July 8th... The worst day ever.

**25thhour** · 07-8-2012, 03:47 PM

12 years ago today, I was riding my bike waiting for my dad to finish mowing the lawn. I took a ride around the block; it was such a beautiful day, in fact the temperature right now is a perfect resemblance to the temperature 12 years ago. As I biked down my road I noticed I couldn't hear the lawnmower anymore, I was excited so I peddled faster, as I neared I noticed the lawnmower was just sitting on the lawn and there was someone laying next to it.

"Dad, wake up" I yelled.
nothing...

I started screaming for my mom who was inside, and she came running out, and called 911.

The ambulance came almost 15 minutes later, and they carted away my motionless father.

My sister and I were told to go to the neighbours house and wait. We waited for what seemed like an enternity when my mom came back with the news we were dreading. My father had passed away.

I vividly remember her telling me that they revived him long enough to say that his final wish was for me and my sister to graduate with honors, I feel that I have accomplished that recently and that he is looking down from wherever he is, proud, that I never gave up and that I pushed through this major obstacle in my life...

R.I.P
<3
I love you dad!

I don't usually cry, but I am in tears as I write this.

**Jerry DB** · 07-8-2012, 03:50 PM

that is tragic, I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I'm sure you dad is looking down on you smiling

**25thhour** · 07-8-2012, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jerry DB

that is tragic, I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I'm sure you dad is looking down on you smiling

All in all, I believe this has made me a better person, because I have learned not to dwell on the past, but to use it to better yourself in the future.

**m0de** · 07-8-2012, 03:51 PM

i am extremely sorry for your loss. i was around the same age when i lost my father as well, so i somewhat feel your pain. keep your head up, and do the best in life you can. if you ever need someone to talk to just msg me dude~

**euphoriakisses** · 07-8-2012, 04:02 PM

RIP to your father dear. I'm sure he is very proud of you. Keep working hard and doing well.

**iironiic** · 07-8-2012, 04:24 PM

I also lost my dad about half a month ago to cancer. I'm sorry for your loss.

**TC_Halogen** · 07-8-2012, 04:48 PM

My condolences (to iironiic, as well).

**awein999** · 07-8-2012, 04:52 PM

I'm sorry for both of your losses, you are both strong people.

Sakish · 07-8-2012, 06:41 PM

Condolences bro..

I lost my dad a few years ago to alcohol..

And my moms boyfriend who practically was my dad (they had been dating for 10 years, since i was 8 years old) died 2years ago while jumping from the 10th floor.

As for being a better person today? I dont know, i can agree on the part about acknowledging things in the present for sure though.

**Sky Kitten** · 07-8-2012, 06:50 PM

My condolences, man. You're a really strong person for accomplishing what you want to do most.

**yo man im awesome** · 07-8-2012, 07:00 PM

May he continue to rest in peace man. I really am sorry to hear about that.

I know where you're coming from too, I lost my mother to cancer when I was in 3rd grade. I know how hard it is to handle and recover from, and I'm happy to see that you were able to.

I'd say that while it is unfortunate, sometimes it's only events like these that make some people truly appreciate their lives and what they have. I can say that after that day I woke up and realized just how stupid I was, and since then have done everything in my power to improve. I think I have.

Again, I really am sorry.

**Reincarnate** · 07-8-2012, 07:19 PM

Losing someone is always really tough and it sets you back pretty hard emotionally/financially/etc. It certainly requires you to be strong in order to climb back out of the hole, and it's something not a lot of people will understand since most people lose their parents later on in life.

EDIT: Lost my father in 2004 (8 years ago or so), although it may as well have been my mother, too, as we haven't really spoken much since then.

Duplica · 07-8-2012, 07:20 PM

be strong my friend. Imagine the look on his face knowing that you've succeeded in realizing his wishes

