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View Poll Results: Would you stay in a relationship if your partner had zero interest in intimacy? | |||
Yes | 40 | 35.71% | |
No | 72 | 64.29% | |
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04-17-2014, 03:56 AM | #61 |
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04-17-2014, 04:14 AM | #63 |
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04-17-2014, 04:44 AM | #64 |
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04-17-2014, 04:48 AM | #65 |
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04-17-2014, 05:31 AM | #66 |
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04-17-2014, 05:32 AM | #67 |
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04-17-2014, 09:11 AM | #68 |
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I'd find it nearly impossible to believe they actually love me if they can't even hug me or cuddle or sleep next to me, let alone kiss or have sex.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with two people in love being intimate. If someone isn't interested in being intimate then they probably don't love you or aren't capable of loving you. Also real asexuality is probably closer to the rarity of SEPA patients. I doubt I'd believe anyone who claimed to be asexual. Last edited by Izzy; 04-17-2014 at 09:15 AM.. |
04-17-2014, 10:07 AM | #69 |
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I can't believe the audacity of people who dare to say that they know how someone else is better than the individual does. Even if you knew them really, really well, that's still just...Like, yes we're all humans but no, we're not all the same. Yes, are own selves is all we have to go by to really -get- someone, but we also have brains and language to communicate.
Either that or people just think everyone goes around lying for some reason?? Anyways, I think I'd be alright with 'not have sex with my partner' but not with no physical intimacy. Like, the reason long-distance relationships suck is because there's no physical contact. Some people generally don't want to be touched at all really though, not just sexually. I would also have a hard time believing someone loved me if they didn't want to touch. Are those people aromantic? Last edited by Cavernio; 04-17-2014 at 10:13 AM.. |
04-17-2014, 10:08 AM | #70 |
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if someone had zero intimate interest in me it would make me feel physically unattractive and that's a very important part of relationships imo. #STOPUGLYPEOPLE
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04-17-2014, 10:11 AM | #71 | |
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04-17-2014, 10:11 AM | #72 |
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Because there is a difference between "I don't want to have sex" and "asexual" that people who claim to be asexual probably don't understand. Or claiming to be asexual is there only ticket out of a bad situation that would hurt somebody.
Either way I'm only saying that I wouldn't believe them very easily. It would be difficult to convince me. I would never hands down say that something is absolutely true or false. |
04-17-2014, 10:16 AM | #73 |
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Well unless your pleasure parts are broken somehow, there is the capacity for orgasm in even asexual people. That's how I'm defining asexuality right now. Although that said, most of us have probably experienced not as orgasmic orgasms, and for someone who isn't actively seeking pleasure, they probably just don't get as much pleasure from it as other people otherwise would also. Pleasure-seeking is going to be tied to pleasure-getting.
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04-17-2014, 10:16 AM | #74 | |
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In my case, in my two previous relationships I slept with both partners because I didn't want to lose them. I have never found a person sexually attractive, but I do appreciate beauty. For example, boobs are sweet. I hope this clears a few things up for those of you who are too ignorant to look up the actual definition. TL;DR: asexuality has nothing to do with if they want sex or not |
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04-17-2014, 10:24 AM | #75 | |
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It's basically like you are saying that everyone who isn't a shallow and only judges people based on sex is asexual. To me it sounds like you are just making up definitions to fulfill your personal beliefs. You can describe yourself however you want, but trying to make it fit into an unrelated broader definition isn't the way to do it. Ah, I see your religious. Never mind. Just do whatever you want. |
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04-17-2014, 10:25 AM | #76 |
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Ok well by that definition I'm asexual because physical features generally aren't what turn me on. But there's no freakin way in hell I'm identifying as asexual.
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04-17-2014, 10:27 AM | #77 | |
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And yeah, I'm not religious, that's why I changed the boobs thing from 'gods gift' which was a figure of speech not a literal thing. EDIT: I am saying looks because, obviously, I have no idea how people define sexual attraction, having never experienced anything of the sort. If you guys are attracted to other things then by all means, it includes that too. |
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04-17-2014, 10:29 AM | #78 |
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Probably less than 10 men I've been sexually aroused by merely their physical appearance.
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04-17-2014, 10:31 AM | #79 | |
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Cavernio: Sexually Asexual or Asexusally Sexual?????
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04-17-2014, 10:34 AM | #80 | |
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That's why i mostly have to agree to the above.
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