something. Last edited by funmonkey54; 10-24-2009 at 02:38 PM.. |
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Anyways, here's the fundamental issue as I see it:
It's been declared that the US is a Christian nation and that marriage is primarily a Christian function. However, many like to keep marriage as a "Christian function between man and woman" as denoted in the bible: http://www.gotquestions.org/marriage-Bible.html http://bible.org/article/homosexuali...an-perspective And, so, many seem to believe that to change "marriage" as it is defined is to be ignorant of its origins and implications. Of course, if this were true, why didn't we see more uprisings against atheists marrying? But, you know what -- if you want to keep "marriage" as defined as a man-woman pairing, and people absolutely don't want to extend that word to include other forms, then I think that's fine. Calling it something else is fine as long as the rights are equal to those of marriage. I think it's a reasonable compromise that still ensures equal rights.
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marriage is a stupid concept to begin with but it has socially practical applications. many coutries state in their constitutions how their norms are guided by divine teachings and religious boundaries, but it's probably time to move on from that. it's been a good while. christianity, or any other kind of religion for that matter, has ceased to aptly regulate and represent society dozens of years ago.
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