Old 12-21-2012, 04:07 PM   #21
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note: insecure partners are not worth the investment
as simple as it sounds this is really solid advice.

if your gf has self-confidence issues or insecurities that cause such toxic behaviors its better to move on unless she can fix these (hint: she probably cant)

that being said, i do wish you good luck with this current girl, sounds like a pain and i personally wouldnt want to deal with it haha
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Old 12-21-2012, 04:43 PM   #22
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Old 12-21-2012, 06:23 PM   #23
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The nickname's just a symbol. She's jealous of this girl and if it weren't the nickname it'd be something else b/w you and your ex that upsets her.
I've been jealous of platonic relationships, in fact I suspect I'd be more bothered by a really close friendship than a physical relationship, although I don't have that experience to fall back on. Different things bother different people.
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Old 12-21-2012, 06:44 PM   #24
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Old 12-21-2012, 11:25 PM   #25
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omg this times a million. I dated a girl back in high school with serious self esteem issues so when I went off to college she constantly bitched at me and accused me of cheating on her every day (which I didn't I remained faithful). It was really gay.
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Old 12-22-2012, 12:40 AM   #26
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how old are you and your girlfriend haha
if this is really true your 'gf' just sounds stupid as hell. what an obscure thing to make a dispute over.
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:06 AM   #27
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Never talk about ex's, its hurts the other one, its normal we're all like this, whoever denies it, u'll see when it happens to you.
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Old 12-22-2012, 02:21 AM   #28
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i have been dating my girlfriend since 10th grade & it's been 3 years, trust me i know exactly how that goes. basically, as funmonkey said, the only thing that should matter in that whole situation is her opinion. if you don't like her enough to change a smallish thing then why even bother with having an 'issue' about it?

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Old 12-22-2012, 04:46 AM   #29
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The asshole in me wants to tell your girlfriend to stop being a pussy little bitch about it.

The concerned forum poster in me wants to tell your girlfriend nearly the same thing.
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:17 AM   #30
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relationships can be pretty gay sometimes
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:34 PM   #31
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She may be mistaking your use of a nickname as a form of affection or endearment towards her, as sometimes is the case with nicknames when used towards someone of the opposite sex

Depending on how the fight went, the bigger problem could be how the two of you deal with conflict rather than this silly nickname problem
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Old 12-22-2012, 06:28 PM   #32
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you sound like a nerd and your girlfriend is trying to make you sound less nerdy because your nickname for your ex is m'lady dragonborne or some shit and she don't wanna be seen with no scrub
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Old 12-22-2012, 07:00 PM   #33
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you sound like a nerd and your girlfriend is trying to make you sound less nerdy because your nickname for your ex is m'lady dragonborne or some shit and she don't wanna be seen with no scrub
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Old 12-23-2012, 02:54 AM   #34
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i have been dating my girlfriend since 10th grade & it's been 3 years, trust me i know exactly how that goes. basically, as funmonkey said, the only thing that should matter in that whole situation is her opinion. if you don't like her enough to change a smallish thing then why even bother with having an 'issue' about it?
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Old 12-23-2012, 03:56 AM   #35
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yep changing 4 a person is whack
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Old 12-23-2012, 08:43 AM   #36
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bunch o' betas up in this --

seriously, you shouldnt have to deal with insecure, commanding, egotistical bitches, so just move on if she freaks out on you just because you use a childhood nickname for your friend.
thats ridiculous and probably just the "tip of the iceberg" of her behaviors towards you or relationships in general.

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Old 12-23-2012, 08:46 AM   #37
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In a working relationship a bit of adaptation is necessary. Not changing yourself entirely, but learning to shape your way of being considering the other person's desires and needs is the solution imho. This is not the case though, as your girl is getting her panties in a bunch for something that is objectively harmless. If for every little thing that goes wrong (this IS a little thing afterall) you say it's better to break up, how do you think you can ever have a long-term relationship?
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i have been dating my girlfriend since 10th grade & it's been 3 years, trust me i know exactly how that goes. basically, as funmonkey said, the only thing that should matter in that whole situation is her opinion. if you don't like her enough to change a smallish thing then why even bother with having an 'issue' about it?
Damn seems you had your balls taken away. According to this your opinion means nothing and that insecure partners are the hottest.
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