08-25-2018, 12:45 AM
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Antarctica
Age: 32
Posts: 510
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Re: are ideas such as "respect" or "being nice" mutually understood, or are they vagu
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Originally Posted by Hakulyte
My guess would be that she's more the indirect type and if you help her without asking her, she may be confused by your intentions and say that.
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It doesn't matter if you ask if she wants help or not, she refuses it either way. She's the type of person that panics/complains she's busy instead of actually doing the work. Because we work in emergency, it's so important that you work in a team, accept help (I feel like she sees help as being 'weak' + she's already said that myself and other young staff are trying to take her job) and if she's flustering about not doing anything productive, while refusing to accept help, I'm just gonna do it. Cos otherwise things won't get done. Trust me, myself, management and several other staff have called her out on it a million times with no improvement.
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