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Old 07-8-2018, 08:40 PM   #1
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Default Why do I sometimes feel ugly?

I don't know why, but sometimes I just feel like garbage.

I feel beautiful a lot, espiecally when I'm presenting female, but there's just some days where I'm not feeling it. I'ts not even from bullying or anything like that, it's just my body refuses to be happy.

Maybe it's anxiety, in fact, that's probably a very likely reason, I just don't know for sure. The world seems to be bipolar, sometimes everyoen hates me for being trans and says that I look like shit, other days, people say I look hot and they like me.

I don't know. I WANT THE TRUTH.!

(pics are on reddit / insta if you've never seen me irl. Reddit: u/crayonization Insta: @ashe826. Sorry for the plug, just feel it's much needed to context to this post)
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:07 PM   #2
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we're all beaituful
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:11 PM   #3
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because u are
You're in the minority there, mate
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:16 PM   #4
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You're in the minority there, mate
Well I mean, if you make a thread specifically saying you feel ugly and someone says you are.

Maybe, just maybe, there could be some truth to it?

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Old 07-8-2018, 09:17 PM   #5
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Well I mean, if you make a thread specifically saying you feel ugly and someone says you are.

Maybe, just maybe, there could be some truth to it?

#DeepThoughts
#Whoa
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Ninja also isn't into women so that might skew his opinion
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:21 PM   #6
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Default Re: Why do I sometimes feel ugly?

I think every single person has those days

you see people at the top of whatever they're doing, just when they do something wrong or when they're feeling down on themselves say something like "I am the worst at Stepmania" "I can't believe how ugly my [insert thing or things] makes me look" when actually they're really good at whatever they're doing

its just how humans are sometimes

you're going to have days where you feel ugly, regardless of all else.
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:22 PM   #7
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I think every single person has those days

you see people at the top of whatever they're doing, just when they do something wrong or when they're feeling down on themselves say something like "I am the worst at Stepmania" "I can't believe how ugly my [insert thing or things] makes me look" when actually they're really good at whatever they're doing

its just how humans are sometimes

you're going to have days where you feel ugly, regardless of all else.
I kind of know the inevitable "I'm feeling down" days will come every once in a while, I just don't get why they are always so sad when they do happen.
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:23 PM   #8
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I think every single person has those days

you see people at the top of whatever they're doing, just when they do something wrong or when they're feeling down on themselves say something like "I am the worst at Stepmania" "I can't believe how ugly my [insert thing or things] makes me look" when actually they're really good at whatever they're doing

its just how humans are sometimes

you're going to have days where you feel ugly, regardless of all else.
This speaks to me.
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:27 PM   #9
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FFR's probably not the best place to fish for compliments
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:31 PM   #10
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I looked at your reddit (per your advice) and all I found was this:

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FFR's probably not the best place to fish for compliments
Well, yeah.

Wasn't even my intention to begin with, why are you commenting on the obvious?
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:32 PM   #12
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Don't worry about it, you're a good looking dude!
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:32 PM   #13
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Oh my god. What?

Why did you search for that? How did you find it?

Oh no...
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:32 PM   #14
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certainly brings some activity to this barren place
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certainly brings some activity to this barren place
Yep. These forums do have very little activity
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:34 PM   #16
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Well, yeah.

Wasn't even my intention to begin with, why are you commenting on the obvious?
Because you're kind of are
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:35 PM   #17
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a good roy can beat any mew2king
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:35 PM   #18
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Because you're kind of are
I'm not
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Old 07-8-2018, 09:36 PM   #19
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If people are only liking you because they think you're attractive, probably shouldn't care about their opinions. They seem quite shallow.

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a good roy can beat any mew2king
Roy is more powerful than pichu tho
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