Although you are surrounded by darkness and sadness, i want you to understand that there's an internal flame called "The light". "The Light" is love, and if you have love, not even the whole universe and its darkness can hide that flame, won't consume that one flame.

If the whole universe was black and dark, and i took a match and lit it, even if the match is very small, the mass of the universe cannot take that flame, you as an individual, i want you to know:
you are that flame.
And no matter how big the sadness, the mass of darkness is, it can never win against that flame, that fire, and that fire is love and that's one of the greatest strenght a human can havem don't you ever forget that.

Nothing on earth and its despair can take away that power to love.

Taking your own life is taking away from those you love.
If those you love are no longer with you. they surely do not want you to join them and not enjoy life.

For those who are too sad, i want you to really understand that there are always people that love and care for you.
Be encouraged, be strong and no matter what try to love.

When it gets really tough, please seek professional help.
Seek guidance and support. Never give up life itself, contact many wonderful people who want to help you.
If you can not seek professional help, we as friends desire to help you the best we can.

Your life is to precious for you to selfishly take away from others.

What isn't attractive is when a person says things out of their mouth that are bad, let's get that out of the way.
You can physically be very handsome or beautiful, you can have all the attributes to be attractive in the outside, but if you have nothing but ugliness in the inside, everything you'll say will show that.

Let me give you some examples of what attractiveness is:
1.- attractive is intelligent
2.- attractive is fair
3.- attractive is gentle
4.- attractive is strong
5.- attractive is always positive
6.- attractive is encouraging
7.- attractive is love
8.- attractive is to always smile

Even an ugly person, physically, when they're happy and smiling and they show their inner happiness, that makes it very attractive to the human soul, everyone deserves to be happy, later you'll maybe understand that we all want to feel happiness and joy.

Somebody who is positive, encouraging, sympathetic and loving, is somebody attractive .When somebody is down and they need help and want love, those attributes, when you offer them to that person. that will make you attractive.
I want you to really consider those attributes OK?

Let me give you a last example of attractiveness:
When somebody seeks for a wise council and you're there and are really wise, intelligent and have a lot of understanding... even a dumb person understands what is an intelligent person; a smart person with great wisdom is attractive.