So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... - Page 3

**Zageron** · 11-3-2010, 04:15 PM

Buying items/trinkets for people all the time is a really bad idea. They should appreciate you for the comfort and company you give them, and the dates you take them on. (Not the presents they get from you.)

DotKritic · 11-3-2010, 04:22 PM

When she comes back for you, but for advice and you want to help, be careful what you say. My ex occasionally overreacts when I give her advice. And it's pretty damn good honest advice.

edit: As for the items you got her, unless she gives them back to you, you're pretty much out of luck.

Litodude · 11-3-2010, 04:26 PM

Hey is this your ex

Play Nice

has she seen this thread

sameoldbloodrush! · 11-3-2010, 05:13 PM

Even dating someone for two years, if they act that way obviously they aren't mature enough to be in a serious relationship. Sounds like you were generous to her and treated her how any girl would want to be treated, basically. Lollll. Like everyone else said already, it's probably best to be done with her.

Simply said:
Mom sounds like a prostitute, and she just sounds like a bitch.

Sweet Serenity · 11-3-2010, 05:23 PM

Time heals all wounds. Just give her time, she'll come to her senses. If giving your girlfriend flowers causes her to bitch and scream at you, I don't even WANT to know what would happen if she caught you cheating on her or something..

Litodude · 11-3-2010, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Litodude

Hey is this your ex

http://www.facebook.com/brianne.langlois

has she seen this thread

i just can't wait until she reads this thread, lmfao

Sweet Serenity · 11-3-2010, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Etylukah

Invest your time in your own life.
???
Profit.

This is wrong.

Izzy · 11-3-2010, 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet Serenity

This is wrong.

This is an opinion.

**iironiic** · 11-3-2010, 05:48 PM

I have an economics test tomorrow, so I'm going to strangely use some terminology here to explain what you should do lol.

To me, she is a sunk cost, or a cost that already has been paid and cannot be recovered. You have paid so much effort to revive this relationship since you obviously have feelings (understandable if you were dating her for almost two years). But hey, what's the point of paying when she refuses to love you?

Think about this... it's like paying an annual membership fee to any gym. Do you try and work out all the time to maximize your gains from the money spent to be a member for a year? Who has the time commitment to achieve such goals?

Similarly, you need to realize that she is not for you. If her parents can't appreciate you, what's the point in trying?

Props to economics.

Yallipoomooboo · 11-3-2010, 05:52 PM

Don't try talking to her. It may be hard at times and you might feel like it'd be the right thing to do, but it won't be worth it. Nothing said will benefit you in any way. It'd be best if you stayed single for awhile to evaluate what you've learned from this experience.

If she's going to act like this now, she'll act like this again.

However, there's no need to be rude to her, either. ;P

RobertsonaIsBack · 11-3-2010, 05:55 PM

so heres what u do you gotta gets ome whipped cream and then cover youre dick in it and then put it in your pants and go to her house and youll be like i have a present and shell be like oh what is it sigh and then whip (get it) out youre dick and shell be like wtf you creep and youll be like EAT IT so then she starts eatin it and then shes like thanks and youll be like no problem bitch just one thign that was secretly shaving cream and then just walk away

**virus003** · 11-3-2010, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Emo_Saur_

Her mother and your girlfriend have the same PMS schedule.

i loled

Anyways, if she doesn't want to be with you, you're just gonna have to let it go, there's plenty of fish in the sea. If you would have posted more background information instead of just saying what happened earlier, I mean post what problems you two were having before and stuff.

Sweet Serenity · 11-3-2010, 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iironiic

I have an economics test tomorrow, so I'm going to strangely use some terminology here to explain what you should do lol.

To me, she is a sunk cost, or a cost that already has been paid and cannot be recovered. You have paid so much effort to revive this relationship since you obviously have feelings (understandable if you were dating her for almost two years). But hey, what's the point of paying when she refuses to love you?

Think about this... it's like paying an annual membership fee to any gym. Do you try and work out all the time to maximize your gains from the money spent to be a member for a year? Who has the time commitment to achieve such goals?

Similarly, you need to realize that she is not for you. If her parents can't appreciate you, what's the point in trying?

Props to economics.

I understood all of this. Perfectly. I'm proud of myself. Microeconomics ftw.

Sweet Serenity · 11-3-2010, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Izzy

This is an opinion.

