[Reincarnate]

Pseudo Enigma: You missed the point. The point is that it does not always "take two to tango."

I would not be surprised if you yourself were raised in a toxic environment, because such individuals can have a hard time understanding what constitutes healthy vs unhealthy behavior.

Originally Posted by Pseudo Enigma

But if he's not following rules, his dad has all the choice in the world how to deal with him.

In a word: No, he doesn't.

Under what circumstance is shooting your kid's stuff a reasoned or rational response to a disagreement?

I urge you to think about what you're saying, here.