welsh_girl · 07-9-2012, 10:44 AM

Sorry to hear

You seem to have a strong head on you, though, I bet he likes that

You too, iironiic <3

**25thhour** · 07-9-2012, 01:44 PM

I Love you guys! You always seem to make me feel better. <3

07-8-2012, 03:47 PM	#1
25thhour *I like max* Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Vancouver/Burnaby/East Van Age: 30 Posts: 2,921	July 8th... The worst day ever. 12 years ago today, I was riding my bike waiting for my dad to finish mowing the lawn. I took a ride around the block; it was such a beautiful day, in fact the temperature right now is a perfect resemblance to the temperature 12 years ago. As I biked down my road I noticed I couldn't hear the lawnmower anymore, I was excited so I peddled faster, as I neared I noticed the lawnmower was just sitting on the lawn and there was someone laying next to it. "Dad, wake up" I yelled. nothing... I started screaming for my mom who was inside, and she came running out, and called 911. The ambulance came almost 15 minutes later, and they carted away my motionless father. My sister and I were told to go to the neighbours house and wait. We waited for what seemed like an enternity when my mom came back with the news we were dreading. My father had passed away. I vividly remember her telling me that they revived him long enough to say that his final wish was for me and my sister to graduate with honors, I feel that I have accomplished that recently and that he is looking down from wherever he is, proud, that I never gave up and that I pushed through this major obstacle in my life... R.I.P <3 I love you dad! I don't usually cry, but I am in tears as I write this. __________________ r bae adam bae max bae bridget bae claudia bae trevor bae adam2 bae mayo bae keith bae

07-8-2012, 03:50 PM	#2
Jerry DB FFR, lift, repeat Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: oregon Age: 32 Posts: 2,071	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. that is tragic, I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I'm sure you dad is looking down on you smiling __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

07-8-2012, 03:51 PM	#4
m0de Marble Eater Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Joliet, Illinois Age: 39 Posts: 1,437	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. i am extremely sorry for your loss. i was around the same age when i lost my father as well, so i somewhat feel your pain. keep your head up, and do the best in life you can. if you ever need someone to talk to just msg me dude~ __________________

07-8-2012, 04:02 PM	#5
euphoriakisses Big oof. Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Canada Age: 31 Posts: 274	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. RIP to your father dear. I'm sure he is very proud of you. Keep working hard and doing well.

07-8-2012, 04:24 PM	#6
iironiic D6 FFR Legacy Player Join Date: Jan 2009 Age: 32 Posts: 4,342	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. I also lost my dad about half a month ago to cancer. I'm sorry for your loss.

07-8-2012, 04:48 PM	#7
TC_Halogen Rhythm game specialist. Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Bel Air, Maryland Age: 32 Posts: 19,376	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. My condolences (to iironiic, as well).

07-8-2012, 06:41 PM	#9
Sakish FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: I beat your score on 1.2 Posts: 2,973	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. Condolences bro.. I lost my dad a few years ago to alcohol.. And my moms boyfriend who practically was my dad (they had been dating for 10 years, since i was 8 years old) died 2years ago while jumping from the 10th floor. As for being a better person today? I dont know, i can agree on the part about acknowledging things in the present for sure though.

07-8-2012, 06:50 PM	#10
Sky Kitten Crazy Cat Lady Community Manager, User Support Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 30 Posts: 1,079	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. My condolences, man. You're a really strong person for accomplishing what you want to do most. __________________ FMO AAAs (22): Heavenly Spores, .357 Magnum, Pure Ruby, VS Boss Battle, Black, You Goddamn Fish, Faint Breath, Epilogue, Crimson Flood, Zombie Killing Blood Spilling, Saffron City (offline), Fast Asleep, R2, Her Majesty, Defection, Happy Meal, Bit Blue, Stupor of Peace, Tightwad, Progressive jikuu shoujo! Urashima Taroko-chan!, Annihilator Method, Skyfire Ace

07-8-2012, 07:19 PM	#12
Reincarnate x'); DROP TABLE FFR;-- Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6,332	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. Losing someone is always really tough and it sets you back pretty hard emotionally/financially/etc. It certainly requires you to be strong in order to climb back out of the hole, and it's something not a lot of people will understand since most people lose their parents later on in life. EDIT: Lost my father in 2004 (8 years ago or so), although it may as well have been my mother, too, as we haven't really spoken much since then.

07-8-2012, 07:20 PM	#13
Duplica FFR Player Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Canada Age: 30 Posts: 205	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. be strong my friend. Imagine the look on his face knowing that you've succeeded in realizing his wishes __________________ u look like shit

07-9-2012, 10:44 AM	#14
welsh_girl FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Cymru, U.K Age: 34 Posts: 1,365	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. Sorry to hear You seem to have a strong head on you, though, I bet he likes that You too, iironiic <3

07-9-2012, 01:44 PM	#15
25thhour *I like max* Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Vancouver/Burnaby/East Van Age: 30 Posts: 2,921	Re: July 8th... The worst day ever. I Love you guys! You always seem to make me feel better. <3 __________________ r bae adam bae max bae bridget bae claudia bae trevor bae adam2 bae mayo bae keith bae

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