I realize that it's an opinion. I was pointing out that it's wrong in terms of how she used the ??? profit meme. It's four steps, not three.

**adlp** · 11-3-2010, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Litodude

i just can't wait until she reads this thread, lmfao

rofl is that really her how did you find her

**TC_Halogen** · 11-3-2010, 06:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RobertsonaIsBack

so heres what u do you gotta gets ome whipped cream and then cover youre dick in it and then put it in your pants and go to her house and youll be like i have a present and shell be like oh what is it sigh and then whip (get it) out youre dick and shell be like wtf you creep and youll be like EAT IT so then she starts eatin it and then shes like thanks and youll be like no problem bitch just one thign that was secretly shaving cream and then just walk away

...as if you were old enough to make any sort of actual comment toward thi--ANYWAY

I personally agree with what Marcus said - distance yourself from her; your relationship is turbulent enough that separating from her wouldn't do you any harm, but also gives you the opportunity to let her cool off and possibly resolve issues. And if it doesn't happen that way, you won't have to deal with any drama since you've opted to not contact her anymore.

**lumphoboextreme** · 11-3-2010, 06:56 PM

dick move if you really did link his gf to the thread lol

OneHandNow · 11-3-2010, 07:04 PM

Litodude · 11-3-2010, 07:55 PM

actually what i did i probably the best move if the problem is miscommunication and that she's too stubborn to understand what the **** he thinks.

his ex, knowing that he thinks she and her mother are stuck-up bitches is probably a good thing, because she now understand his true feelings.

probably.

**adlp** · 11-3-2010, 08:16 PM

lito i give you mad props

im still laughing lol

11-3-2010, 04:15 PM	#41
Zageron Zageron E. Tazaterra RRR Developer & DevOps Support Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: BC Age: 32 Posts: 6,586	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... Buying items/trinkets for people all the time is a really bad idea. They should appreciate you for the comfort and company you give them, and the dates you take them on. (Not the presents they get from you.) __________________ Help Develop FFR

11-3-2010, 04:22 PM	#42
DotKritic Forum User Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Houston Age: 19 Posts: 2,964	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... When she comes back for you, but for advice and you want to help, be careful what you say. My ex occasionally overreacts when I give her advice. And it's pretty damn good honest advice. edit: As for the items you got her, unless she gives them back to you, you're pretty much out of luck. __________________ FFR Member Since December 17th, 2004

11-3-2010, 05:23 PM	#45
Sweet Serenity FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 53	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... Time heals all wounds. Just give her time, she'll come to her senses. If giving your girlfriend flowers causes her to bitch and scream at you, I don't even WANT to know what would happen if she caught you cheating on her or something.. __________________ 甘い穏やか平和愛

11-3-2010, 05:48 PM	#49
iironiic D6 FFR Legacy Player Join Date: Jan 2009 Age: 32 Posts: 4,342	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... I have an economics test tomorrow, so I'm going to strangely use some terminology here to explain what you should do lol. To me, she is a sunk cost, or a cost that already has been paid and cannot be recovered. You have paid so much effort to revive this relationship since you obviously have feelings (understandable if you were dating her for almost two years). But hey, what's the point of paying when she refuses to love you? Think about this... it's like paying an annual membership fee to any gym. Do you try and work out all the time to maximize your gains from the money spent to be a member for a year? Who has the time commitment to achieve such goals? Similarly, you need to realize that she is not for you. If her parents can't appreciate you, what's the point in trying? Props to economics.

11-3-2010, 05:52 PM	#50
Yallipoomooboo FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mountain Home, ID Posts: 6	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... Don't try talking to her. It may be hard at times and you might feel like it'd be the right thing to do, but it won't be worth it. Nothing said will benefit you in any way. It'd be best if you stayed single for awhile to evaluate what you've learned from this experience. If she's going to act like this now, she'll act like this again. However, there's no need to be rude to her, either. ;P

11-3-2010, 06:56 PM	#57
lumphoboextreme FFR Veteran Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Age: 33 Posts: 8,592	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... dick move if you really did link his gf to the thread lol __________________

11-3-2010, 07:04 PM	#58
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11-3-2010, 08:16 PM	#60
adlp FFR Veteran Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,757	Re: So me and my girlfriend are in a fight... lito i give you mad props im still laughing lol

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