What do you like or dislike about other people?

[Jtehanonymous]

I dislike people who are overly critical or insult them self too much. There's only so many times you can put yourself down before I don't want to assure you anymore that you are a person of value. I shouldn't have to do that for someone all the time.

I also don't enjoy it when people speak too much. When having a conversation you should find the right moments to speak and then give others a chance to contribute. I meet too many people who inanely ramble just to fill silence.

What's concerning is that negative traits of people immediately pop into mind, but I'm struggling to find solid positive ones. >.>

[Bluearrowll]

Originally Posted by Jtehanonymous

I dislike people who are overly critical or insult them self too much. There's only so many times you can put yourself down before I don't want to assure you anymore that you are a person of value. I shouldn't have to do that for someone all the time.

I also don't enjoy it when people speak too much. When having a conversation you should find the right moments to speak and then give others a chance to contribute. I meet too many people who inanely ramble just to fill silence.

What's concerning is that negative traits of people immediately pop into mind, but I'm struggling to find solid positive ones. >.>

[kommisar]

I like people who are upbeat and willing to do things. As an individual I find it difficult to hype up groups of people if I'm the only one hyped to do things, as generic and mundane as they may be.

Drinking tonight and playing Mario Kart 8? Fuck yeah!

vs.

Drinking tonight and playing Mario Kart 8? yeah sure.


being a hype man is hard sometimes. it also makes me want to do things more when others are into it as much as I am. see all of magfest.

[gold stinger]

People who don't get to the point when asked and feel obligated to explain the entire story without actually explaining the point.

[MinaciousGrace]

U musr lwEN to complain without suffering

[_Fluttershy_]

Originally Posted by Toxophilis

i get along with most people but i dont like when people respond with 'k' or other really half-assed responses especially if im really enthusiastic about something i usually distance myself from them because its not worth the effort

^ This right here. That's one of my pet peeves. Whenever I put effort into putting a point across or at least just mentioning something and describing it in detail and receiving a response of 'ok' 'k' 'alright' etc. and just basically killing the discussion there and then is frustrating for me.

I tend to get along with a lot of people and I always like to see the good in people. I'm a very tolerant individual so I tend to search for positives as opposed to negatives.

[kommisar]

"K" or "lol" one-liners are a pet peeve of mine



I wrote you a huge elaborate paragraph about why I'm so excited about something, and you can't even share that enthusiasm a little bit. You genuinely don't care. We can't be friends.

[Funnygurl555]

when stuff like that happens i just make a mental note to distance myself and not talk about my life much

that being said i'm guilty of doing that when i don't understand what someone is saying (lol rip hearing/reading abilities) or i don't have any knowledge of what the person is talking about.
like if someone goes on and on about something and i have no clue what that thing is i'm just like, "welp, gj but what."

Originally Posted by Mahou

I don't like people who are condescending to one another.

I agree. I also don't like people who are pretentious.
Especially the ones who try to pack as many big words as possible into a phrase to appear smarter than they actually are
just to misuse those words.

[danny53x]

I like people who have patience for others. I dislike most loud people.

[Velious]

i dislike people that project their insecurities onto others, also dumb bitches, the kind that can speak for an hour but have no sense of humor or anything substantial to say, bonus points if they are really prude until they down a few drinks, it's like damn bitch how transparent but yeah next round's on me. self-loathing people (that show it) are also difficult to be around.

i like 1337 people, funny/nice/smart/genuine any mix of the 4

[One Winged Angel]

I hate when in conversation with a group of people about someone's personal problems, regardless of what's being discussed, another person tries to make an analogy about a similar situation they've been in and how they overcame it personally. That sounds pretty asshole-ish of me if I stopped there, but I'm referring to the people that try to make this analogy regardless of how obscure or specific the person's problem is, often to the point where their comparison makes almost literally no sense, and their sole contribution to the discussion is this extremely left-field non sequitur that makes myself and others feel like they're only trying to shift the focus of attention to themselves. Also the fact that these people believe they can empathize with literally anything annoys me to no end.

If you have boobs I'll probably like you.

[xVaLoRx]

i rly hate it when people play stepmania with their fingers and then say they're going to "step" a file

[Wafles]

lol valor


Only people I don't like are people who owe me money...which is too many people right now :/

[choof]

til wafles is a mafioso

[dAnceguy117]

Stuff I think is cool: empathy, sense of humor, patience. I'm slow ok please wait up. If you do that you're my friend.

Not a lot on my dislike list, but:

Originally Posted by Buta-san

Ppl who judge

would be #1. Really don't enjoy hearing someone talk this and that about what other people I know and care for are doing "wrong" with their lives. It makes me feel highly uncomfortable.

[Charles Claythorne]

omg gr8 topic funnygurl

Presuming "Like" means I want to be friends and "Dislike" means I don't want to hang around people with those traits.

Like:
People Who Are Nice and Respectful - DUHHH. And I don't mean just to me, but people in general, whether it's children, disagreeable persons, or otherwise. Anyone can be respectful to a respectful person, but not necessarily someone rude or innocent. Those who can are the true gentility of society!!!
danceguys - p. cool and doesnt afraids of anything
funnygurls - p. funny. i think theyre wolves and not gurls tho
People With Pretty Hair - you never said this had to exclusively have to do with personality
Knowledgeable People - I like it when I can learn important stuff from my friends.



Dislike:
Overly-sensitive People - Can't really think of a better phrase, but as in, people who make a big deal of something simply because a small minority finds it annoying or offensive. I'm not saying people should be tactless and make rape/Holocaust/terrorist type jokes with blatant disregard, but it's frustrating for that one person to raise a complaint for the hypothetical person that would have been offended if he/she were present. I don't like it when a person raises distaste over something trifling either, but I can understand in certain cases when the person has a serious issue on the matter (eg. someone suffering OCD).
Backbiters - I don't mind people speaking behind others back if there's a purpose; warning someone that Person A is rude and disrespectful if he/she is visiting your house or hurt the speaker's feeling or anything similar is very different from complaining about Person A when you'll never meet the person.
People Who Don't Believe in Anything with Scientific Backing - h8. I don't understand why anyone could possibly want to hinder themselves from becoming smarter.
People Who Don't Like Moonheaters - smh

[koga939]

Originally Posted by One Winged Angel

If you have boobs I'll probably like you.

yes




first off, anyone that calls me "guy" should probably kill themselves or something
same with anyone who tries to be a gangster on the internet, lmfao
mostly, i hate people who constantly ask for shit without being much or any use in return. (but those who do stuff for others a lot are pretty nice.)

things i like about people: idk i've always been friends with people who are unpopular and generally disliked for specific reasons, you simply don't need to be a piece of shit.
funny people are the best tho. ty funny people.

[Mahou]

Originally Posted by One Winged Angel

If you have boobs I'll probably like you.

[JurseyRider734]

i have boobs so that means you guys like me right

[Hateandhatred]

Food picture in op.

Anyway as strange as it may seem to the ones who have met me, I tend to prefer calmer, quiet people. But overall I'm alright with all kinds of individuals that are simply nice. Even if they aren't exactly the kinda people I befriend, the only way to see wether or not we can be good friend is how our relationship develops. I don't make much of an opinion on people before that. I kinda like people to keep their distances though. I can be a super energetic person, and I'll genuinely enjoy it, but it wears me out very quickly. So people who are nice and who are fine with not talking to me IRL for months and then pick it up where we left off are probably the most likely to be fine with me.